And thank you for proving my point.
You do realise that ADHD, dyslexia and ASD have no impact on how intelligent a child might be, and most of them have to work harder than their non-disabled peers. That's why they end up with burnout, anxiety and mental health issues on top of their disabilities.
I'm sure yours will sail through life after school with their intellect, hard work and attitude.
Maybe now you might understand a) why those who can afford to try and give their child a chance at a small size class or a quieter, non-disruptive environment might well try and fund private school, and b) why those of us who SEN kids in state do not welcome this situation as it benefits no-one.