I think Diana's description of Steiner Waldorf parents is so true,
"I think most of them DO KNOW AND FEEL deep down that something is wrong there - that to be true to their own children they have to wiggle and slide around the facts at the Steiner school. No one can come right out and sign on the dotted line with half the wacko stuff the school actually espouses. People like Linda and Deborah are there to lie outright about what the philosphy teaches; the other mums there are just ordinary Steiner mums - nervous, neurotic, insecure in their parenting and looking for guidance. They're actually perfectly aware two-thirds of it is bats. They don't have the confidence to leave and go it alone without a structure like that, even a wacky structure from a questionable guru is better than no structure."
There's some real complacence in Steiner Waldorf circles too.....
One Steiner Waldorf parent explains what attracted her to the education, which wasn't the usual things like delayed academics, the spiritual or natural healthy aspects, it was because the students "were very cool."
Talk about superficial reason ...
the same mother likens living with her Steiner educated children to living with The Bloomsbury Group. So that means living with a bunch of middle class, bourgois diletantes, who look down on those they feel are inferior, make some second rate crafts and sleep around in various strange combinations.
Yes, sounds like Steiner school kids, the exception being that the Bloomsbury group could actually paint rather than copy.