Zooey wrote:
"And let's say, Michaelmass in itself isn't the problem. I don't think it's directly harmful (I think it can be, taken into context of all other weird things in waldorf, though). What is harmful is the inability to discuss it and be honest about it."
For the record, I fully agree. I don't have any problem with anybody celebrating Michaelmas, or "following" St. Michael, believing he's an archangel or whatever it is they believe about him (Regent of this Planetary Era or something like that). Fine - he seems well intentioned, though I don't go for all the medieval sword wielding stuff, personally, or think it is necessarily all perfectly wholesome for children (there's images I'd rather impress on children, personally).
But lots of religions celebrate similar myths; this is not some kind of problem for society.
The problem for society is groups that aren't honest, groups that operate by stealth, especially where children are involved. Saying that is unhealthy is an understatement - it's antidemocratic and fundamentally dangerous, in my view. The secrecy and hiding are what create the very disturbed environments and that is when children get hurt. It isn't the specific beliefs of the group, which are really no wackier than any other religion. It is the dysfunctional behavior of the adults that endangers children.