If your child was given lines for something they say they didn't do

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And they refused to do them and then they were doubled and they still refused and you could see no way of it being resolved - would you just tell you son to do them

'you are not angel and do them for all the times you were mucking around and didn't get caught' - type thing

God this is when i need dh around as I am to emotional

I do agree that there seems to be An Issue with the choirmaster. He doesn't sound Nice. he sounds like an old fashioned bully. It may be wise for your Ds to keep his head way below the parapet for a while.