MumTryingHerBest, Obviously grammars are to late for my DC. But I would hope a grammar would do several things: Have a large enough concentration of academic children to enable subjects to be taught at a higher level. To have more academic subjects. To stretch and challenge the brightest children. To have a culture and expectation that an A* isn't the pinnacle of achievement. To have extra curricular activities suitable for academic children. To NOT have teachers that tell you to stop supporting your child to learn as much as they can. To support application to the best uni courses. etc etc
My DC is ahead in all GCSE subjects, in old money he will get A* in at least 10 (+2 out of school). New 9-1 its hard to be so specific but will be expecting at least 8-9 in most subjects (Maths and Science he is usually 97-100% in all past papers).
noblegiraffe
I really despair at your perspective as a teacher and it reinforces why the comprehensive system is so flawed. I have never specifically taught my DC any of the schools curriculum. I have always taught my DC in a way that makes learning fun, which leads to wanting to learn and increases his knowledge to the extent where the curriculum is so fecking easy its boring. I mean your implying what his reception teacher said a decade ago, "stop teaching your child to read, what are we supposed to do with him if he already knows how to read". 