How can you eat at the same table as yourself? Surely you have oafish manners and lack the ability to have an avant-garde conversation?
I try very hard not to :P
I spent too much of my life trying to reconcile the culture of my state school with my homelife ( and failing) as I never quite got theidea. My DM believing that by putting me in a diverse background mixing with so many who were so different from me would give me a head start by enabling me to mix with all sorts of people. I was my DM's social experiment.
It didnt help at all. I turned out one confused little boy until I found out about social class and all of that ( at about 15) and went to Cambridge and realised that things were different there. I adopted the particular culture and even if I say it myself, I thrived for the first time in my life. I was happy and I was at home with that. I have never admitted to coming from a state SM in RL since. Since my parental background tells a different story to my educational one, I dont have to lie to deal with that.