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religion/evangelising in school - just don't read if you're an evangelist, please

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geekgrrl · 04/11/2005 09:16

Hello all,

I've posted about this before - ages ago - I don't know what to do really but just need to get it off my chest.
I (mostly) love the community primary school my daughters go to. Dd2 has just started, she's got various SN and the school are getting it completely right with her. Dd1 is in yr2 and extremely happy and doing very well. It's a lovely school all-round.

However, there is a very very strong religious influence, probably from the head, though I am not sure. They have a local methodist preacher, who is extremely evangelical, taking assembly at least once a week. Dd2 always comes home singing hymns - lately it's the Lord's Prayer in musical form .

I stayed away from this year's harvest festival as last year's just made me so cross - the children were made to pray with their hands together and heads down, all the songs they sung were very religious in nature etc.

They pray so many times a day - it makes me so cross. In the morning at assembly, before lunch, and then again at the end of the school day. This is not even a church school FFS!!!!

I have complained to the head and was palmed off with daily worship being a legal requirement.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to start an argument because they really go out of their way with dd2 and do much more with her and for her than the average school would, but this religious business is bugging me so, so much.

I'm actually a school governor, but have only started recently and I don't want to bring my own personal grievances into the role, IYKWIM.

I guess the answer is to put up and shut up. I don't want to remove the dds from assemblies, as it wouldn't be fair on them and besides, there's lots of other stuff going on in assemblies. I draw the line at outings to church services and have withdrawn dd1 from this in the past.

There's no problem with RE, it's taught well and in a very open way that is respectful of diversity.

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weesaidie · 04/11/2005 16:51

Exactly blu, my dad says the same.

He would argue with believers at uni and in the end they would always say but I have faith, which he couldn't argue with but certainly didn't have himself!

Beckybrastraps, did u see my post?? I still am confused on what we are arguing about?

Although v much enjoyed it.

SleepyJess · 04/11/2005 18:58

Did anyone look at my lovely list of lovely books for children?? Or was the response so negative that I am better off not asking..?!

Tortington · 04/11/2005 19:18

i laugh when i type this and i dont mean to be sarcastic - whats a thinking christian?

SleepyJess · 04/11/2005 19:24

It's the opposite of a thick Christian

Actually I think it might mean one that is willing to take on board broader understandings.. in which case I think I might be one. But I don't really care about labels.

geekgrrl · 05/11/2005 07:46

hiya sleepyjess, your efforts weren't wasted, I ordered Just Because I am and also Love You Forever. Thanks.
The others were blatantly religious! Who do you take me for?

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Rarrie · 05/11/2005 15:56

This has probably been said, but I don't have time to read everyone's messages, but you do have the right to withdraw your child from these activities. You could ask the head that either she is completely removed (which he would find a pain as he would ahve to find someone to cover her) or just ask that your child is just allowed to sit quietly and not have to participate.

Where I used to teach, we had several children removed on these grounds. I will be insisting the same for my DD (that she is not forced to particiapte in daily worship). And I'm an RE teacher!

SleepyJess · 05/11/2005 16:23

LOL geekgrrl.. glad you ordered those two.. they are lovely lovely books (Every child should own a copy of Love You Forever IMHO.. )

Cam · 05/11/2005 17:04

and I agree with frogs, beckybrastraps, bossykate, Marina and Batters

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