I could write a book on my ex husband and court.
Turned up representing himself with the OW then kicked off because the judge had ordered a closed court due to his past behaviour.
Demanded that his contact time was from Thursday to Tuesday morning every week. When an agreement was finally reached of 50:50 he lasted a week in the arrangement and concluded that I “could have the kiddos” if I took a lower settlement on the house and his pensions. God knows how he was going to put the initial proposal into place as he’s out of the country more than he’s in it!
Wanted compensated from me for the white goods that had been sold in a previous house and with his agreement. He denied it was his signature on all the house sale documents even although this had been handled by a completely separate legal team to mine.
Wanted me to sell the new house I was living in - I’d moved into a property owned by my parents until the full divorce settlement was reached.
Insisted he hadn’t sold two cars that were jointly owned. The OW’s name was on the registration documents and I had emails from him emailing me a receipt saying he’d sold them for £1 each. He denied he sent the email.
Wanted the children’s bedroom furniture for their 2 bedroom flat - we had three children each with a room each, I still wonder which child’s bed and bedroom furniture he wanted.
Insisted I was lying about his private pension as well as other investments but I had copies of everything including the 2 bank accounts he’d hidden from me. I had an A4 lever arch file full of documents relating to them. He called me a liar in court and said I’d falsified the documents.
Demanded I change my surname - I did just that when I remarried 5 years later but kept it just to annoy him until then.
Wanted the denby dinner set which had been a wedding gift from my grandmother. He had no idea about Denby so I bought one from eBay said I’d post it and smashed it to fuck in the box before posting. Couriers can be pretty careless it seems…
4 years after the settlement, divorce etc sent me an email asking to come back and saying he’d made a mistake. I hear the OW is now divorcing him 🤣. His children now have nothing to do with him.
He was removed from the court on 2 occasions and threatened with removal numerous other times during the whole drawn out drama.The most memorable one while shouting “I’m going to make Angela (OW) X, X and X new mummy” Wanker.
The worrying this is this man literally has hundreds of peoples lives in his hands every day. I don’t fly with Emirates any more 🤣