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What to take to prison

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drinkswineoutofamug · 18/01/2017 21:38

Will be brief, daughter due to be sent down. Any one have a clue what to pack? Do we pack a bag? I've looked on line and it's a bit vague . Any help greatly appreciated.

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drinkswineoutofamug · 09/02/2017 12:00

Got a letter off her this morning. Saying how she's proud to have such a hard coping mum. Sorry that she's let us down. 😢
She wants to make us proud.

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CondensedMilkSarnies · 09/02/2017 12:07

She's absolutely right xx

Carollocking · 09/02/2017 12:19

So glad she's realised and I have a great feeling she'll be a very different girl on her return to you

Carollocking · 09/02/2017 12:19

And just imagine if you'd not helped her as much as you have,no way would she be dealing with her issues and realising how wrong she's been for sure

Theyhaveallbeenused2 · 09/02/2017 17:26

What a good update! Hopefully she has a bright future ahead

Groovee · 10/02/2017 15:52

What a positive outcome.

Kr1stina · 10/02/2017 16:25

you are an amazing Mum, she is lucky to have you and there but for the grace of god go all of us.x

This

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Rubyslippers7780 · 10/02/2017 17:22

Flowers you are a fab mum.

drinkswineoutofamug · 10/02/2017 17:35

Omg she's just phoned!!!!!!!

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CondensedMilkSarnies · 10/02/2017 17:39

Yaaaaaaaay !!!!!

drinkswineoutofamug · 10/02/2017 17:46

Now going to be late for work but I don't give a shit! She phoned! Had a group chat. She sounds ok. Told her I will see her on Tuesday, court is a video link on Wednesday so no point in me going. I will be at work pacing. She got all my letters today. 1 letter 2 emails . Apparently there's a weeks back log? Hmm she's stuck the photos up that I've sent her.
Thanks everyone for your kind words of support. Sorry I've not replied to everyone. It's hard for families too and I hope that anyone in this situation stumbles across this thread and finds hope, like I did.

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CondensedMilkSarnies · 10/02/2017 17:56

I'm so pleased for you Drinks , It sounds as if your DD feels in a better place too xx

My very good friend is going through the same with regard to DD in prison - it is just as hard for those on the outside .

Tell your DD that (a total stranger Smile ) I'm pleased she's doing ok xx

Groovee · 10/02/2017 17:57

Good to hear drinks x

drinkswineoutofamug · 10/02/2017 18:11

I told her that a bunch of strangers off the internet all say hi! She was like wtf mum 😂 say hi back to them

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Penfold007 · 10/02/2017 18:58

Drinks I've been lurking but just want to say I think you are amazing and I wish your DD lots of luck. Brew for her and Wine for you

drinkswineoutofamug · 13/02/2017 08:21

Does anyone know ?
She goes to court Wednesday . So far while on remand it's been weekly visits . Does that change?
But I've seen families of long term prisoners going weekly same as me. The internet says twice monthly but it was last updated 2013Hmm
I going to try and book for tomorrow, so staying up after a night shift.

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Carollocking · 13/02/2017 09:19

Sorry I don't know but maybe it's different each prison?wish could help more.
Hope she gets a lot better sorted out on Wednesday court.
Best wishes Carol

drinkswineoutofamug · 13/02/2017 09:36

I've got a visit for tomorrow and Sunday?!

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Corneliussnitch · 13/02/2017 11:27

Hi drinks , you can visit more frequently while on remand it was fortnightly after that when my son was in, but may be different in other places , hope it goes well tomorrow

Carollocking · 13/02/2017 12:02

Is tomorrow only a preliminary hearing ?

Carollocking · 13/02/2017 12:02

Wednesday I mean

drinkswineoutofamug · 13/02/2017 15:45

I think Wednesday is the hearing. The actual sentencing case.

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Carollocking · 13/02/2017 15:52

Ah yes sentence for what she pleaded guilty too is that right,The original reason you posted I think

Colette · 13/02/2017 15:58

Good luck for Wednesday Flowers