In fact the discussions I'm referring to were about consent and violent assaults, not what Nikita Hand said outside the court about 'girls and boys', i.e. children, which was obviously about the sexual abuse of children, not adults.
Nikita Hand won, at huge cost to herself, and like you I'm pleased about that, just as I'm full of admiration for Gisèle Pélicot's courage in exposing what happened to her at the hands of her husband and a random assortment of other rapists.
But Nikita and Gisèle are just two in the huge number of women - 736 million women, according to the UN - who are attacked, sexually assaulted, raped and murdered by men.
The point I'm making is that violence against women is a huge problem worldwide, and it will never be tackled if it's never named.
All this 'people' who rape and 'victims' who get raped, as if the roles are interchangeable between men and women, is bad because it's inaccurate and deflects from the reality of violence against women, which is a specific thing.
And I AM pretty annoyed about that!