Hi everyone I would like to join please. I want a new job basically! But I am paid well for what I do and it is really flexible around my 3 kids (age 10,5, and 3), DH has a 9-6 office job (an hour away), rarely works late but all clubs and school assemblys concerts etc are my responsibility. My job is also term time. So I stick it out for these amazing benefits but I am ready to move on and find something I enjoy because I am starting to hate it! I will not be able to get paid what I do for what I would enjoy doing.
So to do this and not impact our lives (cutting the kids clubs to reduce our outgoings for example will make me hate other things in my life 😂) we are putting everything we can into our second mortgage to clear it and reduce that outgoing (we had a loft conversion a year and the mortgage is at a rate of 5.09%). DH was also made redundant during the loft conversion so we have some credit card spending from the time he was out of work to clear too.
We are OK thankfully but have reduced our outgoings and I am working on a strict budget that started after our holiday in mid Aug. It has been going well so far but usually I only keep to these things for a month or two and then it slips! So it's time I joined this to hopefully help me keep on track.
I do my food separately, I have £13 left for Sep, but I have £30 M&S voucher from my credit card points (I don't shop in there very much but I will do to spend this!) and about £15 in tesco clubcard vouchers and a freezer full of food so I am going to try my best.
I am on £7 now for Sept but we have plans tomorrow that won't cost anything, the week is so busy I won't need anything that I have to get there and then. So just got to work out what to do next weekend.
We do have a credit card (different to the one mentioned above!) for any major emergencies and that we are happy to balance transfer if needed, so this just ticks over and gets paid off by £100 a month.
Christmas will be a strict budget one this year but I am going to work it into my budget a monthly amount from Jan to put aside for the kids birthdays and Christmas, so I don't have to think about Christmas fitting in with the monthly spend budget, hopefully this will help me stick to this long term.