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MaryGreenhill · 30/08/2025 17:19

Making a new thread!
Please check in regular posters and welcome new people.
This is a super friendly thread to contribute to. We are all wanting to be as efficient as possible re spending but all have different budgets and priorities. No judgement here we are all friends 😊

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chimichangaz · 16/09/2025 16:05

Talking about bedding I’ve seen the teddy fleece bedding being praised to high heaven and was thinking of getting some - has anyone got it and what do you think? I don’t tend to have hot flushes anymore but I am a warm bod who likes an electric blanket or hot water bottle (and to stick my leg out occasionally 🤣)

Today I’ve bought a coffee for my son £4 but mine was free. Also spent £4 on lunch due to poor planning. Got to get petrol later and I have £30 budgeted.

Hope your washer gets sorted without spending money @Frugal25

Like Mary says, hope it goes the way you want it to @ChipshopPickledEgg ❤️

PearlsPearl · 16/09/2025 17:10

Good luck @ChipshopPickledEgg hope you get the result you want xx

needastrongoneagain · 16/09/2025 17:26

Hope you're enjoying the bread-maker @Unescorted.

It's many years since my two had school Scholes but Geox always worked well for us. Probably not even a thing now though!

Hope the back is okay @pistachiosanscream

Love the bedding @MaryGreenhill

Hope you get your desired outcome @ChipshopPickledEgg

Spends today
£16 charging the car.

Additions to bank account
£500 from DF who can no longer drive and has sold the car. Splitting the profits 6 ways (myself and 2 brothers, and his partners 3 children as it was a shared car). Very lovely gesture.
£50 cash from the lovely owners of the cottage we are staying in, a refund for the charge for ddog1 who is no longer with us, plus a bit extra to buy some gravy bones for ddog2 apparently ❤️.

Chilli with nachos for tea. We've spent a bit of extra money on food but haven't eaten out at all so far so I'm okay with this.

Unescorted · 16/09/2025 17:41

Hope it goes your way @ChipshopPickledEgg

@needastrongoneagain it has worked. Just a simple white loaf for proof of process. Next on the list is one with olives or sun-dried tomato in.

Kids school shoes are such a minefield. Buy ones that will last and they are lost in a few weeks. Cheap ones fall apart but keep coming home

SockHop · 16/09/2025 17:46

I love looking at bedding too. I bought an electric blanket the other day (reduced to 40%) as dd and I were both getting colder when in the front room and our heating is rubbish. Really I need to replace the windows and/or invest in some decent curtains and until I’ve done that the house is always going to be on the chilly side (carpet would probably help too although I have bought a better rug which is helping already). Anyway whilst looking at blankets I found some gorgeous bedspreads (definitely not frugal!). I keep on getting ads for hugely expensive linen duvet covers too. Honestly I’m a sucker for anything that is going to make my bed a bit cozy - although I’m managing to hold off at the moment.

@chimichangaz i bought some cheap teddy fleece bedding in the sale from Argos a couple of years ago to take camping and it didn’t wash at all well. Dd has a few pillow covers that mum mum bought her that have fared a bit better but still not looking like they’re going to have a very long life span.

I hope the you get the result you want @ChipshopPickledEgg

MaryGreenhill · 16/09/2025 18:06

@SockHop that was a great bargain with the electric blanket 👏
@chimichangaz we have fleece duvet sets here
(from Argos the Habitat range) and find them a Godsend in the Winter because they take next to no time to dry in the tumble and they are so cosy .
Have had very good experience of them but whether we have been lucky l don't know 😊.
Fabulous that the bread making has been so successful @Unescorted 👏🤗
@needastrongoneagain aw bless your Dad that was so kind of him 🤗
Hope your back is ok today @pistachiosanscream😊
Well for the first time in 30 years our apple tree has given us sweet apples that we can eat raw! Unbelievable 🤣
It must be because we have had such a brilliant Spring and Summer this year 😁👏

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BigSkies2022 · 16/09/2025 18:53

Comrades! I'm back from holiday, hence recent low profile - not really being frugal, but didn't want to keep posting about spends. Not that it was, in the end, a super-spendy holiday, since most of our activities revolved around driving to beautiful, ancient villages which were, on the whole, um, closed. Do not go to the Lot-et-Garonne, thinking it's just more Dordogne. It really isn't. There's an awful lot of monotonous arable farming (miles of fields of dead sunflowers and maize), very basic settlements featuring cookie-cutter bungalows and industrial sheds, interspersed by equally monotonous poplar plantations.

We did have a nice time, and got to Bordeaux, which was brilliant, and had been on my list of incontournables since forever. But I'd booked a lovely rural villa with a pool, and huge grounds, and great outdoor eating facilities, because that's the holiday we enjoyed in the Dordogne two years ago. And then the weather was a bit shit. Which in the Dordogne in September would not have mattered, since everything, barring the night markets, is still open. And yes, you probably will be handed a menu in English when you sit down; but at least someone wants to serve you lunch!

Honourable mentions to Nérac, however, which is gorgeous and where I tried red pepper ice-cream for the first time. Massive fan. And Villeneuve-sur-Lot, which has a lovely market. And we did stay at a beautiful place near St Mathurin in the Loire on the way down and back, and had an amazing dinner on our anniversary. But I think these days of driving two days across France with Ddog and half our possessions in the car, to set up home in a big rental in order to welcome DS and whoever his SO is at that point for five days out of the 14 are over. I would really like to get on a plane with one bag, no dog and holiday in a more footloose manner!

Anyway, mustn't grumble, since we're away again in October, this time to Devon - South Hams and then Colyton, for my big birthday. I have paid for the week on the beach, in the cottage, DH is paying for the hotel nights in Colyton, and all the dinners.

I spent £38 in a French pharmacy in Bordeaux, also bought some rather nice rubber ankle boots in a chic taupe for dog walking in the rain, about £45, and some cheese and wine, posh chocolates and macarons, 0% sirops. Some will be presents, some not. Some lunches, two nights in the Loire. Everything I spent was covered by the travel/guilt-free spend pot, and I have returned with money to spare.

So I have had some botox! two areas, between my brows and upper forehead. £250, administered by my dentist, half of whose practice these days is cosmetic injections. It's been a year in which my brow has been much furrowed, what with DParents and the joys of adult social services, and I thought, sod it, why not? It helps keep me motivated on diet, exercise and sleep too, so hopefully, I will be feeling super-good by the time the big birthday comes around.

Anyway, botox visit aside, the last two days have been spent mostly tidying, cleaning, washing, restocking pantry and fridge (£50 Sainsbury's, £26 in the butcher), admin. Have enjoyed catching up on your Vinted adventures, and bed linen addicts, I see you! (although you wouldn't be able to tell if I were disapproving or not, no frowning here). Have changed over the duvets to a higher tog rating, and am wearing jumpers in the house. Bathroom radiator valves been re-opened to allow hot water in, but otherwise, am determined that the heating is not going on for another month.

Oh, £9 on a brow make-up wand thingy. A princely £38 dividend payment, which I have put straight back into an ISA.

Right, chilli from the freezer for dinner tongiht, Tokyo world championship highlights.

ChipshopPickledEgg · 16/09/2025 20:01

Good news!
No mini eggs on their way.

pistachiosanscream · 16/09/2025 20:15

Thanks @MaryGreenhill and @needastrongoneagain its getting there. I love the duvet cover mary, so pretty and not typically "christmas".

@ChipshopPickledEgg i hope the result is one you want.

welcome back @BigSkies2022 its good to hear from you.

Another vinted sale today! i am loving this so much. I plan to try and build up a balance and use that to fill some of the gaps in my wardrobe.

Today was a LSD as i spent €5 on 2 bars of chocolate at work.

ChipshopPickledEgg · 16/09/2025 20:36

Oh definitely at this stage another mini egg would just complicate everything.

PearlsPearl · 16/09/2025 20:42

Glad you got what you hoped for @ChipshopPickledEgg and no mini eggs right now.

Bigskies welcome back!! Sounds like a lovely holiday, I laughed out loud when you said about not being able to see you frowning. I reallllllly want Botox but it’s definitely in the no spending zone right now!

chimichangaz · 16/09/2025 21:24

Glad you got the outcome you wanted @ChipshopPickledEgg 😊

I also laughed out loud at the not being able to frown at us 🤣

Are you happy with your Botox @BigSkies2022? I’ve got some lines from my upper lip (never ever smoked, they are from pursing my lips I think…..😳) but I’m scared I’ll have trout pout if I have a treatment….

Frugal25 · 16/09/2025 22:40

I'm glad it was the result you wanted @ChipshopPickledEgg ☺️

I did giggle at the no frowning too!!! And your holiday sounds amazing @BigSkies2022 . So want Botox but too scared, although my friend has baby Botox and it looks amazing.

Update on spending £1 from vinted balance on children's bracelet for the advent calendar I am doing for her.

Alwayslearning25 · 17/09/2025 07:57

Does anyone here do swagbucks? I got it a couple of months back, just earned enough today to get a voucher. .osy the servers I get disqualified (get one point for after awnsersing screening questions) but today I earned 200 by exploiting my DD (she had to awnser some questions). 😂 In lockdown she did some research for university students getting £5 voucher and it was something for her to do, but we haven't since.

Alwayslearning25 · 17/09/2025 08:00

It's an inefficient way to make money though! £5 after about 3 months. Now I've reached the threshold to redeem my points I'll leave it.

ememem84 · 17/09/2025 08:14

Hey friends!

spendy week.

booked ds’ birthday party. He’s going to be 8 next week. And wanted a laser tag party. 12 boys. Woodland laser tag. Hire of marquee at site plus food £400 ish. A lot but I told him the party was part of his gift. Because that’s a soendy party. And last year i had chemo on his birthday.

also bought him a new (not current season) Man City top, some new headphones (because earlier this year he went through 3 pairs and I told him that he’d have to wait until birthday) a dog man game for my Nintendo switch and a tonies story box character.

how is he going to be 8?!?! Those of you who have been around for a while will remember me being pregnant with him. My precious first born.

im wfh today. Have a sore throat and lost my voice. So messaged the boss and said I’m not feeling 100 so going to see how I go. have told him if I feel less than 80% ok I’m stopping and will take the day.

PearlsPearl · 17/09/2025 09:04

I’ve got a sore throat too Em, and the start of a cold, which better sod off before Friday! Hope you feel better soon. DS had a lazer party at the same age and loved it, as did all his friends, so you have made a good choice there!

I just wanted to post to make sure you all know about PayPal cash back? I didn’t until yesterday and it’s so good. Currently 20% back at George! You need to activate the offers in the app.

PearlsPearl · 17/09/2025 09:08

Oh and I forgot to tell you all my big news. I feel embarrassed saying it but.. I’ve quit my job. I passed my 6 month probation which I was determined to do, with 0 days off sick which I’m very proud of myself for with my health issues, and smashed all of my targets. I’m performing so well. However being in the office was really affecting my mental health, I was getting to the point where I couldn’t sleep the night before office days and utterly miserable. And nothing is worth my mental health. Also, for a ‘little job’ (minimum wage! That paid me 1/4 of what I used to get) it was actually incredibly stressful. So I took the leap; and quit. I felt a million times better instantly.

Ive been applying for other things and had one interview so wish me luck. Terrified to have a financial gap so hoping I find something quickly.

ChipshopPickledEgg · 17/09/2025 12:10

Also in the laughing at the frown camp.

MaryGreenhill · 17/09/2025 12:24

@PearlsPearl please don't be embarrassed, your mental health means far more than any money . As long as you are healthy, then you can get another job anytime. You are just looking after yourself in the best way possible . Good luck with the job hunting and l hope your sore throat is better
soon 💐🤗

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MaryGreenhill · 17/09/2025 12:28

That birthday party sounds like an 8 year olds dream party @ememem84.
Hope your throat improves very soon sweetheart 💐
Good to see you back off your hols @BigSkies2022 🤗

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MaryGreenhill · 17/09/2025 14:46

Glad everything worked out well for you @ChipshopPickledEgg 😊👏
Spends today on Vinted for my Mum 2 dresses and a pair of shoes £14. l mean if they are as good as they look then that's an unbelievable bargain. I will keep you posted 😊

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needastrongoneagain · 17/09/2025 16:03

I'm laughing at the Comrades! comment personally 🤣

I'm glad you're glad there's no mini egg @ChipshopPickledEgg😊.

@PearlsPearl you've done the right thing. Nothing is more important than you. I've watched DH struggle and suffer and eventually become very poorly because of work and stress and MH issues.

Well DF put £850 into our account, rather than £500, which was so kind.

We've been at the distillery today. What a lovely place. Just as helpful and friendly as they were via the telephone. The disabled parking spots were right next to the door and the path from them to said door was flat concrete. We had a lovely hour and a half there and spent £77 on two bottles of gin for presents. A little gem of a distillery and place.

£130 on a mole catcher at home. Again. We back onto open fields....

These two spends will come out of the extra money DF has sent us.

Frugal25 · 17/09/2025 16:42

@PearlsPearl you have completely done the right thing! Well done for being so brave and jumping before it really affected you.

NSD today. Posted a vinted parcel off.

chimichangaz · 17/09/2025 18:42

Hi everyone (or should I say comrades?…. 🤣)

sounds like a lovely birthday for your DS @ememem84

I’ve had a sore throat on and off the last few days too along with a headache. Hope you all feel better soon ❤️

I didn’t know about PayPal cash back thanks @PearlsPearl And great decision about the job - no job is ever worth your health. Good luck with finding a new job.

I’ve got a few Vinted bits to post off so my funds are building up nicely.

Spent most of today getting my submission ready for the financial ombudsman for my pension complaint and then submitted it this afternoon- very pleased to get that off my to do list. Now it’s wait and see.

Spent £40 on having the gutters cleared. He’s recommended having the moss cleared off the roof too but it’s quite expensive. I need to get my kitchen roof repaired first (it has an intermittent leak).

Had seen a couple of part time retail roles advertised a couple of days ago and they’ve gone already!! I put an application in this morning for a part time seasonal job at Next just to keep a bit of money coming in but not expecting to be successful as I have no experience and there was nowhere on the form to say why I wanted the job!! Will keep looking.

Have decided to get the teddy sheets from Argos (thanks @MaryGreenhill ) as I still have a £10 voucher !

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