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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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Unescorted · 05/06/2022 18:12

The Jubilee street party here is the one that is in several of the papers.... it was yesterday so the sun was shining. I did not attend, but ended up going to a friends Happy Saturday street party later in the day.

em how do they charge for a street party? ours was BYO food and drink. The pubs and cafes were doing food outside, but no obligation to buy.

Somehow I have ended up being co-opted as the costume maker and the back end of the horse for a Mummers play for apple day in October. I have spent today looking up local calico patterns and pantomime horse patterns. If anyone has any links to either can you let me know...

Wolf I have very rudely not asked about the cake. Did it turn out?

Martha - I am baffled, she is not sulking.

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ememem84 · 05/06/2022 18:35

Wrong person unescorted I didn’t charge for my party!! 😂 think you mean @Decafflatteplease

i never charge for parties. I also refuse help or stuff being brought. I like entertaining. Dsis brought two boxes of wine. And two cases of beers. Dm brought flowers and some cupcakes.

the wine and beers didn’t get touched. But we drank the stuff dsis sent me home with from her party last time she hosted. I’ll no doubt take the boxes of wine back to dsis when we next go to hers or have a beach bbq.

ememem84 · 05/06/2022 18:47

£54 garden centre. Catface keeps shutting in my raised beds. Bought netting bamboo hoops new strawb plants and tomato plants. All planted. Fingers crossed she stays off.

lifelongfrugaleer · 05/06/2022 19:24

im back and skint. Restart from now

Alfiemoon1 · 05/06/2022 20:37

Evening all. Spendy day yesterday and today dsi birthday is costing me a fortune £99 in next on a voucher a few bits for her to open and a few Christmas presents as it’s a clearance store. Then nipped back and spent £35 on dh Father’s Day gifts from dc
£87 today for me and dd to have afternoon tea at a posh hotel as part of the birthday celebrations. Still have a meal to go to and pay for on Wednesday and then she’s having a party on Saturday thankfully at her house which is only round the corner

Decafflatteplease · 05/06/2022 22:40

Thanks for the tag @ememem84 . Yes @Unescorted it was more of a sort of summer fair on the green type thing. Laid on by a couple of local churches. Anyway the rain went off and it was fab, and all completely free! We didn't realize there would be so much food so the DC absolutely stuffed themselves and then didn't eat their dinner 🤣 so it's dinner for lunch tomorrow 🤣

No advise on patterns but apple day things sound fun. We went to a local apple day at an orchard last year and I've just seen it advertised for this year it was a lovely afternoon and they were selling fab homemade cider I'll have to get more again this year!

Unescorted · 06/06/2022 06:30

Sorry Em I thought you were getting charged to get into the street party not doing the charging. You don't come across as the charge on the door type of person.

One of our NDNs has a big party each summer - the last year before covid they held it but told people that they couldn't bring their own alcohol. The guests went thinking it was all going to be laid on, only to find they had to buy it at bar prices. To make it worse they also had A guests and B guests (they really did call them A& B guests). The A guests were allowed into the house while the B guests had to stand outside. The moral of that story is don't think you can live in a village & pull a stunt like that because everyone now knows including us who were most definitely not invited. We got a ring side seat to last years where it was set up to be the usual huge bash.... but only about 20 people turned up.

Alfie it sounds as if things are a little more settled with DD. I hope you have a wonderful day.

Life Lovely to see you back - sorry about the circumstances.

Decaff ours is to celebrate our millennium orchard. We planted 1000 fruit trees around the village, mainly heritage apple varieties. Apple day started as a bit of a surrealist joke / art installation - a mis imagined village event with layers of nostalgic history. Each year more outrageous layers are added, hence the mummers play borrowed from Dorset.

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WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 06:36

Our cat is poorly so it looks like it might be a spendy day... I'm hoping after being off work last week that I can get away without getting any fuel until Thursday this week too which will be a bonus.

lifelongfrugaleer · 06/06/2022 07:03

Fingers crossed it isn’t wreck.
need to go shopping today but must plan first
out for lunch today too

Wolfcub · 06/06/2022 08:01

I'm not working today so hopefully a dog walk in peace and a cupboard audit for me. Dr later and then it's back into the routine of endless evening activities for ds. It's been nice having a week off that

Unescorted cake turns out well so it was worth 40 minutes of standing over the oven switching it back on every 30 seconds but can't say I'm keen to cook anything in it right now. Saturday was pasta, Sunday was burritos and it's stir fry tonight

Decafflatteplease · 06/06/2022 08:51

Awww wreck hope dcat is ok.

wolf that sounds like dedication to the cake!

Should be a nsd day today, some children have inset day so are here and some are at school it's a staggered start, I think I've got the right combination of children in and off, am half expecting a phonecall from a school to say where's my child or why are they in school 🤣 3 different schools here honestly some days I feel I need a PA!

Crafts / garden with children at home.

I need to get my dad a father's Day present doesn't have to be today, have a £5 voucher money off voucher for a shop he likes so probably get something from there.

Leftover dinner for lunch today due to aforementioned party, and soy salmon noodles / chicken noodles for dinner and spring rolls. Majority from Lidl it's working well trying to switch over to Lidl very impressed so far with the food.

WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 09:22

He's got to stay in for fluids bloods and imaging. It's going to cost hundreds

lifelongfrugaleer · 06/06/2022 09:36

I would say so wreck, sorry
I’m off today too wolf . Loads of washing. Admin then lunch with a pal

WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 11:02

I'm slightly concerned as the vets has a different DOB to the insurance company. He's a rescue though so no one can be sure...

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 06/06/2022 14:49

Afternoon everyone 😊
Been to the local Garden centre, plants and half price bulbs cost £58. Morrisons £56 🤗
Hope everyone is fine and enjoyed their bank holidays ☺️
Had a great time here but weather has gone cold here now 😱
Wreck l hope your beautiful cat is better very soon, he's a lovely boy and l know how much you love him 💐

Amble into April Frugaleering
WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 16:17

Thanks mrs

Petrol £1.87 here now 😩

BigSkies2022 · 06/06/2022 16:20

Hello all. Hope long weekend was successful all round. Our Devon jaunt was lovely, and we even managed to keep a lid on spending without being utterly dreary about it. Drive there and back was the best in a long time, too.

Aldi tomorrow, and I will be shopping with a big F for Frugal. However, discovered that DS will be coming home about mid-June for most of the summer, and he will be working hard on construction sites so will require serious feeding. And my parents are coming to stay for a week, around the same time. My dad, bless him, has never been known to turn down food or drink in his life, so between the two, plans for squeezing the food budget until it squeaks will have to be set aside. I can at least plan meals, and build in a bit extra for naice snacks.

Unescorted · 06/06/2022 17:17

Sending healing thoughts to wreckcat.

Wolf good to hear the cake went well.

Mrs that is why I stay away from garden centres.

It has been such a slow day today.... I think there were distractions and post bank holiday meh.

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Alfiemoon1 · 06/06/2022 17:38

Hope Dcat is ok wreck. Ddog is at the vets for a check up on his eye have already paid £80 so only £20 more to cover the insurance excess. Nsd but will need petrol in the next few days

WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 17:41

Our insurance excess is £125 plus 15% of any remaining vet fee. I think the treatment is going to be about £300 so trying to work out if it's worth claiming.

ememem84 · 06/06/2022 19:14

Went for a wax today. Eyebrows and Brazilian. In typical British fashion I did not question it when the wax lady asked me to flip over (tmi). So she also waxed the bum. I have it on good authority that this is normal. But I’ve never had that before!!! Waaaaaaa! 😂😂 so that was a fun lunchtime. £51 beauticians. yikes.

also because I took lunch late and cba to make lunch to take with me I bought a salad before work from a new place. It sounded yum. Chicken power bowl. Chicken quinoa edamame grated carrot seeds hummus spinach. It had zero flavour. Literally bland as. disappointing.

then gym after work. Core session today. Tough one. I managed a side plank for 40 seconds. Which beats my previous record of 30 seconds before falling over.

DH made salad bowls for dinner. Smoked tofu with sweet chilli. Yum.

and dm (who’s been looking after the dc today) sent us home with mint cheesecake. Home made. Not up to her usual standards. It was rank.

WreckTangled · 06/06/2022 19:17

Haha em at the salon I go to they get you to lie on your back and pull your knees up to your chin.

£317 vets and he has to go back tomorrow.

BigSkies2022 · 06/06/2022 19:25

Ouch! to waxing stories. I got my bits lasered rather than endure the wax removal. If I ever get any spare money again, it's a toss-up between getting my facial hair lasered off or my varicose veins treated. The joys of age!

DH went to Sainsbury's today, and spent £15 on pulled pork, scones, kit-kats, naice shortbreads, milk and Lapsang Souchong tea-bags. Lovely, all of it, but that is less in the kitty for this month's food shopping.

lifelongfrugaleer · 06/06/2022 20:32

Im so pleased I don’t wax, ouch
£80 food shop

AdoraBell · 06/06/2022 20:46

I wrote a post. It disappeared 🤦‍♀️

Wreck hope DCat is okay

Alfie hope DDog is okay

Wolf glad cake worked out well.

em yikes 😳 at the waxing

unescorted neighbours sound like CFs

Groceries today, £80-ish. Petrol locally is 189.9 today, methinks they are taking the pee now as more expensive than anywhere else Hmm

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