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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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Wolfcub · 29/05/2022 09:43

I've been doing some very specific food based number crunching this morning. As a result I'm going to develop a once a month lidl list (I can't get there every week as the logistics are too difficult) with the aim of reducing the overall shopping bill - or rather keeping it in budget

lifelongfrugaleer · 29/05/2022 09:47

Don’t forget the Lidl app for vouchers wolf

Wolfcub · 29/05/2022 09:47

Well done Gen on being cc debt free. Agree with Life re emergency amount.
The North is beautiful Mrs, glad you enjoyed your break
That sounds tough Wreck, really good that he's booked up but he will want to be really hot in invoicing to make sure you have a stable income

marthasmum · 29/05/2022 10:06

Sounds like you have done really well gen. You also have a stable income as teachers so I think a slush fund of 1000 is more than enough. If it makes you feel better I barely have savings either - do have 1000 but I am hoping to spend that on some sort of family trip away as we’ve barely ever been on holiday, and it’s been my goal to save up for that for a while…but other stuff keeps getting in the way!
wolf I’m interested to know your thoughts about food and how the monthly Lidl shop will
help? I try all sorts of different plans with the food. So far I’ve realised that Lidl/Aldi is cheaper for us, and also that we eat a lot (2 adults, 3 teens). And also that we like our food so it’s a difficult place to economise 🤔

WreckTangled · 29/05/2022 10:26

Wolf dh is working for someone else so gets paid weekly then does his own thing at the weekend. It means he's not earning as much as he could but he has stability and it's a good in between to start with.

Martha we like food too. It's hard to balance as we always say we don't want to scrimp on food but also it's so expensive! I think I could probably do what wolf is saying and stock up on cupboard, freezer and drinks at Aldi or lidl then do Tesco for fresh each week but I'm not sure I could get my head around it plus if I had a months worth of biscuits dh would eat them all, I would have to hide loads in my bedroom cupboard Hmm plus not sure I have to head space to do it.

marthasmum · 29/05/2022 10:31

Sounds like your DH has a good balance with the self employed work and is taking a very sensible approach to it wreck
also meant to say, how cheeky that the registered staff get a petrol allowance and you don’t!!
Yes, I’ve tried the monthly top up plan but realised I’m really bad at then doing a ‘small’ shop each week - I always over buy.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 29/05/2022 16:33

Gen yay am so pleased for you ! Grin Flowers
www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08W9JJ37B/ref=gw_uk_desk_h1_sh_aucc_brwkmashup_kidspromo22
This looks like a very good offer to me £65.98 , just bought one each for my great neice & nephews birthdays Smile

Unescorted · 29/05/2022 18:33

Hello lovelies. I seemed to have slipped off the thread.

wolf I used to do a monthly shop. martha it saved a huge amount of money,

  1. because the temptation to put a little treat in each time I went into the shop wasn't there. 2) It needed really good meal planning & trained everyone into the mind set of dinner is what it is & once the crisps and biscuits were gone there weren't any more until pay day.
  2. improved my ninja cooking skills - making a meal from what was in the fridge / cupboard / freezer / on special / yellow stickered. 4) you can take advantage of bulk buys. Admittedly it was a while ago, but our monthly shop was £240 pm. I guess a similar shop today would be £450 - 500 pm

Gen nice one with the cc paydown.

Alfie it sounds like an awful situation - being constantly belittled at work is so draining. Hope the new one is better.

Big The Peak District is commutable to Manchester and a bazillion times better than the Dales / London.

The cost increases are biting here - thankfully DH is picking up more work so it is not as bad as it could be.

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lifelongfrugaleer · 29/05/2022 18:43

Sounds a sensible balance wreck
we Have the monthly shop piggery too. I’m going to try 2 weekly

BigSkies2022 · 29/05/2022 20:20

Gen - congratulations on paying down your CC debt. If other debts aren't costing you a lot in interest, I recommend getting a cushion. of savings, say £1000. I have attempted to pay off a 0% balance very quickly and neglected to build up an emergency cushion - payin' for it now!

Unescorted - tell me more about the Peak District. I liked the Dales and Vale of York for the combination of cracking countryside (and I'm from Devon, so pretty spoilt), pretty villages and towns, and a proper metropolis (Leeds). The roads are good and so everywhere seems very reachable, the trains seem OK (if you are starting from Leeds, at any rate) and the east coast is lovely (this from more distant memory, a trip long ago though). The Manchester office is but a vision in a policy brief for now, so who knows if it will actually come to pass. But it's nice to think about!

Unescorted · 30/05/2022 06:40

Peaks sit between Manchester & Sheffield - it is split into the Dark Peak and White Peak. 2 really different landscapes - Dark on gritstone so really brooding and White on chalk giving a chocolate box vision.
Manchester is commutable from the Dark Peak - I used to travel in every day by train in less time than it took colleagues to come in on the tram from more traditional Manchester commuter suburbs.
House prices / rents are generally much lower than the SE, but there is a lot of variance. Some of the villages are very unaffordable others cheap as chips.
Where I am tends to attract a lot of commuters who love the outdoors, 2nd home owners and retirees.

Is anyone else panicking about the amount of work they have to squeeze into 3 days? See you all later.

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WreckTangled · 30/05/2022 06:44

I'm off this week thankfully. In the gym this morning doing the session I flunked on Friday. I just have no muscle at all the few days before my period, won't even bother coming next time it's due.

Should be a nsd as I'm broke Grin

marthasmum · 30/05/2022 09:24

Peak District is beautiful big, my DParents live there. I didn’t grow up there- they moved later in life but have been there a long time. We considered moving there for quite a while, to be nearer them by ended up staying here. Which was a good decision for our kids as they have very established lives where we are. But would have been helpful now my dad has dementia as we’re about 2 hours from them.
lovely place for a visit and/or to bring up a family.

Wolfcub · 30/05/2022 11:23

Unescorted definitely panicking on squeezing 5 days work into three. I have no work mojo this week

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 30/05/2022 12:39

Afternoon everyone 😊
Spends today Morrisons £35
Grocery
& A new bird bath £32
Weather is a bit meh here today hope it's better where you all are ☺️

WreckTangled · 30/05/2022 12:46

Heavy rain here. Da has been outside playing since 10:30 and dd the dementor has been in her room all morning.

Gensola · 30/05/2022 15:55

It’s cold and grey here. So depressing - will be lighting the fire later as it’s so cold. Haven’t achieved much today as feeling quite exhausted.

CurlsandCurves · 30/05/2022 16:07

Cold here too. Pegged washing out as it was fine in the morning. Then the heavens opened at about 2.30 so it got wet again! Dh has put it in the dryer. Looking at the next few days I don’t think much line drying will be happening.

Grocery shop done and under budget. Payday tomorrow finally!

WreckTangled · 30/05/2022 16:11

I meant ds obviously.

Gen I'm feeling the same. Dd is still in her room, ds is still at a neighbours and I've just had a two hour nap. I'm so miserable. I'm just feeling sorry for myself really. I want a holiday and I want to be able to take the dc out for lunch. I want a house where they can have their own room (dd is 12 in a couple of weeks and it's so unfair on her). I want a nice car that doesn't hurt my hip to drive 👵🏼. In the past year I've increased my hours from 24 hours term time only to 30 hours all year round and started a (funded) university course and dh has gone self employed, we've been throwing money at debt but feel poorer than ever! Everyone around us seems to have so much more than us and I feel embarrassed for being so jealous. Plus I know so many people would give a lot to be in our position. Maybe I need to avoid Mumsnet where everyone is asking where they should go on holiday or which designer bag they should buy next ConfusedGrin

Decafflatteplease · 30/05/2022 16:45

Hi all!

Sounds like a few of us are feeling a bit meh. Don't think the weather helps it's been super heavy showers here!

I'm feeling a bit meh too about the money situation mainly the thing that cannot be named the car. Ho hum.

Also we were hoping to increase our toddlers hours at preschool from 15 hours to 22 hours as.we were told we could get 30 funded hours but the computer says no. Don't know why. So either we will have to stick at 15 hours or pay for the extra time to take it to 22 hours which is approx £130 a month. I don't know. We've already told nursery we are going to up it before we found out it wouldn't be free so I don't really want to have to change now they've reserved the place etc.

Spendy day today...

£12 lunch out with friends
£40 present and card for friend but other friend will give me half
£20 m and s top-up but lots of (actually possible all) yellow stickers

@Wolfcub I used to do what you are doing in Lidl. A monthly stock up of cereal, crisps, cereal bars etc and then weekly ocado the rest. We are now trying to slowly switch to Lidl full time though but only if I have time to actually go to the shop. Make sure you have the Lidl app as you get £2 if you spend £100 in a month or £10 for £200 so £12 potentially. Just make sure you spend the voucher as you only get 7 days. I triggered my £200 voucher the other day so put the shopping in the car then went straight back in and got toilet roll to use the voucher on how exciting!

Decafflatteplease · 30/05/2022 17:01

Forgot another spend today I told you it was a spendy day

£18 on a watch battery but with a lifetime guarantee as long as I don't lose the receipt

Or it was £12 for a normal one.

I could have probably got a new watch for the same money but I like my watch and don't like a throwaway society.

marthasmum · 30/05/2022 17:10

I get you wreck and others. On paper we are better off than we’ve ever been, and we certainly have more than enough. But I feel like I’m still never able to save because bills just keep going up. We could scrimp on stuff but that feels hard when I’m working loads of hours.
however even as I’m typing this I feel like I’m feeling sorry for myself!

WreckTangled · 30/05/2022 17:22

I guess it is hard for most people at the moment and constantly hearing/reading on the news about how expensive things are and how it's only going to get worse really isn't helping. Plus the weather's shit Grin

Unescorted · 30/05/2022 18:16

Wreck I avoid the style & beauty threads. If it is any consolation we aren't going on holiday this year. I am too worried about costs increasing and the kids don't have valid passports

I did a proper heads down, clear the decks kind of day. It has made no discernable difference to my to-do list length. It is like a hydra.

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marthasmum · 30/05/2022 21:02

unescorted I know those days. I’ve been in assessments for two weeks solid so had to work late fri to try and chop down some emails before going off on leave this week. I think you are in a public services job? We are now having a recruitment freeze which I think adds to the feeling that everything’s getting worse!
still and all have had a nice (but spendy) day in the Trafford centre with the DCs. DS1 and I went halves on his prom suit (240, he gave me 100 from his earnings at his part time job) and he and DD treated me to tea which was my overdue Mother’s Day present from them. So even though it’s been spendy and there has been some moaning along the way 🤐 I am feeling that I’ve raised generous kids!

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