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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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lifelongfrugaleer · 31/05/2022 06:31

Spendy day at a retail park with dd as she needed some new clothes. Still more to get

WreckTangled · 31/05/2022 06:41

Did needs clothes too. She's almost 12 but in the past two years has developed a woman's body. It's hard for her as none of her friends are like that yet. She's not super tall yet either so although adult sized body her height isn't up there yet.

Probably another nsd today.

Wolfcub · 31/05/2022 07:38

Martha the recruitment freeze is causing me major stress, I have not got enough people to do the essential work and am under ridiculous pressure

Pay day, paid myself first. Also dd some life admin yesterday. More to do today

WreckTangled · 31/05/2022 08:54

I'm taking the dc to Starbucks. Can get 10% off with blc.

Timetoswitch · 31/05/2022 09:03

I was looking at a job wolf, but now wondering if it is worth the bother in case it gets pulled, and I’d really not want to work 5 days in the office. However, if everyone else thinks that, maybe I’d have more chance of getting it!

Gensola · 31/05/2022 09:09

wreck totally get it, we never seem to get a break either! DH has an adult daughter who constantly asks for money and he’s too soft to say no, most recent request was for £850 and he’s trying to find a way of getting her the money even though we just cancelled a mini break in Dorset costing £200 to save money, sold his car to save money etc.
It’s all very stressful. I didn’t mind it so much when we weren’t married but now it’s our money rather than his/mine it annoys me. I wouldn’t begrudge her it if we had it but I am basically going without so she can have it, and I’ve never even met her.

Decafflatteplease · 31/05/2022 10:06

@Wolfcub what does pay yourself first mean?

@Gensola that sounds tricky with adult DC especially if you haven't met them.

@WreckTangled I get it about the holiday thing, we had a week away at Easter which had been moved from the last year. This year we are off housesit for family for a week in the summer so free accommodation but still need to sort food and activities but hopefully we can spend most of the time on the beach I've invested in wetsuits for the DC or at national trust places. DC keep asking why can't we go abroad. For starters none of us have passports so that about £500 and the stress of flying with disabled dc just no!

Should be a lsd day today we are off to a nature reserve in a bit, taking a picnic (m and s yellow stickers from yesterday will be fine today right 🤔) so we just need to pay for parking £5.

I'm doing a freezer inventory this morning how exciting! Want to try to cut down food bill by using up long forgotten things on the freezer even if some of them are ontk suitable for DH and I eg makerel I think is in there it will still save money as I'll only have to buy DC food

Also @Wolfcub don't k ow I'd you saw my post yesterday re Lidl but I forgot to say if you were going to do the app it's best to do it at the start of the month as the rewards run each calendar month eg spend £200 in the month of may not from mid may to mid June as a month iyswim

WreckTangled · 31/05/2022 10:14

Well the Starbucks is closed for renovation Angry so we're at a diner type place instead ££££

Hairband100 · 31/05/2022 12:10

@Decafflatteplease

"Pay yourself first " is the catchphrase of a
Essentially you pay yourself in terms of dealing with Bills,debts and savings and then and only then deciding what you can afford to spend on other things.
Sometimes that will be zero
Most people in long term debt decide what they are going to spend on treats, non essentials first and then get in a pickle with bills and debt.
Probably not a popular opinion hence the NC !

Hairband100 · 31/05/2022 12:13

Aaargh half didnt post
of an old money expert
Cant remember his name,I think he was american ?

Gensola · 31/05/2022 12:32

Was it Dave Ramsey @Hairband100 ?

WreckTangled · 31/05/2022 12:39

We haven't had a holiday since 2019. I'm so used to go away every year. We're considering a term time holiday next year, dd will be year 8 then so last time we would do it but it's half the price, we can (or will be able to) manage £1800 but not over £3k. I know mn hates term time holidays with the whole 'if you can't afford the summer prices you can't afford to go' but honestly if I don't get a beach holiday next year I will definitely fall into some kind of depression.

Decaf the yellow sticker bits will def be fine. Sounds lovely. We've had heavy rain here today.

Gen that would make me really cross. I still borrow money from my dad but always pay it back. In fact I've almost finished paying him back for my car which I've repaid with interest.

£30 on pancakes, waffles and milkshakes...

Hairband100 · 31/05/2022 12:40

Gensola · 31/05/2022 12:32

Was it Dave Ramsey @Hairband100 ?

I think DR was the YNAB chap?
This one had a show on tv.
He liked his luxuries but only after every thing else was dealt with and he worked out if he really wanted it or if he could afford it.
He dealt very firmly with emotional and want vs need spending.
Im sure someone will remember him

ememem84 · 31/05/2022 12:52

Hola!

£40 local cook shop. Micro plane grater thing. Two huge tubs for cakes. Icing colours (red white blue) and some cake sparkle spray.

ds wants to bake cupcakes for the queen party. And he needs baked goods for nursery tomorrow. Ffs. So that’s my evening gone then. I promised we’d bake for the party on Friday so am going to do a whole ton of cupcakes tonight then just frost ours on Friday morning. Win.

BigSkies2022 · 31/05/2022 13:41

Have just paid the balance on our week in Devon in July, out of June's joint account budget. So this is going to have to be a more-than-usually-frugal food month. I am looking in cupboards and fridge and making meal plans. This month (May) has been quite extravagant for us, catering-wise - a couple of takeaways, wine, feeding DS and his GF on holiday, lunches out, tea and cake out, baking for birthdays. We're away at the weekend, so to get us to that point, I've got:
Tonight: Frittata with salad. One egg left over to make a batch of scones, which I can freeze to take with us. (We also have odds and ends of jam).
Wednesday: Baked aubergine with tahini and yoghurt dressing and mint. New potatoes with garlic and thyme (from the garden) on the side. Fried mushrooms.
Thursday: Vegetarian chilli - use up the last of the green lentils and brown rice, a tin of kidney beans and one of tomatoes, a couple of onions and a red pepper. A couple of wraps from the freezer and a bit of grated cheese and creme fraiche. Make some flapjacks to take with us. Throw whatever is left of the perishables in a box to take with us.
Friday: on the road. Lunch at my parents'. Dinner of the pasta/pesto variety.
I reckon I can get us through to Friday evening with no further money spent on food, apart from bread and milk.

lifelongfrugaleer · 31/05/2022 14:50

Pay your self first is basically makes your money part of the monthly budgets either as savings or treat money. Sometimes it doesn’t work as you have to dip into some
or all of it for unexpected spends but it is at least earmarked or moved. It’s easier to do that than get it erased away in the pot.
I also do it to savings with my other dd

gen that is tough. I agree if you are going without then dsd needs a long hard look at ££. Or dh needs to toughen up as appropriate

we are extremely fortunate we are now in a place we can afford holidays. Twas a long road though

bravo on freezer audit and meal plan. Must get better
inhear you on baking stuff em. I did loads for last weekend and need more mid June. Also some broken cake boxes need replacement. I’m slowly getting quality lock n lock ones from the range as cheaper

lifelongfrugaleer · 31/05/2022 14:51

Spendy day for dd £20 clothes and ds £20 trampoline for 2 hours.
it’s torrential rain here

Timetoswitch · 31/05/2022 16:50

I’ve got two loads on the line, and it keeps chucking it down here. I’m hoping for a couple of hours of no rain, and then I will bring it in to try again tomorrow.

£15 on 3 new door keys. This has been on my to do list since 2015! Had to go to the shop who did the locks, as the keys had a patent thing on them so no one else would cut them. DD1 needs her own keys soon.

I was feeling smug yesterday, as we didn’t buy ice cream out as it was cold and drizzly. But our fast food, two adult meals and two kids meals was almost £25 at the services! Sheesh. I’d expected it to be £20. And we were still hungry afterwards 😩

Gensola · 31/05/2022 17:47

bigskies that menu sounds delicious! Stealing some ideas (scones - why don’t I make them more often, so yummy!)

resisting the urge for midweek G&T after a tough afternoon teaching. Having a decaf iced coffee made at home by my personal barista (o?) DH instead and a little walk down to the river.

wreck unfortunately these are never loans just requests for him to pay for things which he does because he still feels guilty about the divorce. Disney dad syndrome … I wouldn’t mind if she was in a crisis but she’s in her 20s now and works! She has more disposable income than I do 😂

we have literally no savings so I can’t see where he is finding £800 from tbh.

Decafflatteplease · 31/05/2022 18:40

@Gensola I like the Lidl ready mixed cans of g and t. Only 85p and great for a little treat, I find if DH and I open a bottle of wine we will drink the whole thing whereas with these cans I'm happy to just have one. Especially nice in the bath wirh candles and reading on my kindle 😊

Hairband100 · 31/05/2022 18:46

It was Alvin Hall of ostrich attack fame 😂
His laugh makes me laugh in that clip.

He once had 25 credit cards 😳 and realised he was being led into spending recklessly and so developed the PYSF approach.
I think Dave Ramsay developed the 1K savings pot as a minimum to avoid paying off debt then building it up again if a cash flow emergency cropped up.
Think it might be tricky given the current rising costs of living, if every penny is accounted for by bills though.
I notice that Martin Lewis recommended using savings in his last show but to me, I would just cut back as I do have room to cut back, rather than use savings.
Meal plan is based around a gammon leftover from Christmas.
We will have it with mash and green veg, then pasta and omlette.
Jubilee will be a cold lunch, the usual stuff, scones and a chocolate and cream swiss roll.
Depending on how much is left I will shop on friday.

WreckTangled · 31/05/2022 21:26
Grin
ememem84 · 31/05/2022 21:56

wreck I’ve seen people on the TikTok claiming they can make money selling their toenails. Ick.

only fans is the site where you sell pics of your feet right?

I’ve made cupcakes. And cheese and ham muffins. Mmm.

these cakes are ones to take to work tomorrow.

frosted the cupcake bastards. kitchen will be sticky for weeks now.

Amble into April Frugaleering
Unescorted · 31/05/2022 22:36

Evenings...

Em they look lish.

I love scones.. they look impressive but in reality are cheap and easy. Savoury ones with feta, chives and sour cream are my go to use up the fridge scrapings ones... Chives from the garden, sour cream can be swapped for any tart creamy thing (including milk that has gone over) feta can be any cheese. I don't tell the guests.

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WreckTangled · 01/06/2022 05:14

It's more than just your feet...