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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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ememem84 · 27/05/2022 08:25

Appointment at 245. Have to take kids with me. But hey ho.
DH has his promotion interview presentation thing today. If it wasn’t so important I’d have asked him to take the day. But not today. So we’re muddling through.

lifelongfrugaleer · 27/05/2022 14:34

Sounds infected em. Gws and good luck to dh

Timetoswitch · 27/05/2022 16:12

Hope DH’s presentation went well, and you feel better soon em

Ddad is back out of hospital again, he’d been there 5 days. Dmum has been very trying this week….

But DC are now on holiday. Yay!

Have a sore foot/leg after physio today. Foot injury caused by the exercises I’ve been doing. So I get a rest for a few days now 🤣

WreckTangled · 27/05/2022 16:41

Hope you're feeling better soon em

Holidays here too and I'm off work woo hoo!

So spendy

£125 Tesco c&c
£35 Tesco in store (shorts for ds, pjs and earrings for DD's birthday, birthday cards for her and a drink for me)
£22 kfc
£40 fuel (yes I did only put £50 is on Wednesday Sad)

Turns out all the registered community nurses can apply for a one off £100 grant to help with fuel. I am not a registered nurse but definitely do more miles than them and earn way less.... this close >< to quitting Angry

ememem84 · 27/05/2022 18:15

I have tonsilitis. DH has a promotion. His comes with more money and more responsibility. Mine comes with antibiotics (to take if I really need them) prescribed Ibruprofen and paracetamol and a throat spray.

im lucky…

ememem84 · 27/05/2022 18:16

This is rare. Ds napping. He’s exhausted. He had the best time at the castle with grandad. My dad knows so so much about the castle and told him all the things. I haven’t seen ds that engaged for a while.

Amble into April Frugaleering
WreckTangled · 27/05/2022 18:23

I have a similar photo of ds from the way home today Grin

Gensola · 27/05/2022 23:31

em so sorry to hear you have tonsillitis - it’s so painful, hope you feel better soon! 💖

ememem84 · 28/05/2022 07:54

Thanks gen I’m ok. Had a fairly decent sleep
last night and am now still in bed with a nice cup of tea. DH was in London tues and we’d and brought me back naice Earl grey tea from fortnums. Yum.

lifelongfrugaleer · 28/05/2022 08:13

Ah. Car naps are so cute
I hear you on the hurty foot after physio

spendy day yesterday £105 aldi. £33 M&S and today farmfoods but it is birthday weekend for dh and we have events

Wolfcub · 28/05/2022 09:07

Morning all. I'm way behind, not even goi g to try to catch up. Really feeling the pinch at the moment, savings seem to be taking a hammering just to pay for daily expenses. I need to get my frugal head back on

BigSkies2022 · 28/05/2022 11:14

Hello all. Back from a lovely week in the Vale of York and the Dales and I would move there in a heartbeat. So, so ready to leave London. DH tells me the nearest he can get with the current job is the office in Manchester, but that isn't even open yet! We need a five year plan.

DS and accompanying GF were both lovely, and it was nice to provide them with home comforts and cooking in our posh rental for a few days.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 28/05/2022 12:14

Morning everyone Smile
Spends today £19 on pest control.
Petrol £36
Groceries £19 from Morrisons had 2 NSD in between yay!
Beautiful weather here hope everyone has a lovely day Smile

lifelongfrugaleer · 28/05/2022 14:09

Fortune spent today

AdoraBell · 28/05/2022 18:20

£6.25 in Sainsbury’s, top up shop.
£60- ish in B&Q on more plants, bone meal and 2 fruit trees.

Frugal win, coffee shop have us a box of used coffee grounds for the garden.

WreckTangled · 28/05/2022 18:21

Nsd. Phew.

Gensola · 28/05/2022 19:37

We had a spendy and very exciting day - £150 big shop including toiletries and a massive box of 40 cat food pouches.
DH sold his car to we buy any car so we are now credit card debt free! 🤩🥳

£156 ferries for honeymoon from Athens to the island we are staying on.

meal plan:
chicken, pepper and chorizo one pot

Chilli garlic prawn salad

turkey and mushroom Ragu with courgetti and pasta
roast veg frittata and salad

veg sausages with cheese, celery & potato gratin (sounds weird, is delicious!) and grated carrot and beet salad

bean and pepper enchiladas with guacamole and salsa

marthasmum · 28/05/2022 23:59

Your meals sound delicious gen!
em thanks for the gymshark tip, have ordered leggings for £18

Tried Asda for the food shop and wasn’t impressed. £76 in Asda and £29 in Lidl on the bits I knew would be cheaper and nicer there!

DP put all his pennies into the change machine in Asda 😂 -23 that we our towards buying paint for the bathroom

also £37 on jeans and leggings for me and DP

going to be a spendy week unfortunately as it’s DSs prom and I need to buy him a suit - he has a job though so is going to contribute. Also DD’s 18th. They have both been working hard for their exams so I feel I want to treat them, but funds are low after car expenses this month. I know exactly what you mean wolf about dipping into savings for everyday stuff

lifelongfrugaleer · 29/05/2022 07:24

Yeah on being cc free Gen

Happierwithouthim · 29/05/2022 07:27

Wolfcub · 28/05/2022 09:07

Morning all. I'm way behind, not even goi g to try to catch up. Really feeling the pinch at the moment, savings seem to be taking a hammering just to pay for daily expenses. I need to get my frugal head back on

I'm the same as wolf so just going to get back on thread from today.

I fell in love with a new to me car this week but I'm debt free except for mortgage & I'm paying out for dds braces at the moment so it'll wait until after that. My own car is ten years old but going perfectly

Gensola · 29/05/2022 08:22

I should say although now CC debt free I still have an IVF loan remaining of £6,000 and £3,000ish left on my student loan but they’re both fixed payments and low interest of 1.75ish so I may or may not overpay them, I think in some ways I’d be better off saving up a proper emergency fund.

lifelongfrugaleer · 29/05/2022 08:27

Still a win gen. I would get a little slush fund then throw what you can at them.

Gensola · 29/05/2022 08:30

What would you save, life I’m ashamed to say I literally have no savings 👀 I listened to a Dave Ramsey show he says £1000? Maybe I try to get there before paying down the IVF debt etc - ivf loan is £279 a month DD, I have 24 months to go and then student loan comes out before tax from salary, need to check a payslip to see exactly how much it is.

WreckTangled · 29/05/2022 08:41

We've got £363 left of our loan and I owe my dad £375 for my car. That's it. I could clear those with savings but not much point now, plus it wouldn't leave me with anything.

Dh has some debt from going self employed a few months ago £5000 loan which is only £100 a month. £2000 he owes his mum and £1500 credit card. It's so shit to know we would have been debt free by august and would be better off I feel a bit resentful because I've been telling dh to go self employed for absolutely years and now he's done it there's a massive cost of living crisis. Ffs. Luckily he's not short of work and is booked up for the next year but Amy spare money he's throwing at the debt. Feel like we're getting nowhere fast and aren't any better off than we were 10 years ago.

lifelongfrugaleer · 29/05/2022 09:34

£500 to £1000 Gen seems reasonable. I wouldn’t go too much as you will not earn what your debt costs you. Could you save the cc payments you were making even?

Shit isn’t it wreck, hope the work means you can get it payed sooner