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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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Gensola · 15/05/2022 20:23

mrs best wedding I’ve ever been to was a gay wedding also - two women, it was so beautiful and really fun. One of the brides’ very elderly granny was there and was so excited to be at a gay wedding, she kept asking me if I had been to one before and saying how great it all was and what a shame it wasn’t a thing in her day!

marthasmum · 15/05/2022 20:35

Thank you mrs my DD is gay and has had lots of support from wider family.
gen that is very touching about the older lady.
tayto sorry I missed that your DD has exams too, hope all goes well

Decafflatteplease · 15/05/2022 20:55

Sounds like a lovely wedding

Nsd here today. If we don't include things like direct debits. Do people include those in a.nsd to make it a non nsd??

Also im pleased that after me saying the other day about how I felt bad I couldn't get to Lidl this week Im actually going tomorrow as the thing I was meant to be doing I'm not doing now and a friend is going to Lidl anyway so is giving me a lift as our car is still in the garage. The less said about that the better. I have to take my toddler with me though to Lidl so wish me luck 🤣

WreckTangled · 15/05/2022 21:01

I don't include direct debits, no.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 15/05/2022 21:28

Gen the brides were beautiful, l get what you say re it being one of the happiest wedding you have been to & what a brilliant Granny ! l just felt as if this was their day , they feel for each other the same as l feel for my Husband on our wedding day and their day is equally as special, if not more special than mine because of all that they have had to go through to get to their wedding day. So they had opposition from their loved ones and still had the courage to get married despite their relatives. So good luck to them for standing by each other and ignoring the ignorant homophobes.
Martha l am so glad your Dd has a lot of support , it can be so isolating for them, my lovely nephew is gay and is living with his partner & a more lovely couple you couldn't wish to meet, they have a lot of support from us all , it doesn't mean a thing to any of us , l can't wait for them to get married Smile

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 15/05/2022 21:32

Decaff l don't include Direct debits either Smile

ememem84 · 16/05/2022 06:05

mrs that wedding sounds wonderful. Who doesn’t love a good wedding.

I’ve been to a wedding where one of the parents sat with a thunder face all day. I mean why bother going?

ememem84 · 16/05/2022 06:06

I also don’t include direct debits. Only money I physically pay.

WreckTangled · 16/05/2022 06:28

Morning. Just in the gym. Should be a nsd today, I've got lots of driving to do today; visit - office - visit - home. Lots of fuel which is annoying.

lifelongfrugaleer · 16/05/2022 06:32

Both weddings sound amazing
I agree so t go if you don’t support it rather than have a face on
i don’t include dd as I theory they are in the budget.
jer wash fun yesterday but it’s raining today. I’ve found my new career as a jet washer
need a top up of fruit from Aldi and a strimmer

toddler plus lidl = bribe from the bakery as you go in imo

lifelongfrugaleer · 16/05/2022 07:43

Go you wreck. I’m feeling a bit throaty today so skipping the gym. Busy weekend gardening and with EPIL

Timetoswitch · 16/05/2022 12:21

My council tax £150 refund came through today. Normal monthly council tax bill went out too (which is more than that though!)

Happy drizzly Monday here!

Decafflatteplease · 16/05/2022 16:04

Phew we made it back from Lidl in one piece, toddler was happy pushing one of the kids mini trolleys whilst eating a custard tart 🤣

I went round twice, once for non food items I got a garden water toy think which the little ones will love, some play sand and 24 andrex toilet rolls for £9 which I thought was very good. That earned me a £2 voucher then I went round again for food and spent the voucher

Spent £56, then put it in the ocado app when I got home and pretty much like for like would have been £82 😱 just got bits and bobs really to save getting them on ocado over the next few weeks. One thing that was alot cheaper was kids vitamins. We normally use branded ones at £5.50 for 30 but Lidl were £1.69 for 30. I checked the ingredients and Lidl actually have more percentage eg 100% of vitamin D whereas branded only have 50,%. Feel as if though they won't be as good though,the power of brand names 🙄

I'm £15 away from the £200 spend to get £10 back before the end of the month don't know if I will get to go again given the car situation. DH is like yeah it's not a target to spend you know 🤣

Decafflatteplease · 16/05/2022 16:05

We also got our council tax refund thing today

lifelongfrugaleer · 16/05/2022 20:57

We did too. I’ll just put it towards bills
£49 Aldi including a strummer though

WreckTangled · 16/05/2022 21:04

Still waiting for ours. It'll go into savings though.

Nsd 🙌🏼 needed a fruit top up but dh paid out of his own money rather than the joint account. DD's new earrings have broken so need to send them back to ASOS.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 16/05/2022 21:13

£10 Morrisons on milk, bread and deli stuff, l seem to be living in Morrisons deli atm Grin
Not eligible for the council tax rebated ourselves but l have applied for Bobbo's and Mum's today so hopefuly they will be paid soon Smile
They want to know the ins and outs of a ducks wotsits , how they think an elderly person will be able to fill the forms in l really don't know Hmm

BigSkies2022 · 16/05/2022 21:46

Tayto - love the sound of your kitchen windowsill transformation. Those kinds of tweaks are so morale-boosting.

Tomorrow I have a visit to the recycling centre booked, so I shall be clearing some detritus. Always a nice feeling, although there is always more to do...

I am resigned to May and June being seat-of-my-pants, spendy months. I"m going to be adrift by a couple of hundred pounds, and that's after cleaning out my emergency cash, rejigging my CC repayment schedule and tapping up DH for half of DS' rent. Never mind, all other things being equal (ha! famous last words) I should be able to start saving again in July.

ememem84 · 16/05/2022 21:49

Ooooh nsd

Unescorted · 17/05/2022 06:45

Big I hate months like that.

I don't count DDs in NSD, but as they (DD not NSD hopefully) are all scheduled for a single day it doesn't make much of a difference.

Decaff ditching the brands was our single biggest saving - We started in the last dip (2011) and never went back to the big supermarkets.

The other big saving was making fakeaways - it helped that I worked in town & could pop into the Chinese, Indian, Caribbean and Persian supermarkets on my travels.

Yesterday was a NSD.

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BigSkies2022 · 17/05/2022 07:59

Unescorted - well, your remark in your opening post that you will have spendy months, don't get disheartened, just start again from where you are, is encouraging, and one of the reasons I joined in on this thread. It's not terrible, I just can't meet all my commitments over the next couple of months, but I will be able to get back on track if my income doesn't dry up. I had a setback last autumn, and that wiped out my buffer and I have struggled to rebuild it this year. My mistake has been trying to pay CC debt too quickly - impatience!

ememem84 · 17/05/2022 10:38

Going to check my coop account at lunchtime. Hoping for a SUPRISE in there so I can take some cash out and use this to pay off credit card a bit.

ds refused to go to preschool this morning. Felt awful but essentially prised him off me and threw him in.

£3.50 on huge coffee after that. #necessary

also have to buy lunch.

WreckTangled · 17/05/2022 10:44

June is always massively spendy for us as it's DD's birthday, my birthday, Father's Day, fil's birthday, my grandads birthday...

Should be a nsd today for me. I've asked dh to get coffee though which if he does will be out of the joint account. About £3 I guess.

I'm home today as I've got a mock exam so online learning it meant I got to go to the gym between dropping ds off and starting, I've not been to the gym at 8am before, only the cardio machines were being used which was great for me as I had the weights section to myself Grin

lifelongfrugaleer · 17/05/2022 11:27

He’ll be fine em once he’s in
same here wreck . Lots of events and birthdays

ememem84 · 17/05/2022 11:32

So far so good. No calls. Phew. I’m now waiting for a meeting with our building manager for work. So sneaked out for a break.