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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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Decafflatteplease · 17/05/2022 13:42

Low spend day here today although we are waiting on a price the garage for the car. Absolutely sick of it now it spends more time in the garage than it does on our drive. I think a summer holiday project could be looking at a replacement and looking at a loan uurgh. Or leasing could be an option but we prefer to buy our cars.

Lovely day so far, went to a garden centre with a friend and her children and got a lovely houseplant I love houseplants they make me so happy but I had vouchers so it was free! Need to find a new home for it now! Also got a free coffee as have a yearly pass.£2.50 on soft play and £1.10 for juice for toddler and we had snacks in the car.

Decafflatteplease · 17/05/2022 13:45

@ememem84 that's so tough about preschool. My toddler goes through phases like that at preschool too. I find a quick "dump and run" as we call it works best for us rather than dragging goodbyes out although I agree you feel awful leaving them crying. Mine have all done this over the years (I have 4) Like you say though they would ring if needed.

WreckTangled · 17/05/2022 14:04

Oh we need milk and cherry tomatoes. Actually they have to be plum tomatoes or fancy on the vine ones as that's all the dc will eat Hmm

It's horrible when your dc are sad, dd has tried school refusing recently (obviously she's older so it's a bit less sad and more annoying) but the threat or removing her phone for a month soon got her off her bum and on the bus Grin

ememem84 · 17/05/2022 18:23

@Decafflatteplease I usually do a dump and run but today not so much.

i found out I have £303 in my coop account. But the annual dividend doesn’t pay out until Thursday. So will be more then.

Decafflatteplease · 17/05/2022 18:54

Me again, today went downhill a bit with the arrival of some financial post.

Our car insurance is up for renewal soon. We will shop around for quotes but generally they are about the same we find. We pay it in one go usually so that's due next month but that's a massive chunk to take out of our monthly budget for that month. I think we should pay it monthly but DH says it will cost more over the course of a year.

We also got the dreaded energy info for when our fixed rate ends soon. It's going from £124 to £250.

Feeling a bit fed up.

Our outgoings are so clearly consistently above our incomings. I know that's the whole point of being on this thread but still 🙄

Life on one salary uurgh. At this rate it won't be long before we are still in the red on payday!

On a positive note though I spent a lovely bit of time today planning our frugal half term adventures. What are everyone else's half term plans?

Gensola · 17/05/2022 19:25

decaffe we are going to DH sisters for lunch on the first day, staying in a tiny cabin in someone’s garden (was super cheap!) near the coast that night and then doing a massive coast walk the next day, taking picnic food. Then I’m at work the middle of the week (I work at Uni so don’t get half terms, DH is a teacher) and at the end of the week we are visiting MIL, then London to see friends for an art exhibition and dinner. I’m actually really excited 😅 art exhibit is free as we have membership.

Unescorted · 17/05/2022 19:33

Big I would love to take credit for all the sage advice, but it was a group effort on the last thread. It is good advice through - some days / weeks/ months are tougher. It isn't shiny but plodding on gets results in the end.

em why do they do that - dump & run is a good strategy.

Wreck - cars are a pain. If you do think of getting a lease car make sure you keep it in pristine condition and don't go over the mileage or otherwise you get hammered with charges. I would not recommend it with kids, dogs, bikes, construction sites, no off street parking et al. Do not eat in it, have driving shoes and covers for the seats. Make sure you live in an area where everyone else has lease cars so they do not bump you in the car park. Having said that - I got a lease car and then bought it at the end of the lease period because I got it through work with over 1000 miles a month for business & my car was in a similar state to yours (always in the garage). Work paid for most of the cost.

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lifelongfrugaleer · 17/05/2022 19:52

Decaf if they are not much different see if you n get cash back on the insurance

Unescorted · 17/05/2022 20:01

Gen your plans sound lovely.

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Timetoswitch · 17/05/2022 20:14

Decaff we’ve got “free” tickets to legoland as when we went last year they had a return in 2023 for free offer. We’ll take a packed lunch, so should just be petrol, ice cream and maybe a McDs on the way home if we’re driving home at dinner time.

l’m due to look after my friends two DC for a day. I’ve done a swop so she looks after my DC for a day at the end of the summer on a tricky childcare day which saves about £90.

If it’s nice, a few trips to the beach, with packed lunch. So just parking and ice cream.

Apart from that, a boiler service, maybe a trip to physio and a couple of visits to my DDad in his home. And maybe tidy the house 😂

I don’t think we’ve had any takeaways or food out since Easter hols so happy to plan in the ice creams, mcd’s etc.

AdoraBell · 17/05/2022 20:18

£70 on groceries. DH filled the car, petrol is £1.72 here. That was the cheapest he found.

WreckTangled · 17/05/2022 20:22

I'm actually off for half term which will be nice but I'm not sure we will do anything really. Depends on the weather I guess. DH will be working all week so that'll make any outings cheaper...

lifelongfrugaleer · 17/05/2022 20:26

I’m working the first half and away for big birthday (dh) and my birthday over the bank holidays

WreckTangled · 17/05/2022 20:31

Ooo I might get my nails done next week if I'm off the following. Not allowed them done at work but if I'm off it might be a nice treat. A new place has opened up in town which is only £20 for an express shellac and has good reviews.

ememem84 · 17/05/2022 21:21

Dump and run tomorrow. Or try at least.

they both had ace days though. And we haven’t mentioned any sore ears or not wanting to go again. Phew.

WreckTangled · 18/05/2022 06:18

I've got so much driving to do the next three days and only have 150 miles in the tank. Will have to borrow from savings again ffs.

Gensola · 18/05/2022 07:44

I’ve put my little 2008 runabout into we buy any car and they say they’ll give me £1500 so I’ve told DH to sell it at half term. If they give the full amount I’ll be delighted - money to pay for my wedding dress, headdress and shoes with the rest set aside to put behind the bar at the reception maybe.
I’ve also discovered I can make really tasty iced coffees at home so have saved money last two days not getting them out.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 18/05/2022 14:44

Bought Dh 2 more bird feeders, £12 he is being run ragged filling the feeders up , we must have the South Wales population of Sparrows living in our garden [Grin]
Petrol has gone up to 184.9 /l in our town , unbelievable !😱

Decafflatteplease · 18/05/2022 16:34

@ememem84 how was drop off this morning?

@TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans our bird feeders are barely lasting a day here which is lovely I guess but I feel I'm out there by the minutes filling them up 🤣

I realised I forgot to put our half term plans after asking everyone else 🤣 ours are all dependent on the thing that must not be named car being fixed. But weve planned a visit to a local farm (free entry) but will probably get ice cream etc as it's the holidays, visit to each set of grandparents for the day, although we can take the train if no car, visit to a nature rreserve so just pay parking.

I still haven't sorted the gym / applied for a grant as DH is really reluctant. However the council pool does reduced price swimming in the holidays I've recently found out so we may try that one day. Although it will be busy so might not suitable for disabled dc, will see.

Teens have requested to go family bowling in the holidays but it's so expensive and not very long!

WreckTangled · 18/05/2022 16:37

Bowling is extortionate Shock couldn't believe how much it was when I checked recently. We could go to the cinema twice for less.

I spent 85p on a drink today. Annoyingly I had the cash for it but they said they're no longer accepting cash so had to use a card.

lifelongfrugaleer · 18/05/2022 17:22

I agree bowl is ££ but for a treat ok
lsd today

ememem84 · 18/05/2022 19:40

Drop off was easy! Dump and run. Pick up (because obviously they know I have to rush to get home on a weds so DH can get to Pilates for 6…) was more chaotic. Didn’t get to nursery u til 5.10 (usually I leave a bit earlier). Then had to do the handover for each kid. So by the time we got to the car it was 530. DH was waiting outside the house when we got there. He made it though. Yay.

lifelongfrugaleer · 19/05/2022 16:28

£465 on new fitted dishy

WreckTangled · 19/05/2022 16:34

£50 fuel
85p haribo
£1.30 red bull

ememem84 · 19/05/2022 16:34

Went back to coop today. £446 in my account which includes last years dividend. Woo. Took it all bar £1 out paid it into bank and the. Threw it at credit card. so paid 10% off. Wooooo.