We saw DS today for the first time today in 6 weeks. The difference in him is unbelievable. He's always been a quiet, under confident soul but he's matured massively, even his body language is relaxed. He's chatty, easy going and loving university life. Doing well, had some impressive early marks, hasn't missed a lecture (and he has 3 9am ones) and has already sorted out accommodation for next year with his mates at £90 a week including bills for a house close to the centre of Lancaster.
He's been out a fair bit too...
He's even changed his bedding twice!
Treated him to a meal out, which was £45 and stocked him back up with posher food that he can't afford.
He's paid his own deposit for the house of £200.
I'm a fairly chill parent, but have fussed DS a bit much at times. Doing everything for himself has been the making for him.