I just stopped using fabric conditioner about 6 years ago. Ran out and didn't rebuy. I can honestly say I can't tell the difference. Never use thingys in the tumbler either. I only ever buy the pink surf, in a huuuuge box (120 washes?) £8 costco, or slightly smaller box when on offer in asda. I buy two boxes a year, and average a wash a day, so very stingy with the powder, it just seems to clean brilliantly. Plus we have really nice water.
Have not spent yet anything today. Very unusual. Rained all day. Put the seat heater on in the car, and have a thermal base layer on.
It funny how we all have our spending weakness. For Em and Collie it's cosmetics, for me it's yarn. I never feel guilty buying yarn - I wish I did, it's so easy to justify it to myself.