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Fluffys frugaleer thread. All welcome.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 06/05/2017 12:20

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ChristmasSeacow · 14/05/2017 21:57

Hello! Catching up....

Brilliant news on the PIP Cag, what a result! A very fair result, given that you had to leave your job due to your health. It's actually rather nice to get a backlog payment as you can now decide what to do with it. I couldn't get the pram link to work either (and I love a bit of baby stuff!)

Girlie apologies but I can't remember where DD is going - is it a school trip? It's a life milestone I think, going away from home for a trip for the first time.

Need I hope that leg heals quickly. You will need to think hard about the 3 peaks if it isn't 100% - I am sure you will be sensible and not risk doing yourself a further mischief!

Lonely I can't believe how much cake you made and how much work you put into the club Shock. I hope they appreciate you. I'll have a bit of carrot cake if you're offering

Lovely parents you have there Meadow. You'll deserve a good break after these exams.

I am completely lost in discussion of Supergas - never even heard of them! I am living vicariously through all you gardeners though - I am not a hardcore gardener but I do love pottering around putting in flowers and shrubs and keeping it neat. My garden is being very much neglected at the moment as it's not DH's thing and I can't bend down! I'll try and make up for lost time over the summer after the baby's born (and I can reach the ground again). Not excited about a likely hosepipe ban though - I expect it will suffer a lot.

On the shoe front though - I think I am going to need to get something slip on, flat and comfy to see me through the next few weeks. I'll be okay once sandal weather comes but right now it is a struggle getting boots and shoes on and off because my feet are swollen and I can't reach them either! Any ideas? Ideally something black and suitable for work but also perhaps something for casual. I've never felt I can pull off the trainer look though.

We've had a spendy weekend as we've been painting the baby's room. The feature wall colour i wanted was Farrow and Ball so I got that and then a white from their range for the other walls. The colours are lovely and soft but I wasn't impressed with the paint itself - rather watery and splashy and required at least 3 coats of white even though we were painting over a very pale colour. Annoyingly we almost managed with one tin of white but not quite, so I had to go back for another tin. That made it over £120 on paint alone for a very small room Shock. It's pretty much done now, apart from around the new sockets as the filler hadn't dried enough to sand down and paint. The room looks pretty good, I am really happy with it.

To finish if off a bit I tried to put the new curtain rail up but hit the lintel with the second bracket so had to stop as my drill couldn't manage it. I drilled some holes further out but still hit lintel so I need a handyman with a chuff-off drill to come and finish the job. Not frugal - sigh. And I have more holes to fill Hmm

Still, a satisfying and productive weekend. My sister did most of the work as DH is completely Kak-handed. She worked her socks off and was a complete star Star. I helped as much as I could. I was a bit pissed off with DH yesterday though as I came down to the kitchen at 7pm and it was still a mess from the breakfast pancakes I had made for DS and DH (which he's supposed to clear up) and from DS's dinner. He'd watched the football and was then watching Dr Who. So after all that painting etc I had to clean the kitchen up before even starting to cook dinner. And I could barely stand up. I was very unimpressed. He got the message and has made a bit more effort today. Hmm.

northender · 14/05/2017 22:02

meadow Budapest looks beautiful, my Aunty and two cousins were there last weekend and the pictures were stunning. I was invited but declined on cost grounds.
need hope your hamstring heals quickly, but milk it in the meantime!
wreck plenty of after sun on that...ouch!
lonely great job with the baking, glad the race went well.
girlie good luck to your dd on her week away.
cag brilliant news about the PIP payment, so so pleased for you.

Lovely afternoon with dh yesterday (child free) after a really hard training session in the morning.
Today I spent a couple of hours at the cricket club in the morning cooking sausages & bacon as there was a junior game going on. Then it was back home for some gardening. Dh knows nothing about gardening but is brilliant at following instructions and clearing weeds, digging over etc. so he did that & I've sowed some veg seeds (some outdoors & some in pots). No cost involved as I used seeds & compost that I bought then didn't use last year!

HollyTheHarrier · 14/05/2017 22:10

copper yes the marathon is in this country, in my nearest city. I noticed there's a marathon in Jersey at a similar time and was quite tempted after all the talk about how beautiful it is there from Em and others, but decided to go for a nearby one for my first marathon.

need bad luck on the injury, fingers crossed for a quick recovery.

Today ended up being quite speedy...entered a half marathon in Dublin for about £25 (paid in euros so not actually sure) and bought a couple of new jumpers for £80. My good frugaleering actions for today include making sandwiches for lunch tomorrow, googling for a 20% discount code for the clothes shopping and trawling through my last three months' spending online to assign categories to everything. Aiming to turn the latter into a budget soon, probably next weekend now. This thread is doing me some good, even if I do feel a bit profligate compared to some of you 😳

Really ought to go to bed but trying to eek out the last of the weekend...up at 5am tomorrow for work 😴

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 14/05/2017 22:18

Thanks for all the good wishes guys Smile dd is going to an outdoor activity type place with school but it is only two nights, she will be back Wednesday. She has done a few school trips in the last couple of years but this one makes me slightly more anxious as they will be doing a few more dangerous activities. am sure she will be fine and enjoy it though.

WreckTangled · 15/05/2017 07:17

Shoulders are brown today. The rest will be tomorrow. I was sick last night Blush even though I hadn't been drinking for ten hours. Weird. Both dc have mentioned feeling unwell too so maybe the sun. It was so windy we got caught out.

LSD just parking. I have 121 systems training today.

Ah girlie she will love it!

Need poor you! Wishing you a speedy recovery.

SnugglySnerd · 15/05/2017 07:48

I keep trying to catch up and bring interrupted before I can post. I think its fair to say the sleepy newborn stage has ended! Getting some interaction now though which is lovely.

Had a very frugal weekend, lots of visitors who came with baby clothes and hundreds of nappies. We just bought milk.

Great news on the PIP, Cag. So pleased for you.

Will try and keep up now...

SnugglySnerd · 15/05/2017 07:48

*keep being interrupted that should say.

Cagliostro · 15/05/2017 12:36

Got my PIP letter - award is until April 2021! Am astounded as I assumed I would need to renew every year. Yay :) massive load off my mind.

Dreadful weekend here but feeling slightly more human after a hot bath and doing my hair. DH did lunch before going to work and now the Caglets and I are off to an activity. Just want to try and get back to some kind of normal now.

ememem84 · 15/05/2017 13:23

I've just been for my 20 week scan. DS is doing well. Baby BOY!!!! 💙💙💙💙

SnugglySnerd · 15/05/2017 13:28

Em! How exciting! Congratulations!!!

Cagliostro · 15/05/2017 13:31

Eeeeek! Oh my gosh 😍😍 grinning ear to ear here and don't even care that I was wrong about the sex 😂 YAY!!! Little baby boy! 💙

Fluffycloudland77 · 15/05/2017 14:14

How exciting Em emlet is a little boy!. Your Dh wanted a boy didn't he?. 💙

Some bastards stolen my Tesco credit card details and tried to use it in Argos. I've had to cancel it. I'm going to email boden as it was used there last. Luckily it's so rare it gets used that fraud team spotted it.

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MeadowHay · 15/05/2017 14:30

Em Awww, congrats! Fluffy How did do you that blue heart? Shock

Fluffy Good job you got alerted quickly about the fraud, that's awful!

Cag I'm glad you got a few years on your entitlement so you won't need to be reassessed any time soon. DH's been on the phone to welfare rights organisation earlier who are going to email him details about how they can represent me for my tribunal and how much it will cost. Sigh.

Today should be NSD, shopping coming tonight. Just busy revising for my exam tomorrow really, but I'm feeling relatively ok about it as I have studied loads for it and done all the past paper questions.

ememem84 · 15/05/2017 14:51

cag me too. I'm so getting no work done this afternoon.... haha!

Fluffycloudland77 · 15/05/2017 14:51

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lifelongfrugaleer · 15/05/2017 14:59

Hurrah em. Pleased he is healthy.

It's a virus apparently. Nothing doctor will do for me.

lifelongfrugaleer · 15/05/2017 15:00

Ok, boy bump needs an outrageous wind up mil name..... I'm thinking

lifelongfrugaleer · 15/05/2017 15:03

Wolfgang (em surname)

Apparently the no 1 worst boys name is Gaylord.

SunnyLikeThursday · 15/05/2017 15:04

Congratulations Em. Smile That's great.

Lots of housework done here and I'm writing a science grant proposal. Very exciting.

ChristmasSeacow · 15/05/2017 15:20

Ooh a boy Em. Boys are lovely!

Great news on the PIP Cag. DS's DLA award was for 5 years, much to my astonishment. It is a huge relief not to have to go through it all every year.

ChristmasSeacow · 15/05/2017 15:27

Gaylord made me LOL. Proving there is still an 11-year old buried deep within me. Grin

ememem84 · 15/05/2017 15:53

Yes dh wanted a boy! 💙💙💙

I'm a bit excited. 😊😊

It's nice now that we don't have to refer to baby as "it"

I'm basically getting no work done this afternoon - just sitting here grinning. 😀😀

ememem84 · 15/05/2017 15:56

Haha gaylord.

Or Ptolemy. Or ptarmigan. I really liked thorin for a boy but dh vetoed anything even remotely lord of the rings/ Harry Potter.

WreckTangled · 15/05/2017 16:19

Cag that's great news Smile

Em!!!! There's something extra special about baby boys imo. How lovely Smile

Fluffy what bastards!

I got delayed on the way to work this morning Hmm🐄

£4.50 parking.

Dd has a fever (38.9). I feel sick but only in the way I usually do. My own fault as I forgot to take my tablet before lunch.

Fluffys frugaleer thread. All welcome.
Loveabaconsandwich · 15/05/2017 16:19

Great news cag and em

Your parents sound lovely meadow

£3.20 on lunch