Sorry, I've lost the thread a bit last few days, as it's been pretty busy here.
Spends are under control.
£40 Amazon on oil for the pony, suede cleaner.
£40 M&S on mainly Christmas presents.
I've also bought a new running watch, but I've saved all my topcashback up for this, added an extra £10 by converting it to an Amazon giftcard, which has covered the cost.
Cathode (no idea what the name change is in technical terms!!
). Gently put, your DS has 70% attendance at school, which is a safeguarding issue in the view of the connected parties. I think you might need to start getting him to the doctor each time he is ill, to back up your concerns and help your cause in cold hard facts. Would that help? Again, gently put, perhaps your GP is trying to help, in a not very sensitive manner? I would take him, then it's documented and clear cut. 