Thanks for the thoughts re: the cheque from my mum. I'd forgotten about it. I dunno. She mentioned helping out with a new sofa as ours is knackered TBH but also our house is a fecking tip at the moment and I don't really see the point in getting a new sofa yet until we've got more stuff sorted.
The rebellious part of me doesn't want to use birthday money for it! Possibly a throwback to when I was a teen and my parents said as a well done for my exam results I could get my room refloored, so I excitedly chose something (affordable) but without me realising they paid for it with my money.
But then I'm also worried I'll just bank the cheque and it'll get soaked up into the overdraft etc, because I feel weird spending it now when my birthday isn't until December, and then when we actually NEED a new (would be second hand) sofa we won't be able to afford it.
It's £200 BTW.
I would quite like to use it for a (very small) tattoo, or pay for my party, as I'm 30 this year and I finally have a lot of friends I want to share it with! But being sensible it should just go in the bank... I may split it. How long can I leave a cheque for without paying it in?!