north, you know what? collie might be onto something with your DD. My own DD was extremely volatile and emotional at this stage, and actually into Y7, then she started her periods, and things settled down. At 14, she still an emotional sort, but in a 'normal' way iyswim? Much more mature and able to understand her own feelings. I am sorry you are feeling down too, and that your DH is stressed. Things all come at once sometimes don't they?
fuzz Sorry you have missed out on the project. Your long term health is more important, and you will have many opportunities to shine in years to come 
Hope your DD feels better too girlie
Mad sort of a day today, I have a glass of wine in hand already!
Worked all day. DH has landed an order bigger than any order we have ever had, from a blue chip company, that have paid us in advance. Quoted at 9am, order came through at 9.30am!! Well, we've had this client for 5 months or so now, and they pay as soon as we email the invoice, have already spent with us massively and are a global entity. We deal with a lot of big companies, getting money out of them is like blood from a stone sometimes. I am dealing with their UK Finance Director and mildly in awe I must say, which I shouldn't be, but I am.
So, I've dealt with this all day, drove home, realised I left my house keys at work (never in 10 years have I done this), met DH half way to collect keys, collected DD from school, met the saddler as I was unhappy with the saddle we bought, took dogs out, came home, DS left his school shoes at the gym, so back over to town to collect them in rush hour.
Screamed hysterically at the kids for no apparent reason so feel better now 
DH phones, his new, expensive car from a premium brand maker has broken down!!!
Making soup for tea, dying for a takeout, brownie points for moi