Love I have a 9yo dd as well - I feel your pain! Have had a fair bit of stroppiness this holiday esp if she is asked to help out with unloading the dishwasher or similar!!
I agree with protecting your mental health, mine took a nose dive at the beginning of the year really bad anxiety. Starting to feel more in control again now but its not easy. I find work is really good at grounding me, I struggle more if I have too much time on my hands!!
Anyway this morning took a load of stuff to the tip and didn't stop at the reuse shop! Did pop into a local garden discount centre, spent £11.50 ish but got lots for that including 3 bags of bulbs that were reduced to 50p a bag! Also some more ant stuff as still having issues with them coming through
plus lots of other bits and bobs.
Laska I tried the washing up liquid tip and it was seeming to work in slowing the ants down at least but then last night my very stupid cat managed to lie in the washing up liquid
had to bath her this morning much to her disgust she did look pretty funny though 