NSD for me, have chosen lots of presents and things but not actually ordered anything.
Not a total win though - I mentioned needing to get a cake to donate for the school fair but DH misunderstood so bought one from co-op. Cheapest one there was a fiver. And then he left it on the bus :( I've sent a message to the bus company though, asking them to eat it if it gets handed in :o TBH if I had the spare cash to be doing 'Xmas tip' type gifts I'd be dropping something off for them anyway - the drivers on our route are lovely. Probably though some lucky eagle-eyed passenger has now got a salted caramel cake
:o
Re: groceries, I think we've finally settled into a routine of a delivery every Sunday - this helps me as DH is there to unpack (something I sometimes can't stay upright long enough for!). We were doing smaller deliveries every 4 days or so but we were definitely overbuying. We are getting better at just making do now. It helps that DD now has school dinners on Friday (she really missed her fish and chips!) so we don't have to worry about any fresh stuff lasting that long.
I'm getting better at using the freezer - loads of tomato sauce, spag bol etc in bags - and we are having more cheap meals. For example now they are both having a hot school dinner on Fridays, the DCs agreed Fridays could now be cheese on toast night :o will have a weekly jacket spud too.
I need to reduce my expectations
I was avoiding a lot of frozen veg for example as I do prefer fresh, but TBH the DCs don't notice the difference and I'm frequently relapsing ATM so the convenience of frozen carrots/broccoli is much better too. I keep wanting to do fancier food but I need to get over myself and embrace the routine!