So many of these threads and they all resort to name calling and bunfights. It’s the worst side of mumsnet.
but I will post what I have posted before, or thereabouts.
no one is saying that ‘thou must stay home’ and not go to work if you think you have Covid.
but there are a scale of simple measures:
can you work from home?
do you work with anyone vulnerable?
> then you should stay at home
must you be at your place of work?
> then you need to go in unless your work is telling you to stay off and/or will pay you sick pay.
> can you limit your exposure to people? Eg if you have to take public transport then wear a mask.
if you’re sending your children into school with possible Covid
> the guidance (at least for my LA, not sure if it’s universal) is still to test them and keep them off if positive
> if you’re not doing that then can you at least post on a class WhatsApp that there’s a Covid like bug going round. If I know this I step up the testing on my own children - ie you help me take the measures I need to. If I know it’s going round through the class and I’m in a particularly vulnerable stage I pull them out of school. I’d do this for a stomach bug too if it hits key ‘vulnerable’ days. I’m not asking you not to send your child to school, I do get work pressures, but I am asking you to own your decision and let me make my decisions based on them. (I’m talking primary school here where there’s not much hygiene between pupils).
And the easy stuff, for example:
>I’m in and out of hospital. The wards I go to you have to wear a mask and the staff test 3 x a week. On other wards, patients don’t have to wear masks. But they are freely available at the entrance, with hand sanitiser, and a sign encouraging (but not mandating) everyone to use both. Practically no one does. Why? It’s not a cost issue. I can only imagine it’s a can’t be bothered/ can’t imagine or don’t care that there’s a whole load of vulnerable people going in and out. And yes I do think that’s selfish. I also think it’s crazy the hospital removed the requirement for everyone to wear them and so do nurses on my ward who were ones who actually brought it up 🤷🏻♀️ The stats show that Covid cases increased with them dropping mandatory mask wearing.
Despite the hospital car park queue having lines and signs requesting everyone is distanced, and despite me having a bald head, tubes coming out my arm and frankly looking ill, I repeatedly have to ask anyone directly behind me to please give me space and distance. It is inevitably met with reluctance and like I’m being over the top. Even when I explain why. Why?
this summer when I felt well enough to venture into an occasional supermarket, always in a quiet time and always wearing a mask (again with very funny sprouty hair - it’s a pretty giveaway sign), then why wouldn’t you give me a wider berth - I actually had people leaning over my trolley to get to things. During a quiet time, and I wasn’t staying still ‘hogging an area’ - I was going through pretty quickly (apart from one time I was queuing for the till, but would gladly have moved). Why not see the mask and think that someone might not have a reason for wearing it and not encroach on their personal space? It’s like most people decided ‘I’m not doing this any more and so I’m not facilitating anyone who is trying to’