The problem with this is that yes, elderly people die. But covid 19 may have robbed them of the happy years they had left.
My grandad, for example, was 82 when he caught it. It was just before we went into lockdown, when we didn't know how bad it was. We just thought he'd got a virus, but he got worse and worse, weaker and weaker, ended up in hospital, where a test confirmed he had it. It never entered our head that that's what he had.
We spoke to his doctor who told us he'd had a DNR put on him because he's so elderly and frail and it would be too cruel to ventilate him.
But he was only seeing the man in the bed. What he wasn't seeing was the 82 year old who was living completely independently just a few weeks earlier, driving everywhere, doing his own decorating, walking into town for a few pints with his mates (not a particularly short journey!), going on holiday abroad 4 times a year. We couldn't get it through to them that it was only because he was ill that he was old and frail. He was an independent man, and a hugely valuable part of our family.
Thank god he recovered. It was slow, it took months and months, but he is now back to normal again, driving and walking into town, painting his garden fences.
Yet, if he had died in that hospital, people would have said oh he's 82, he had a good life. Or they'd assume that he would have died soon anyway.
But without covid he wouldn't have died then. Probably not for a long time. I am so thankful that he got better.
Okay, so there may be some elderly people (perhaps who are already in hospital or care homes, very weak or unwell) who might have died soon. But a lot wouldn't have. And even those that would shouldn't have their last few months written off for them.