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#ImDone trending on Twitter

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Workyticket · 14/06/2021 09:37

Not sure how Boris can stand up tonight and ask us to wait 'just another few weeks' after his antics this weekend.

Nor after seeing the scenes at countless pubs where people were celebrating the footy results

I'm 100% done now

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MercyBooth · 14/06/2021 19:53

@User135644 Having seen the way this Government Sage Indi Sage and some on here etc have carried on i am much more scared of living than i am of dying. Dying doesnt scare me any more. Two months ago i thought id found a lump. I could feel it in my breast while in the bath. I didnt feel scared. My first instinct was to keep it a secret. I havent felt it since (cant find it now) and i was on my period at the time so it could be that. But the fact is at the time..............i just didnt care. Because im now more scared of living than i am of dying.

theguestlist · 14/06/2021 19:54

[quote MercyBooth]@User135644 Having seen the way this Government Sage Indi Sage and some on here etc have carried on i am much more scared of living than i am of dying. Dying doesnt scare me any more. Two months ago i thought id found a lump. I could feel it in my breast while in the bath. I didnt feel scared. My first instinct was to keep it a secret. I havent felt it since (cant find it now) and i was on my period at the time so it could be that. But the fact is at the time..............i just didnt care. Because im now more scared of living than i am of dying.[/quote]
This is worrying.

BonnieDundee · 14/06/2021 19:56

Yes #I'mDone too.

If Michael Gove can go to the football in Portugal and not have to quarantine on his return, if that shower of shit can have the jolly in Cornwall that they did at the weekend, I'm doing what I want too.

bumbleymummy · 14/06/2021 19:56

[quote PattyPan]@bumbleymummy Of course anyone is relieved to be at lower risk of a serious illness, what a weird thing to say. I was relieved to get my HPV vaccine too even though the risk of cervical cancer is low.[/quote]
Why? ‘Relieved’ implies someone was incredibly worried about it beforehand. Why are young people so worried? It’s sad.

MercyBooth · 14/06/2021 19:58

Oh im fine Im not going to do anything stupid. Flowers

But i now believe that when its my time............its my time. Im 48 tomorrow. Im so glad i had my younger years when i did. The 80s was a great time to be a kid/teen.

bumbleymummy · 14/06/2021 19:59

@Northernlurker

I think a lot of young people are relieved re vaccine appointments because they want their lives back and this is the only way out we have.
Vaccinating the vulnerable people who are most likely to end up in hospital, putting the nhs under strain, yes. Young people shouldn’t feel like they have to be vaccinated to get their lives back. How awful if they do.
CyberGhost · 14/06/2021 20:02

Thank you for backing me up @AColdDuncanGoodhew :D I still see it happening too, because they tested themselves before they came to work and "it's not covid"....

PattyPan · 14/06/2021 20:12

@Faffinator Hmm I actually don't think Wimbledon is very important but I do think pilot events are a good idea to see if things can be done without too much transmission and since it's with strangers you would interact with other people much less than at the private events you mention, so I imagine that was the logic.

Watercoloursky · 14/06/2021 20:15

@BonnieDundee

Interestingly *@MercyBooth* I haven't seen it reported anywhere on MSM. Who could have predicted that? Hmm
Here it is in the Express www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1449636/London-news-lockdown-protest-today-Downing-Street-Boris-Johnson-announcement-Covid-update/amp

I've seen it reported on the Guardian and BBC websites too. Also LBC news. Pretty mainstream!

ICanSmellSummerComing · 14/06/2021 20:15

Arf I'm sure many of those leaders have already caught covid through various events!

On this occasion I would expect tests anyway.

Maybe the real difference is they don't want to tell us about their access to pcr test, anti body tests and so on.

You can choose to be done but.. If you don't want the virus and do not want someone close to get it, the virus won't know you're "done".

PattyPan · 14/06/2021 20:15

@bumbleymummy because I don't want this to happen to me? www.bbc.co.uk/sport/rowing/54702500

woodfort · 14/06/2021 20:19

@Faffinator
Our school restarted school trips the other week and hosting or visiting other schools for sports matches as well. I reckon there is a lot more that can be done quasi normally under current rules than is being done maybe ..? Our school is I think trying to go for as close to normal as allowed.

I reckon it’s just like how sone (mostly council run it seems) leisure centres are open at very low capacity, not allowing full access to changing rooms and open to booking in advance for a timed slot only. My leisure centre is not operating booking, you never get turned away and you can use the changing rooms and cafe etc as you wish. Different places interpreting the rules very differently....

Faffinator · 14/06/2021 20:29

@woodfort I think you're absolutely right. It's our local authority that has banned a lot of school stuff. But it makes me cross to see that there is no support, encouragement or clear guidelines for these things to go ahead. Government put time and effort into facilitating large events (such as the test match) for profit motive but these types of event are not what most of us really care about.

woodfort · 14/06/2021 20:34

Not really sure what “I’m done” means though. I guess I could break the law by having a large gathering inside (although honestly this was not something we ever tended to do anyway.. if we had parties we tended to do them over the summer in the garden, which is all perfectly legal). The things I want to do and can’t I still can’t do, whether I’m “done” or not - I have theatre tickets booked for just after the moved date, I guess these are cancelled, and I want to take the kids to the museum to actually interact with the children’s touch and play displays, which are all still closed. I can’t really not comply..

I’ve been trying to live my life as normally as I can, so I choose to go places that are relaxed and enjoyable (but almost certainly still compliant with the law) and not all about extra Covid rules that are way beyond what is actually required.. For example, I tried to go to the local library and it was all just so unpleasant that I won’t be back.

BanditoShipman · 14/06/2021 20:48

@Kittypillar

*My son works in the operating theatres Loads of surgeons saying they won’t touch the vax with a barge pole He’s not been vaxed, lots of nhs co workers havent as you said*

I'll take "Things That Never Happened" for 500, Alex...

God yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
woodfort · 14/06/2021 20:58

@Faffinator yes I think it’s councils that are very OTT with the rules. DC’s school is private and I guess therefore under a very different pressure to a state one but the Covid changes seem absolutely minimal and there are regular emails about getting parents back on site the day it becomes legal. As I say, since half term they’ve been back on with school trips and sports fixtures although it’s not nearly as busy as before of course.
It’s generally the council run stuff that is just shut altogether (most children’s centres, access to health visitors and baby weigh ins, support groups or stay and plays etc, some libraries) or open in such a way that you wonder if they are purposefully trying to make life miserable. This is my absolute biggest bug bear about how the recovery and roadmap seems to be going - if you can pay for a service, it’ll be 95% as good as before and Covid rules are easy to live with. For those that can’t pay (and particularly for children), this transition out of lockdown doesn’t really look much different to full lockdown.

Bunnyfuller · 14/06/2021 21:15

@PattyPan

no. I don’t believe my post said that. Don’t read into things, dear 🤓

BonnieDundee · 14/06/2021 21:39

Thanks watercolours. Hadn't seen those. Glad they are being reported

Paquerette · 14/06/2021 21:43

[quote Faffinator]**@MercyBooth* it doesn't bother me for those events to go ahead but it is unjust when you look at what is still banned. School trips anyone? Transition days, residentials, proms? Why can't my DSis big birthday party be a 'government test event'? I guess @PattyPan* will be along to tell me that its cos Wimbledon is for the important people.[/quote]
School trips and residentials aren’t banned. My DS has done both in the last couple of weeks.

Kokeshi123 · 15/06/2021 00:28

I think it’s councils that are very OTT with the rules.

There seems to be a sort of general trend all over the world whereby anything run by the public sector tends to remain plastered in rigid rules and infection-control theater.

I think it's partly "austerity in disguise," partly a reflection of the "lack of a service mentality" that is common in much of the public sector, and partly a left-leaning political thing. As someone on Twitter said recently, "COVID is becoming the Left's 9/11."

Of course, the inevitable result of this is that kids from well-off families get access to things like books and swimming pools and poor kids mostly don't because free/cheap services are such a horrific nightmare to use that parents stop bothering.

KiaKi · 15/06/2021 01:24

@Saucery

School trips aren’t banned. Neither are transition days. Many schools may have decided the risk is too great for them to take place but they aren’t banned.
Yeah that's how it works, soft control, like you jail a few people in a banana republic for speaking out and the rest will self-police.
arithanaggerton · 15/06/2021 02:22

As somebody who has previously worked in hospitality, please, don't be a dick if you go to a restaurant and the 17 year old minimum wage waiter asks you to wear a mask until you get to the table. They don't make the regulations and really, really don't care about your subsequent rant about it. Those in customer service deal with enough, and they may be done with masks just as much as you are, but people have to make a living.

3asAbird · 15/06/2021 03:43

[quote woodfort]@Faffinator yes I think it’s councils that are very OTT with the rules. DC’s school is private and I guess therefore under a very different pressure to a state one but the Covid changes seem absolutely minimal and there are regular emails about getting parents back on site the day it becomes legal. As I say, since half term they’ve been back on with school trips and sports fixtures although it’s not nearly as busy as before of course.
It’s generally the council run stuff that is just shut altogether (most children’s centres, access to health visitors and baby weigh ins, support groups or stay and plays etc, some libraries) or open in such a way that you wonder if they are purposefully trying to make life miserable. This is my absolute biggest bug bear about how the recovery and roadmap seems to be going - if you can pay for a service, it’ll be 95% as good as before and Covid rules are easy to live with. For those that can’t pay (and particularly for children), this transition out of lockdown doesn’t really look much different to full lockdown.[/quote]
Its been tough on preschoolers and still is.
My child doesn't get free 15 hours until term after 3rd birthday so sept.
No toddler groups
Children centre groups virtual
Local leisure centre softplay shut to general public you can hire it for a party.
I pay for dance class by term prebooked and the class is full very little happens for kids thats free.
No swimming lessons for school 2.

2 of my kids do cricket but thats expensive sport with subs and equipment but been real life line for 2 of my older kids.
Eldest school done no intro school sports comps. No year 10 after school sports.
Eldest used do athletic comps and hockey in winter.
Not sure if volleyball will return .
Don't think we can easily access the health visitor anymore.
The kids go private dentist and have been seen but many locally can't access a nhs dentist or get a doctors appointment.

Saucery · 15/06/2021 05:59

Yeah that's how it works, soft control, like you jail a few people in a banana republic for speaking out and the rest will self-police.

Grin Grin Grin

It’s more to do with type of trip available, staffing resources and contingency for absence/positive Covid results etc but hey, you spin a tale of oppression and mysterious population control if that’s what floats your boat.

Lostinacloud · 15/06/2021 06:43

All the people that are still buying into this need to realty get to grips with the data and more importantly the way in which the data is now being presented.

For example: Headline Whitty chart says “64% increase in hospitalisations!!!” When in real figures this was actually a slight increase from 3 in one hundred thousand to 5 in one hundred thousand people being admitted to hospital.

Why the need to shift to using scary sounding percentages that really don’t correspond to the actual situation unless you are trying to justify action you are taking for something that isn’t there?

There are still less people in hospital with covid in the U.K. than there are hospitals in the country and no single hospital is anywhere near to being overwhelmed or likely to be. When have their projection figures ever turned out to be even close to reality?

Even if you ignore all of the doom figures presented last night, over the past few weeks we have been told that 80% of the population are estimated to have antibodies, that the delta variant does not evade the vaccines and that almost everybody has a 99% survival rate. Yet, still people allow themselves to be taken in by the fear. I can’t understand it.

Additionally, this variant was discovered at the beginning of February. According to the government, it is more contagious than the Kent variant. Well the Kent variant was discovered in late September and 2-3 months later we were in lockdown again due to “worrying” growing case numbers. This was also without vaccines existing.
The delta variant has had 4 1/2 months running wild, where are the terrifying numbers, hospitalisations and deaths by now?