Also agree people didn’t move with the expectation of being cut off. But, does that really mean people shouldn’t be able to adapt? Life is so much easier when you can adapt because it doesn’t go as expected, as it will almost never go as expected.
As Marsha said, people who emigrate tend to be pretty good at adapting, and
I find it really curious that there is such a strident resistance by some on this thread and others to allow people in our situation to talk about - and share with each other - our worries and fears in this situation. Instead people invent positions for us to make us look unreasonable - total lies, often, accuse us of wanting to end international border restrictions immediately, of wanting to kill millions. When really all that most of us are saying is that this is pretty hard for us, and we’d quite like to know what the government’s plan is because the lack of one is exacerbating our worry and uncertainty - and our ability to adapt and make decisions about our future.
Decisions to move abroad are rarely easy and are often fraught with emotion and compromise especially when it involves marriage or similar to someone of a different nationality. So this had changed these calculations, and yes the time period and plan for reopening does matter in how we adapt our plans and lives long term. If there will be tough border restrictions until 2024 let me know, I’ll whack in DH’s spouse visa application tomorrow because that would be a step too far for me. But i don’t know - and this thread has just shown that no one knows, courtesy of all the over-confident ‘that doesn’t mean x, it means y!’ interpretations of waffle language my government ministers where x and y tend to vary widely from poster to poster.
I’ll also admit to being surprised at just how emotional I’ve found the degree to which my own country has been happy to erode my citizenship rights, and how happy it has been to almost exclusively promote access to the rich.