@Firefliess
Ok, you are totally the opposite, so can I pick your brain? :)
Wouldn't the fact that you might "cripple" him play any part? As much as I agree with socialization, we are on the opinion that he can catch up and actually has a busy online social life and is voice chatting al afternoons, but if he is triggered than all his life he will have to deal with it.
re:immunosuppresants: here you are on the cv list if you are actively taking them, but given how this condition is basically your own immune system attacking your own body and causing havoc, many other countries have in remission phase on the cv list as well. As it can be easily triggered into a flare by mundane things like the flu.
The problem is that there is no consensus like with heart disease or others. It's hard to navigate when you don't have enough info.
@ancientgran
atm it's not easy to get hold of any other doc. The prev -who retired- knew way more about this whole thing. And docs have enough on their plate, we made our decision, so not bothering them.
I was just curious of other's opinion.