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My dad is dying.

159 replies

TotallyX · 27/12/2020 18:22

He has been in hospital a few days. We have just been told that he has a few hours left.

It's shit.

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HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 27/12/2020 23:11

Oh op, your post is heartbreaking. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Sending love and strength to you and your family.

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 27/12/2020 23:12

I'm so sorry, I wasn't thinking straight. I know he's hanging on and I meant to type"your upcoming loss".

StartingOver2020 · 27/12/2020 23:18

Dear TotallyX, when my dear Dad died from Covid in hospital in April he went from a deep sleep to very low heart rate and breathing - deeply unconscious - a nurse held a phone to his ear and I’m so glad I spoke to him then. He took his last breath less than an hour later.

Thinking of you 🌺

littlealexhorne · 27/12/2020 23:21

I'm so sorry, sending lots of love and strength. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Lougle · 27/12/2020 23:23

@mintyneb I'm glad that brings you some comfort. It's also worth knowing that it's not all that common for patients to die with their loved ones by their side. Some do, but many have remarkable knack of waiting until their loved one pops to the loo, or grabs a sandwich, or decides to go home and get some bits.

TonkinLenkicks · 27/12/2020 23:30
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Cherrysherbet · 27/12/2020 23:41

I’m so sorry op. 💐

AllTheUserNamesAreTaken · 27/12/2020 23:56

I’m so very sorry totallyX Flowers

mintyneb · 28/12/2020 08:56

Thank you lougle

MumToBe1980 · 28/12/2020 09:01

Sending love to you and your family x

lunar1 · 28/12/2020 09:15

Thinking of you this morning Thanks

TotallyX · 28/12/2020 16:18

So sorry for all of you who have lost someone you love.

He is still hanging on. My sibling arrived in the country and has been to see him. He is comfortable.

Thanks all.

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Cantbelievelife · 28/12/2020 16:21

Thinking about you and your family at this time. I'm glad your sibling was able to get home and to see him

Lougle · 28/12/2020 16:22

I'm glad your sibling has managed to see him. Good to hear that he's comfortable, too.

Jasminesmellingcandles · 28/12/2020 18:22

Thinking of you op,hoping Dad got some comfort from knowing sibling was there .

lunar1 · 28/12/2020 18:55

I'm really glad someone has been able to visit him.

happytoday73 · 28/12/2020 19:24

Big hugs to you.....
I'm glad your sibling has managed to visit.
When do you need to isolate till? Do you have any local practical and emotional support?
Hope you manage some sleep tonight..

designmama · 28/12/2020 21:33

Thinking of you all. Hope you are doing ok.

TotallyX · 28/12/2020 23:19

The old stubborn bugger is holding on. Not sure what he is holding on for now.. we told him to go.

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Lougle · 28/12/2020 23:22

He'll go in his own time, @TotallyX. This is the worst part. You can never predict how long someone will take to die. I hope you're starting to feel better physically Flowers

TheEchtMeaningofChristmas · 29/12/2020 03:05

The old stubborn bugger is holding on. Not sure what he is holding on for now.. we told him to go

This made me laugh and feel Sad It's true that in the midst of death we are in life.

Many Thanks TotallyX

SaskiaRembrandt · 29/12/2020 06:30

TotallyX I'm so sorry Flowers

Hm2020 · 29/12/2020 08:15

So sorry op Flowers

TotallyX · 29/12/2020 17:44

He died at 3.30am.

So glad my sister got to see him.

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lunar1 · 29/12/2020 17:46

I'm so sorry for your loss, love to you and your family.

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