People saying "what rights? Who cares about rights?" really scare me. If you don't care about your rights in a free society then you will lose them. And suddenly learn what the point of caring about your rights was. The horrible commandment "educate yourself" might be worth deploying here.
I think part of the problem with trying to talk about these issues is that a lot of well off middle class people haven't really suffered from lockdown. They get to work from home, they don't have large families they don't get to see, their kids have been privately tutored and are pretty much guaranteed to get into 'good' universities, waitrose delivers the shopping, the cleaner still turns up, albeit in a mask, they have a big garden to hang out in and really it's all quite nice. They aren't losing jobs and businesses, seeing their kids struggling with learning and socialising, losing their childhood behind a screen.
The other part of it is that most of us aren't experts and we have no idea what we're talking about, so we are relying on others to lead us. People don't want to face up to the incompetence or failures of that leadership because it's scary.
I have no clue what to do for the best, but I think it's important to be open and consider these questions of how we balance rights with safety, or how much we prioritise covid over other health conditions. I think we have to talk about it, raise the questions at least.