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Is anyone else sick of the mask brigade?

305 replies

SpongeCake23 · 16/07/2020 13:32

I am going to be wearing a face covering from the 24th.
However I’m getting sick of the constant steam of ‘shaming’ on social media especially.
The latest is a passive aggressive meme being shared which says ‘if you don’t like the mask, you definitely won’t like being intubated in the ICU’
I’ve just seen another one on a local page in the style of queen’s ‘we will rock you’. Basically “you’re a big disgrace, spreading your germs all over the place” blah blah blah.
I have anxiety and panic attacks and I am going to struggle wearing one, although I’m going to try my best. There are those who really won’t be able to for various reasons - asthma, copd, autism, other mental health issues and I bet they’re reading these posts feeling awful about themselves.

OP posts:
OutwardBound2016 · 18/07/2020 20:27

@itsallaboutyou666 I don’t believe many of those who are ‘anti mask’ will in fact not wear a mask in a shop they just won’t go to the shops. The benefit to you on the 24th which you ‘can’t wait for’ is that lots of people will avoid the shops which will be great for you and great for me as I will hopefully stop wasting money on shit I don’t need! Win win I think!

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 18/07/2020 20:30

There is a massive difference between saying you dont want to wear a mask...which i dont

And refusing to wear a mask

Obviously i wear a mask now and will do moving forward

Doesn’t mean i have to be ecstatic about it

Remmy123 · 18/07/2020 21:15

Half of the masks people are wearing won't protect anyone ... pointless!!

IAintentDead · 18/07/2020 21:20

@TempsPerdu Thu 16-Jul-20 21:32:37
There seems to be no acceptance at all that many perfectly ordinary, law-abiding people will wear one but with genuine misgivings as to their utility and potential unwitting side-effects

Agreed - this is my position. I don't believe they do any good and no-one has been able to point me to any real evidence that they do. And I will avoid going places where I have to wear a mask

@MessAllOver Thu 16-Jul-20 22:30:24
@PhilCornwall1. You are absolutely entitled to go into a shop without wearing a mask if you have medical (including psychological) reasons for doing so. I certainly won't be joining the mask vigilantes to shame you and I think it's awful that people are doing this. You do indeed have the 'right' to shop. But it does increase the risk for the rest of us and someone could catch Covid and die a painful death as a result.

It only raises the risk if they have it and the chance of that if they are continuing to social distance is miniscule.

@TempsPerdu Thu 16-Jul-20 23:19:25
no one does nuanced debate

Hmm! Whilst I agree with most of what you say. would that have carried more weight if you had said 'few' or similar.

Chloemol Thu 16-Jul-20 23:24:15
I will wear a mask. My only concern is those without a medical condition claiming to have one so they don’t wear one

None of your business

@PickAChew Fri 17-Jul-20 12:55:36
@Lindy2
I expect other people are also literally sick of being infected by non mask wearers.
Not happened to me, yet, oddly enough.
Unfortunate if you repeatedly find yourself infected by other people. Terrible bad luck.

Not happened to me - or to anyone I know either. Not likely to either with only 1/4000 being infected and unless they are ALL asymptomatic in which case what the fuck are people worried about far fewer than that out on the street not knowing they are ill.

@SaskiaRembrandt Sat 18-Jul-20 11:20:07
One of my grandmothers did. To hear her talk one could easily believe all these things were done only to her, and everyone else was having a high old time.

Why does that remind me of someone on MN

@byvirtue Sat 18-Jul-20 13:54:55
I’m surprised no one considers the risk of infection in these discussions. 1 in 3900 people had covid when the announcement re wearing mandatory mask was made. So the chances of catching it in a shop are really quite small for the average shopper.
My big issue is that there seems to be a general assumption that everyone potentially has covid and therefore mask wearing must be mandatory. It’s a complete fallacy which I personally find ridiculous.

and me - see point above

@MessAllOver Sat 18-Jul-20 13:59:54
But people with Covid don't have a big sign tattooed on their forehead saying that they have it. Many don't have any symptoms at all. So it makes sense to assume everyone has it to limit the spread.

No it doesn't - If 1 in 4000 have it then the chances are low. Any of those that are ill with it won't be out and about (and if this is a terrible disease, most will be very ill - and if most aren't very ill then it's not a terrible disease) so maybe 1 in 8,000 or 10,000. Then, on top of that, you have to be in close contact for a period of time to catch it.

Makes no sense at all to me.

I'll wear one if I go somewhere I legally have to, masks won't protect me or anyone else because (a) I won't be close to anyone for any period of time and (b) I haven't been anywhere to catch it.

It won't mean we get back to normal any quicker because shopping isn't a risky behaviours anyway BUT whatever. I don't even know why I have bothered because whether you agree with me or think masks are magic going to reduce otherwise certain transmission what I say won't change your mind.

AccountAntsy · 18/07/2020 21:22

There have been sanctimonious shamers on social media throughout this.

I’ve started wearing a mask the past couple of days to get myself used to it by the time it’s mandatory. It’s so unpleasant. I can fully understand why people don’t want to until they have to. The shaming is totally counterproductive.

Goyle · 18/07/2020 21:32

I work on public transport so have been wearing a mask since the height of infection (I think I've had it but at the time tests weren't offered). The guidelines say transport staff are exempt from wearing one but most of us do to encourage our customers to follow suit. but they ignore us

I hate them. I take some tea tree face wipes to clean my face regularly but I still get the odd spot. I get hot. I wear cotton ones that a tenant, a dry cleaner, makes and they are two-plus cotton which are far more comfy than the N95 paper masks we are given.

My attitude is, just do as I'm told, wear the mask, wash my hands regularly, and wait for all this to blow over.

HeresMe · 18/07/2020 22:47

there have been sanctimonious shamers on social media throughout this.

Yeah they are taking photos of people, but are same if anyone takes a picture that their kids may end up in go ape shit.

Also loads on her saying going out people aren't wearing masks even though it don't come in till next week.

HeresMe · 18/07/2020 22:52

@HeIenaDove
So those who were getting off on the idea of me and my skin being uncomfortable or developing my previous skin problem in a mask will now have to wank over something else

I'm with you they will deny it there is a group who are loving this and are hoping for a second wave.

Lweji · 18/07/2020 23:06

@Sockwomble

I said that some people with autism and or learning disabilities can wear masks and some cannot. You no nothing about these disabilities so what you suspect isn't really relevant.
I posted earlier saying that I didn't think there would the hundreds of thousands of people who really couldn't wear masks. Then I was thrown the 500 000 people with autism in the UK. I'm just asking if the vast majority of those really won't be able to wear a mask. Can you give an estimate?
sleepingpup · 18/07/2020 23:24

Frankly there are unpleasant blinkered people on both side of the opinion.

If the title of this had been
"anyone sick of the anti mask brigade " this thread would have filled up the same way.

Most people take a middle view and will wear a mask because that is what has been asked of them ( even if they don't want to) or avoid shops.

And for those that are exempt many of them will probably try visors or avoid the shops . Most people get on with it.

Social Media is a bin for the bad stuff

ResIpsaLoquiturInterAlia · 18/07/2020 23:25

To the invincible unmasked brigade - genuine curiosity - if you or your love ones family, friends inadvertently got infected, would you still go against science and rules? You know the same ones that the globe outside of England seem to see more ideal to help save lives.

Still anti face coverings given this possibility?

ilovesooty · 18/07/2020 23:45

@HeresMe

there have been sanctimonious shamers on social media throughout this.

Yeah they are taking photos of people, but are same if anyone takes a picture that their kids may end up in go ape shit.

Also loads on her saying going out people aren't wearing masks even though it don't come in till next week.

Things aren't going to be different next week.

There have been unpleasant posts from both sides.

HeIenaDove · 18/07/2020 23:54

There is nothing that prevents you from sticking your mask in the fridge and wearing it then if that's more comfortable for you

What an absolutely idiotic post. As i type this im sitting in a hot flat in a T shirt i completely soaked in cold water by running under the bathroom tap . I did this 20 mins ago............its drying already. On hot day a mask would be the same. Its not the same as having a mask on that has cooler packs inside. That STAY cool Christ Almighty.

This is more evidence of the fucking low expectations i was speaking about earlier. And expecting this kind of shit to be normal While ppl get to go to pubs and not have to do any of this. Batshit Absolutely dystopian.

The race to the bottom.............youve got to be a Tory.

slipperywhensparticus · 18/07/2020 23:54

The local council put up a notice saying we had to wear a mask in shops NOW I replied next weekend not this weekend (as some people were commenting panicking they didn't have one yet) to be inundated by people telling me its "kind" to wear one to people screeching at me for infecting everyone i pointed out people needed to go to a shop to buy a mask this week to wear one only for my so called friend to say buy one and wear them in all the other shops then!!!!! Except I've made one I don't need to buy one and I don't go to loads of shops anyway im an introvert lockdown has been great for me

Its just jumping on me acting like I was refusing to wear one im not im just telling other people on the thread who were panicking relax you can still go to a shop and buy one

She was one who filmed herself clapping too i saw her at the local shop tonight no mask on 😷 🤣

TheMurk · 19/07/2020 00:01

I’d love to know how many of the sanctimonious and aggressive social media shamers are religiously boil washing their masks after every use.

Willing to wager it’s a percentage in single figures.

The depths of hypocrisy have no end during this pandemic.

JaceLancs · 19/07/2020 00:08

Tried a mask - didn’t like it - made my claustrophobia worse
I do have asthma but won’t be using that as an exemption
From next week I will wear one for as little time as possible - probably a weekly trip to food shop
I will stop all other shopping etc
Save me a fortune - not sure it’s what the economy needs though

HeIenaDove · 19/07/2020 03:14

@TheMurk Aint that the truth. Sick of it!!!

Sockwomble · 19/07/2020 06:14

"I'm just asking if the vast majority of those really won't be able to wear a mask."

I am asking you how much distress do you think think someone should have to go through to prove they "really won't be able to wear a mask"? You have commented several times about really trying so come on then, what level of suffering is sufficient proof for you that they have tried hard enough?
It is impossible to answer your question without that.

Yellowbutterfly1 · 19/07/2020 06:59

sockwomble
I wouldn’t bother wasting your breath on Leeji. They clearly are just trying to start an argument, if you say one thing they will just try and turn it around.
If they are so insistent for some reason as to how many people who have Autism and learning disability will not be able to wear a mask maybe they should visit a special school and ask the students themselves, see where that gets them.

BellaintheWychElm · 19/07/2020 07:09

The vast, vast majority of people come the 24th will do as asked when they have to enter a shop. The vast, vast majority of people whether they agree with masks or not simply would not want the hassle by not wearing one where they have to if they are able.

As we are all keen to follow what the government is asking I will leave this here:

In settings where face coverings are mandated in England, there are some circumstances, for health, age or equality reasons, whereby people are not expected to wear face coverings in these settings. Please be mindful and respectful of such circumstances noting that some people are less able to wear face coverings

It does not mention anywhere in the guidelines that a random passerby has a right to know why someone may be exempt.

Sockwomble · 19/07/2020 07:24

"maybe they should visit a special school and ask the students themselves, see where that gets them."

And show all the highly qualified and experienced professionals who work with the students and wouldn't attempt to try to teach most of the students to wear a mask, just how it is done.

AdoreTheBeach · 19/07/2020 07:24

Stop being a selfish tw__ and wear the mask. Then these meme wing bother you.

Frankly I simply can’t comprehend people being so fu__ing ignorant not to wear them. This coming from someone who suffers anxiety and panic attacks. I had to practice wearing them before going out (Figure out which mask I could tolerate) and use self sitting methods to avoid hyperventilating. It can be fine if you WANT to wear a mask.

Wear the ducking mask. Care about your fellow human beings.

LaLaLandIsNoFun · 19/07/2020 07:33

I cannot wear a mask. I will have to just avoid going anywhere except my house and a walk. It won’t be much different really than my life has been since being abused and broken by my vile, shaming, controlling, unenpathetic, unreasonable, patronising abusers. So those of you who are exhibiting the same kind of attitudes on here don’t worry,I’ll stay away, but my reasons for not being able to wear a mask aren’t ‘stupid’ and the likes.

Lozz22 · 19/07/2020 07:48

@TwilightPeace

I’m more sick of the non-mask brigade and their stupid excuses.
This!!!
ChardonnaysPetDragon · 19/07/2020 08:05

The race to the bottom.............youve got to be a Tory.

I have to admire your consistency, HeIena.

Having said that, there are many possible reasons for being hot and sweaty, the way you describe it, being overweight, doing lots of exercise close to bed time, thyroid disorders, the menopause being just some of them. Don't put up with it! There are solutions out there. Good luck!

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