I thought it was an uninspiring and unhelpful choice of question from whoever this independent polling group is.
I guess she was really asking whether the first lot of changes after the five conditions are met will include families meeting across households and generations. We already know they will not answer questions about what measures are going to be lifted when, partly because they don't yet know. It depends on how low case numbers, R etc are, what data they have from advisors at the time. Plus they don't want to give people ideas. So that was going nowhere. Then she was possibly also asking, when I am allowed...will it be safe? Well, no one can guarantee that, it probably would, or it might make one of them ill, or kill them. That's the virus.
Maybe it would have been better to ask what priority they will be placing on relieving isolation for the elderly and high risk as they pick the next 'package' of measures, but I don't think that would have elicited anything more helpful.
Maybe there are members of the public who need to hear the panel say 'yes, we understand, we are human...but we don't know'. I don't, but hopefully it helped someone.