Is this ok during lockdown?

[CaughtInHisTrap]

Is it ok to take my 5 year old for a walk?
OH won't 'let' us and says it's too risky and against the rules. I know he's exaggerating about the rules (well I think so) as I thought we were allowed to have daily exercise? Or are children not allowed, like he says? And is it risky?

I feel so bogged down and tired/confused right now, I can't think straight. But DS and I haven't left the house/back garden since the schools closed and a walk would feel so nice.
The school made more learning packs for parents to pick up this week and he wouldn't even let me do that 🤦‍♀️.

I know this is a really rambly post, sorry. I just need some clarity on whether talking children outside is ok providing we keep our distance from other people?

And that exercise and fresh air and change of scenery

Your not a shit mum. But trust me you need to leave him, I was in a controlling relationship with my ex husband who was 22 years older than me and once I separated from him life was fantastic

It's not the time to give you a hard time about this relationship. BUT, just make a start by going for a walk. Your lockdown is being imposed by him, not the government. So just make a stand and quietly take your son for a walk. Every day.

And yes you will need out at some point. So start by giving that idea some headspace. Get used to it. Xx

Just a quick word to say that I understand the advice to take the kids out regardless of what he says (because yes it's perfectly within the rules!) but, OP, if this is going to put you in danger then don't.

People don't always understand that it's not as simple as just going ahead and doing something. Keep yourself and your kids safe first and foremost xx

Awww OP You r in such a tricky situation. You have nothing to feel guilty for though.Do what is right for you and you son, and don't put you (D)P first

Hi OP,

You're doing a brilliant job - it's a tough time for all of us, and we're all doing the best we can.

If you want advice and support on your relationship, we have a spectacular relationships topic here - it's definitely worth taking a look.

Honestly, I'd go out.

Go around the block.

His reaction will tell whether he's worried or controlling.

You do have places to go, people will help you.

Even Councils who were a bit hands off, are waking up now.

If you can play the game, fair enough, and do what you can.

If you need help, if you need to get out, your son is young enough that he can go with you. Trust me, many men wait until the oldest son will not be able to access help with the mother.

Don't wait until he is 10+ and refuges might not take you together.

People are more alert now, make the most of your chance, if you need/want it.

Morning Caught. How are you today, did you manage to get out yesterday?