@Eyewhisker, the mean covid-19 death (based on ONS stats) is aged 77.7 for males, 79.8 for females. For UK all causes the numbers are respectively 79.3 and 82.9.
If we consider for example breast cancer then the average age at death appears to be 68, and for prostate cancer 80.
Annual flu reports are here
www.gov.uk/government/statistics/annual-flu-reports
If we look at the most recent bad flu season, 2014-15, then for weeks 1-4 2015, we can see that 57,323 deaths were reported.
www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/deaths/datasets/weeklyprovisionalfiguresondeathsregisteredinenglandandwales
Of these 41,937 were aged 75+, that is 73.16%
In 2020 the week 1-4 number was 51,158, of which 36,158 were 75+, which is 70.68%.
If we look at say July 2019, (weeks 27-30), then of 36,433 deaths, only 24,396 were aged 75+, that is 66.96%.
So we can see that we have summer, where 67.0% of deaths are aged 75+, a mild winter, when that rises to 70.7%, and then a bad winter (flu) season, when it goes up to 73.2%.
What's happening now? Now we are at 70.6%
So it's extremely clear that while, yes covid-19 does affect the elderly more, it trends much lower than seasonal flu, in that while a winter such as 2015, with around 5500 more deaths per week compared to summer weekly deaths, resulted in 73.2% of deaths being 75+, we now have more than 9000 extra weakly deaths compared to summer, and yet our 75+ death proportion is still only 70.6%
So conclusions:
- 20,000 people dying of seasonal flu in a season is not as bad as 20,000 people dying of covid-19 because the 20,000 flu deaths had fewer years to live (healthy or otherwise)
- some causes of death tend lower than average, hence why breast cancer is a bigger health concern than prostate cancer, but even something that is only average in terms of age is still very bad if it increases the all-cause death rate by 80% as with covid-19, because within that dead population there will be some people who have lost many years of life
- flu really does kill those who likely have a short time left to live and so comparisons with covid-19 are a bit stupid even if we ignore the fact that we live with an manage flu every year - it's just not the same thing!