Even on here, stupid young mothers saying their children's mental health or their own will be affected if they don't see family. Better than dead dear. I despair. it’s not stupid to consider mental health. Once this is all over (and it will be) we do need to consider the repercussions, not only of the virus but also of the measures people have had to adopt to avoid spread.
And we’re not all in self isolation at this point, it’s social distancing. And while I certainly don’t agree with the notion of needing to get your nails done or go to the pub, telling everyone that seeing family is wrong is unreasonable.
By that token we’re talking of depriving a child of contact with a parent for an indeterminate. Amount of time for instance. There absolutely needs to be some common sense, but there also has to be some acknowledgement of people’s MH needs as well.
I am self isolating, well not entirely as my DS lives here and works in a supermarket and is able to go out and get e.g. my prescriptions. But I am not seeing anyone else. Me and my partner are separated for the foreseeable future, my parents who don’t live locally are unable to see me. They did actually offer me the opportunity to go and stay with them as they’re pretty much not going out either, but I have all my hospital care here so to move it for that time period wouldn’t really be possible, or reasonable in the current climate. So i am literally stuck at home on my own for the foreseeable future to avoid catching the virus.
However I can protect myself while also acknowledging that in some instances others have different aspects of their lives they need to look out for, such as their mental wellbeing.
Interesting that pretty much everything these days is considered “triggering” because of mental health, and now that we have a virus in our midst mental health is expected to go out the window and be completely dismissed.