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Supermarket madness

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katseyes7 · 16/03/2020 13:11

l work on a checkout in a very large supermarket.
This past few days has really opened my eyes to how people behave under pressure.
We've been told to restrict certain items - loo rolls, handwash, sanitiser gel (no point, we don't have any) tinned veg, dry pasta, rice, bottled water, bleach, anti bac spray and wipes, etc.

Most people are understanding. However....

On Friday, l had a couple at my till doing a big weekly shop. They had a huge amount of fresh and frozen vegetables - fine, you're allowed those. Until l said that they could only have five tins of veg. They had a variety, tinned tomatoes, sweetcorn, beans, etc. The man actually kicked off that he couldn't have more than five tins of beans. A grown man, throwing a tantrum over tins of beans.
l don't think it occurs to people that it tends to be (in my experience, this may depend on the location) older people who buy tinned veg - it not perishable, and most older people don't have the large fridge freezer facilities that younger people tend to.
Also, the restrictions on tinned veg, pasta, etc are impacting on the foodbank donations.

Yesterday l told a man he couldn't have two multipacks of bottled water (he had 2 x 6 2litre bottles). Our current 'rule' is one multipack, or 5 large bottles. l scanned one and put it in the trolley our supervisor was using for 'confiscated' items, leaving him with the one he had in his own trolley. He paid for his shopping, l started serving the customer behind him. Whereupon as he walked past the 'contraband' (as we've been jokingly calling it) trolley, took out the pack l'd taken from him, and put it in his own trolley!. He hadn't paid for the water! l went over to him, took it out of his trolley, and said "You haven't paid for this, l told you, you're only allowed one." He got quite aggressive and shouted "Why?!" in my face.
Fortunately the lady who was behind him backed me up, and also told my supervisor what had happened. What l should have said to him was "You can either put that back, or we can call the police" but l didn't think of that at the time.

One of my colleagues is a young (19) Asian girl. She's very personable and professional, working her way through university. She's very good with customers. One man actually called her a 'Paki'. Another was abusing her when she told him he couldn't have all of his items as they were restricted. Fortunately the young lad on the till next to her (who is also a student), a big rugby player type lad, turned and said to the man "Listen, mate, pack it in. You wouldn't talk to me like that." The customer didn't respond, but stopped shouting at her.

We got a small delivery of toilet rolls on Friday. One of our managers noticed one woman had six multipacks in her trolley, and took the 'extras' from her.
Yesterday l served a lovely older couple who told me that they're running short on loo roll, the lady has bowel cancer and is waiting for surgery. As she put it, "When l need to go, l need to go, and l need toilet roll."
l don't know if the people who are stockpiling (or trying to) actually think about the implications of what they're doing, or whether they genuinely believe they're more entitled than others.

l'm prepared to get flamed for posting this, but it's really made me realise how this is making some people behave. Maybe it's how they normally behave, and this situation is just making it more obvious.
Time will tell, no doubt.

OP posts:
Clutterbugsmum · 16/03/2020 13:22

Unfortunately the general public are showing how selfish people are. They are not thinking about anything other then their own needs and don't give a shiny shit about anyone else.

I'm so sorry that you and your fellow shop workers are being abused left right and centre their is absolutely no need for it.

Sparklingbrook · 16/03/2020 13:25

Last month #BeKind
This month #Everymanforhimself

I think some people have lost the plot.

Sad
tiredanddangerous · 16/03/2020 13:31

Lost the plot indeed.

I despair of the utter selfishness shown by these people. It seems behaving like a massive twat is spreading faster than the bloody virus.

TheLarkDescending · 16/03/2020 13:33

I wouldn’t react like that, but I’d be pretty annoyed with the shop’s policies if I couldn’t buy more than 5 tins of veg. I get through more than that most weeks - nothing to do with stockpiling.

eggofmantumbi · 16/03/2020 13:35

I nipped in to get bread and milk top up as normal today and I feel like you guys have got a really tight job at the moment.
People are dicks sometimes 🙄

Sparklingbrook · 16/03/2020 13:36

It's not the staff serving that make the rules, so there's no need to have a go at them.

Isthistrueor · 16/03/2020 13:38

I’d be annoyed if I couldn’t buy 5 tins of vegetables as well. Most people aren’t stockpiling by buying two tins of tomatoes, two tins of sweetcorn and one tin of peas.

Stockpiling is more like the woman I saw in Aldi the other night with four packs of 24 loo rolls. She did not need that many, that was pure selfish.

lyingwanker · 16/03/2020 13:46

After working as a checkout manager for a few years I can quite imagine the level of arseholes at the moment! Disgraceful! Knobhead customers (usually men) would try and mouth off at me and get the shock of their lives when they would get a mouthful back. You do not have to put up with abuse.

spiderlight · 16/03/2020 13:50

I feel so sorry for anyone working in this sector at the moment, and especially for you guys on the checkouts. Our Tesco was relatively civilised yesterday but there was not a single toilet roll to be had. I have severe ulcerative colitis so it's going to get interesting for me if this madness persists! Confused

GameSetMatch · 16/03/2020 13:50

People are being so selfish, I feel so sorry for supermarket staff at the best of times, hope it eases up for you soon! I haven’t been able to do my weekly shop because nearly everything was out of stock, I’m going to have to feed my children some strange concoctions I’m so annoyed with people stockpiling and ‘preppers’

MaJoady · 16/03/2020 13:50

People are dicks. But I have to say I think the Government's announcement yesterday was absolute stupidity

"If you're over 70 you might very shortly be in isolation for up to 4 months. But don't panic buy."

I know there has now been a little further clarification / a bit of a climb down. But it's scary. And who knows what very shortly means anyway? Tomorrow? Next week?

ALongHardWinter · 16/03/2020 14:00

I am finding this all rather scary. I am disabled and use walking sticks when I am out and about,and I'm very limited to how much I can get home from the shops in one go. In the last week,I have walked the entire length of my local high street 4 times,going in 8 different shops looking for toilet rolls. None anywhere. The pack of 9 that I bought 10 days ago is down to its last 2 rolls and I'm wondering what I'm going to do when they are gone! My NDN said to me 'Tescos at xxx has got them', but I don't drive,and this Tesco is 2 buses plus a ten minute walk away. And what's the betting that by the time I got there,they'd all be gone?! would have been nice if my NDN who does drive,had picked some up for me

Mlou32 · 16/03/2020 14:13

Companies need to start being more strict with people. Abuse staff - throw the customer out without serving them.

The public have been rude and abusive for far too long and been allowed to get away with it with no consequences. I've experienced it both in customer service which I worked in while I was a student and also currently as a nurse; people abusing staff when they don't get their own way. The only way that we'll stop this behaviour is by bringing in consequences.

purpleboy · 16/03/2020 14:22

@ALongHardWinter could you do an online shop?

opticaldelusion · 16/03/2020 14:28

could you do an online shop?

If the shop she chooses has no loo roll, she'll get no loo roll. Online isn't helping at all.

Hermanhessescat · 16/03/2020 14:48

Frontline hcp in NHS - critical care. We've plenty of hand sanitiser and soap at work obviously but I have literally 1/2 a small container of hand gel left for use out and about. None in sainsburys, morrisons, home bargains. Checked with staff regarding future deliveries and they've not a clue... Part of me wishes there would be some kind of rationing so if you show your nhs photo
id you can have a bottle of it from behind the counter...

WitchQueenofDarkness · 16/03/2020 15:07

As a vegetarian I get through more than 5 tins of vegetables a week so I'd be irritated by that one especially if it included tinned tomatoes

Sparklingbrook · 16/03/2020 15:10

I think it's understandable to be annoyed or irritated about caps being put on the amount you can buy, especially if it's stuff you eat.
But it's just the supermarkets trying to make it possible for everybody to have at least some, and what isn't understandable is people having a go at the staff about it.

tiredofbeingalone123 · 16/03/2020 15:12

I've never seen more selfish stupidity than I've seen this week... people can be utter bastards

asmuchuseas · 16/03/2020 15:15

In the last few days I've been unable to get milk. The one shop I went in that had milk only had 2 pint bottles left. I really needed about 4-6 pints but only bought one as the shop was rammed and I didn't want someone else going without so I could have what I wanted. I've just been to a Tesco and couldn't get a bag of potatoes so I had to buy frozen mash and even that was in short supply. There were no toilet rolls of any description, kitchen rolls or hand wash. I haven't seen a single shop anywhere near me that has any hand sanitizer.

Teacaketotty · 16/03/2020 15:15

This is crazy, I think some people have really lost it. I got my Tesco delivery this morning and the poor guy came half an hour early, apologising as if he didn’t he wouldn’t get a break in a double shift! He couldn’t have been nicer about it and I really felt for him!

I feel for all retail workers right now!

GenderApostate19 · 16/03/2020 15:15

You don’t need hand gel when out and about, either wear gloves and ditch them when you get in your car or get off a bus or get a hankie or similar , soak in a milton / dettol/zoflora solution, put in a ziplock bag and use that, redo it every day and you are sorted.
You can still get 90% alcohol spray on amazon too.
I’ve got a dettol solution in a 100ml spray bottle, a small cloth and a sandwich bag to take out and clean trolley handles etc.

Several people have commented on what a good idea it is when they’ve seem me do it. Why can’t people think for themselves?

PinglePongle · 16/03/2020 15:17

Nipped out for soup and disinfectant earlier as DD has picked up a sickness bug, a middle aged woman seemed to cough all over me repeatedly and loudly not covering her mouth to the point where she was obviously doing it on purpose to seemingly get me away from the soups so she could stock up Confused

MintySpud · 16/03/2020 15:22

People are bloody rude to supermarket staff at the best of times, so it must be hideous now.

Roselilly36 · 16/03/2020 15:22

A lovely young man served us in a supermarket on Friday, really nice, chatty, professional & polite. I mentioned we had seen the signs about limits on pasta, rice etc. And it was a good idea, he said I am ready for the abuse to start later on this afternoon. I felt so sorry for him why should he have to put up with abuse, he was just so resigned to it and that made me feel really sad.