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Supermarket madness

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katseyes7 · 16/03/2020 13:11

l work on a checkout in a very large supermarket.
This past few days has really opened my eyes to how people behave under pressure.
We've been told to restrict certain items - loo rolls, handwash, sanitiser gel (no point, we don't have any) tinned veg, dry pasta, rice, bottled water, bleach, anti bac spray and wipes, etc.

Most people are understanding. However....

On Friday, l had a couple at my till doing a big weekly shop. They had a huge amount of fresh and frozen vegetables - fine, you're allowed those. Until l said that they could only have five tins of veg. They had a variety, tinned tomatoes, sweetcorn, beans, etc. The man actually kicked off that he couldn't have more than five tins of beans. A grown man, throwing a tantrum over tins of beans.
l don't think it occurs to people that it tends to be (in my experience, this may depend on the location) older people who buy tinned veg - it not perishable, and most older people don't have the large fridge freezer facilities that younger people tend to.
Also, the restrictions on tinned veg, pasta, etc are impacting on the foodbank donations.

Yesterday l told a man he couldn't have two multipacks of bottled water (he had 2 x 6 2litre bottles). Our current 'rule' is one multipack, or 5 large bottles. l scanned one and put it in the trolley our supervisor was using for 'confiscated' items, leaving him with the one he had in his own trolley. He paid for his shopping, l started serving the customer behind him. Whereupon as he walked past the 'contraband' (as we've been jokingly calling it) trolley, took out the pack l'd taken from him, and put it in his own trolley!. He hadn't paid for the water! l went over to him, took it out of his trolley, and said "You haven't paid for this, l told you, you're only allowed one." He got quite aggressive and shouted "Why?!" in my face.
Fortunately the lady who was behind him backed me up, and also told my supervisor what had happened. What l should have said to him was "You can either put that back, or we can call the police" but l didn't think of that at the time.

One of my colleagues is a young (19) Asian girl. She's very personable and professional, working her way through university. She's very good with customers. One man actually called her a 'Paki'. Another was abusing her when she told him he couldn't have all of his items as they were restricted. Fortunately the young lad on the till next to her (who is also a student), a big rugby player type lad, turned and said to the man "Listen, mate, pack it in. You wouldn't talk to me like that." The customer didn't respond, but stopped shouting at her.

We got a small delivery of toilet rolls on Friday. One of our managers noticed one woman had six multipacks in her trolley, and took the 'extras' from her.
Yesterday l served a lovely older couple who told me that they're running short on loo roll, the lady has bowel cancer and is waiting for surgery. As she put it, "When l need to go, l need to go, and l need toilet roll."
l don't know if the people who are stockpiling (or trying to) actually think about the implications of what they're doing, or whether they genuinely believe they're more entitled than others.

l'm prepared to get flamed for posting this, but it's really made me realise how this is making some people behave. Maybe it's how they normally behave, and this situation is just making it more obvious.
Time will tell, no doubt.

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DeRigueurMortis · 18/03/2020 00:39

I'm so sorry to hear of such awful stories.

I live semi-rurally where we have a mini-supermarket in the village.

Stocks are depleted for anything long life or cleaning products, but fresh veg/fruit are ok.

The staff (many who are local) are working flat out.

I went in today to get some apples/carrots etc and had a quick chat.

They said most local customers are being nice and only buying what they need but they have seen an influx of "new" customers who are trying to buy everything in sight. Apparently some people are deliberately targeting rural stores because they have more stock Hmm

They said they saw a car with someone inside waiting as they opened.

Didn't go in the store until the delivery came at 9am and being very aggressive when they refused to sell the whole contingent of tinned goods they had just stacked as fast as he could put them in his trolley.

Apparently he was sent packing and now banned from the stores (plural in the sense of any stores by the same chain - think mini stores of a major supermarket).

On the plus side when I went to get my carrots there was an elderly man in front asking about loo roll. There was none.

He and is wife are about to SI and they only had 1 roll left.

There was 4 people in the queue and we all offered to drop off some loo roll in their porch.

I took 2 (of my 9 rolls) over and saw I'd been
beaten to it as there were 6 left in the porch (yes I still left my 2).

So yes there are some idiots but there are also a lot if nice people out there Grin

UYScuti · 18/03/2020 00:40

I'm so appalled to hear about supermarket staff being abused by the public ☹️
I'm going to make sure to be as conspicuously polite and kind as I can be to all the ones that I come across on my shopping expeditions😊👍🚶🏼‍♀️

Stellaris22 · 18/03/2020 01:16

Unfortunately I am not surprised that the public have turned nasty to supermarket workers. I work in a local co op and the majority of people are lovely and regulars. But even before a crisis there are some people who think talking down to you is ok as you're 'just a shop worker' e.g. Shouting across the shop and addressing me as 'oi lady'

Binting · 18/03/2020 01:53

@mindproject if you don’t like the thread then get off it. I am interested to hear about people’s experiences during this crisis and want to support people on the front line who are working in supermarkets or the NHS or schools. The OP needs some virtual support and a place to unload, isn’t that what MN is about after all?

MarshaBradyo · 18/03/2020 01:57

The opposite if flamed. You are doing well and yes use the police line next time you have to. I also hope your supermarket supports you with more security.

katseyes7 · 18/03/2020 09:59

Thank you for your kindness, everyone who's posted positive and supportive posts. That's just made me cry. Thank you.
l've just been watching the news on BBC1.
They've said that retail (particularly food retail) staff are "as much at risk as NHS staff, yet no guidance has been given."
l apologise if l'm repeating myself, but l'm 61. l have asthma and a long history of lung problems, including pneumonia and pulmonary infiltrates. l've recently been referred to hospital for investigation into a blood disorder, but l suspect that will be on hold for the foreseeable.
l also have arthritis and hypermobility. l need to take ibuprofen and strong painkillers to get me through a shift at work, but l've been advised to stop the ibuprofen as it can exacerbate the effects of the Corona virus.
l'm front line. l sit on a checkout for 7 hours a day in close proximity to a lot of customers, handling food, money and plastic cards. A very kind lady suggested that l should request to work 'in the back of the store'. l couldn't work in the warehouse - it's physically extremely demanding, and l'd still need to go onto the shop floor (in even more crowded conditions) to stock shelves.
l live on my own. lf l get ill, l have to look after myself, l have no family here, and no friends who are local, the nearest is 10 miles away and doesn't drive.
So, no, l don't think l was "fuelling fear". l'm scared myself, but l have to get on with it. l can't phone into work and say "l'm anxious, l can't come in and sit on the checkout" - l need to pay my rent and bills.
And as a PP said, if you're anxious, don't read threads on social media platforms that are going to make that worse. Don't watch the news, don't talk to people, don't read newspapers. l'm not responsible for making people anxious. The situation is doing that.

Let's do what we can, however small, to help people who need it. lt's not all about the horror stories. l've seen some wonderful tales of kindness and support. That's what we need to focus on.

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