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Supermarket madness

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katseyes7 · 16/03/2020 13:11

l work on a checkout in a very large supermarket.
This past few days has really opened my eyes to how people behave under pressure.
We've been told to restrict certain items - loo rolls, handwash, sanitiser gel (no point, we don't have any) tinned veg, dry pasta, rice, bottled water, bleach, anti bac spray and wipes, etc.

Most people are understanding. However....

On Friday, l had a couple at my till doing a big weekly shop. They had a huge amount of fresh and frozen vegetables - fine, you're allowed those. Until l said that they could only have five tins of veg. They had a variety, tinned tomatoes, sweetcorn, beans, etc. The man actually kicked off that he couldn't have more than five tins of beans. A grown man, throwing a tantrum over tins of beans.
l don't think it occurs to people that it tends to be (in my experience, this may depend on the location) older people who buy tinned veg - it not perishable, and most older people don't have the large fridge freezer facilities that younger people tend to.
Also, the restrictions on tinned veg, pasta, etc are impacting on the foodbank donations.

Yesterday l told a man he couldn't have two multipacks of bottled water (he had 2 x 6 2litre bottles). Our current 'rule' is one multipack, or 5 large bottles. l scanned one and put it in the trolley our supervisor was using for 'confiscated' items, leaving him with the one he had in his own trolley. He paid for his shopping, l started serving the customer behind him. Whereupon as he walked past the 'contraband' (as we've been jokingly calling it) trolley, took out the pack l'd taken from him, and put it in his own trolley!. He hadn't paid for the water! l went over to him, took it out of his trolley, and said "You haven't paid for this, l told you, you're only allowed one." He got quite aggressive and shouted "Why?!" in my face.
Fortunately the lady who was behind him backed me up, and also told my supervisor what had happened. What l should have said to him was "You can either put that back, or we can call the police" but l didn't think of that at the time.

One of my colleagues is a young (19) Asian girl. She's very personable and professional, working her way through university. She's very good with customers. One man actually called her a 'Paki'. Another was abusing her when she told him he couldn't have all of his items as they were restricted. Fortunately the young lad on the till next to her (who is also a student), a big rugby player type lad, turned and said to the man "Listen, mate, pack it in. You wouldn't talk to me like that." The customer didn't respond, but stopped shouting at her.

We got a small delivery of toilet rolls on Friday. One of our managers noticed one woman had six multipacks in her trolley, and took the 'extras' from her.
Yesterday l served a lovely older couple who told me that they're running short on loo roll, the lady has bowel cancer and is waiting for surgery. As she put it, "When l need to go, l need to go, and l need toilet roll."
l don't know if the people who are stockpiling (or trying to) actually think about the implications of what they're doing, or whether they genuinely believe they're more entitled than others.

l'm prepared to get flamed for posting this, but it's really made me realise how this is making some people behave. Maybe it's how they normally behave, and this situation is just making it more obvious.
Time will tell, no doubt.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:21

eyestightshut Thank you, it's comments like that which are keeping us going. Very much appreciated x

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mindproject · 17/03/2020 22:23

I blame the media and Mumsnet for causing hysteria.

Preppers have been avoiding the supermarkets lately, for this very reason.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:26

itispersonal Thank you. That's very kind of you.
l only work three days, l'm over 60, l have underlying health issues (lung problems) and l'm currently being investigated for a blood disorder, so l'm classed as high risk.
l'm usually tired after my three days at work (l work Fridays and weekends) but it's been horrendously busy and l've had to take more painkillers to get through my shifts as l have arthritis and hypermobility. My joints are not happy! And l've just found out today that ibuprofen can exacerbate the effects of the virus, so l've had to stop taking that. Also blood pressure meds, but l can't stop taking those.

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MigginsMrs · 17/03/2020 22:28

The girl in our Aldi said people were calling her a cunt. They should be identified and banned from every shop in the local area. Added to which do people not realise that by milling around loads of other people in shops they are increasing the risk of them getting it in the first place

Complete idiocy

mindproject · 17/03/2020 22:28

Threads like this are making people more anxious and prone to panic buying.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:30

My store got a small(er than usual) delivery of toilet rolls on Friday. One of the managers caught a woman with six multipacks in her trolley, and took most of them off her.
The limit then was two.
We got another larger delivery on Saturday evening. That lasted until about 11am on Sunday morning. And that's when we're restricting them. l still suspect that some people have huge stashes and others have very little or none. My local (very small) Asda has had none for about three weeks, but l don't know if that's across the board, or l've just timed it badly and gone when they've sold out.

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MigginsMrs · 17/03/2020 22:31

Also ALDI has a 4 of each item limit so people were buying likes of 4 packs of chicken breasts, 4 of chicken thighs, 4 whole chickens etc

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:33

MigginsMrs lf l had my way anyone abusing the staff would be barred from the shop for a month, but l can't see how they would implement that.

mindproject l'm working on a supermarket checkout. l'm relating my first hand experiences. Why do you feel that's likely to make people panic buy? Almost everyone on the thread has echoed what l've said. l'm not trying to scaremonger.

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Chelsea567 · 17/03/2020 22:35

Thank god I work for Waitrose where every single customer has been polite and respectful to me over the last few days of craziness

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:36

l've just realised what mindproject may have meant when l read MigginsMrs comment - do you feel that because stores are saying people can buy (as an example) 4 of an item, they're buying that amount whether or not they need it?
Apologies if l misunderstood what you meant, l think you may be right.

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Stellaris22 · 17/03/2020 22:38

I work in the co op and it's heartening to see people buying separate baskets just to donate to the food bank collection we have. Although we've been told to 'bury the pasta' in the collection tray in case anyone tries to take it out to buy.

Crunchymum · 17/03/2020 22:40

I've seen worse behaviour than this @katseyes7 and I've only been to the supermarket once.

mindproject · 17/03/2020 22:44

The more people report on empty shelves, the more people panic and then panic buy. Stop fuelling the fire.

MigginsMrs · 17/03/2020 22:53

Yeah @katseyes7 it smacks of just trying to buy the most of everything you can just because you can

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:53

mindproject l don't believe l've actually used the term "empty shelves". There are enough people posting photographs of that on social media without me doing it. l've stated truthfully my experiences whilst at work.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:55

MigginsMrs That's exactly what it sounds like. Unfortunately. There'll always be people like that, but thank goodness it's not everyone. Most people are decent and being sensible.

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Haffiana · 17/03/2020 23:13

The more people report on empty shelves, the more people panic and then panic buy. Stop fuelling the fire.

Other people, you mean? Or do you mean it makes you personally anxious?

What I find so odd on these threads, is that everyone has tales of other people stockpiling, being greedy etc etc. But no-one on here has actually bought anything more than a loaf of bread and a can of beans. Odd that.

mindproject · 17/03/2020 23:25

I'm not anxious at all, but I know other mumsnetters in real life and they have told me that Mumsnet is making them anxious.

RescueRonda · 17/03/2020 23:26

NC for this as don't want to link to my regular posts.

My husband works as a supervisor for a store that isn't restricting items. Head office won't restrict as (it seems) they are just looking at the profits. Staff are complaining to him because customers are rude and horrible to them because stock goes as quickly as it comes in. Customers are complaining to him as there is no stock.

He told me about a little old lady today who was in tears because she was struggling to find the food she needed.

And because he starts work before the store opens, and because a lot of stock is gone quite early on, there is hardly anything left for him to buy on his lunch break or when he finishes work.

MissFlite · 17/03/2020 23:35

I know someone who works in Sainsbury's, he witnessed a customer spit at his supervisor when she was told she couldn't buy toilet roll as there wasn't any! Customer was escorted to the exit by security. Honestly, what is wrong with some people?

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 23:36

lt's not JUST 'Mumsnet' making people anxious, though. People talk in person, and on other social media. People watch the news.
Maybe if the truth is making people anxious they need to stop using social media and watching or reading mainstream media.
lt isn't purely Mumsnet "fuelling the flames". lt's happening out there.
l'm worried about what's happening. But apparently l shouldn't discuss it.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 23:38

MissFlite Our young team leader was told to "Fuck off" by a 'customer' on Sunday.
Some (admittedly, a very small percentage, so far, anyway) people seem to consider this acceptable behaviour. Thank goodness it is a small minority.

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mindproject · 17/03/2020 23:42

Stress makes people rude and snappy. The media and Mumsnet are making people stressed.

Everyone needs to take a big deep breath, realise that we are all going to die at some point anyway (that thought helps me feel calm) and then get on with living life.

MyDcAreMarvel · 17/03/2020 23:50

Worst behaviour I saw today was in Costco, man on his phone face mask on, saying he was making sure to avoid the “fucking Chinese”.

MintySpud · 18/03/2020 00:24

I haven't been to the supermarket since last Friday. Quite pleased about that. I think it will all calm down soon, esp if ebay are assiduous in clamping down on listings for toilet paper, soap etc at wildly inflated prices.

The blind panickers will realise they now have to store 139 rolls of bog roll, and the profiteers will have their wicked plans frustrated and chuck themselves into volcanoes in chagrin.

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