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Supermarket madness

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katseyes7 · 16/03/2020 13:11

l work on a checkout in a very large supermarket.
This past few days has really opened my eyes to how people behave under pressure.
We've been told to restrict certain items - loo rolls, handwash, sanitiser gel (no point, we don't have any) tinned veg, dry pasta, rice, bottled water, bleach, anti bac spray and wipes, etc.

Most people are understanding. However....

On Friday, l had a couple at my till doing a big weekly shop. They had a huge amount of fresh and frozen vegetables - fine, you're allowed those. Until l said that they could only have five tins of veg. They had a variety, tinned tomatoes, sweetcorn, beans, etc. The man actually kicked off that he couldn't have more than five tins of beans. A grown man, throwing a tantrum over tins of beans.
l don't think it occurs to people that it tends to be (in my experience, this may depend on the location) older people who buy tinned veg - it not perishable, and most older people don't have the large fridge freezer facilities that younger people tend to.
Also, the restrictions on tinned veg, pasta, etc are impacting on the foodbank donations.

Yesterday l told a man he couldn't have two multipacks of bottled water (he had 2 x 6 2litre bottles). Our current 'rule' is one multipack, or 5 large bottles. l scanned one and put it in the trolley our supervisor was using for 'confiscated' items, leaving him with the one he had in his own trolley. He paid for his shopping, l started serving the customer behind him. Whereupon as he walked past the 'contraband' (as we've been jokingly calling it) trolley, took out the pack l'd taken from him, and put it in his own trolley!. He hadn't paid for the water! l went over to him, took it out of his trolley, and said "You haven't paid for this, l told you, you're only allowed one." He got quite aggressive and shouted "Why?!" in my face.
Fortunately the lady who was behind him backed me up, and also told my supervisor what had happened. What l should have said to him was "You can either put that back, or we can call the police" but l didn't think of that at the time.

One of my colleagues is a young (19) Asian girl. She's very personable and professional, working her way through university. She's very good with customers. One man actually called her a 'Paki'. Another was abusing her when she told him he couldn't have all of his items as they were restricted. Fortunately the young lad on the till next to her (who is also a student), a big rugby player type lad, turned and said to the man "Listen, mate, pack it in. You wouldn't talk to me like that." The customer didn't respond, but stopped shouting at her.

We got a small delivery of toilet rolls on Friday. One of our managers noticed one woman had six multipacks in her trolley, and took the 'extras' from her.
Yesterday l served a lovely older couple who told me that they're running short on loo roll, the lady has bowel cancer and is waiting for surgery. As she put it, "When l need to go, l need to go, and l need toilet roll."
l don't know if the people who are stockpiling (or trying to) actually think about the implications of what they're doing, or whether they genuinely believe they're more entitled than others.

l'm prepared to get flamed for posting this, but it's really made me realise how this is making some people behave. Maybe it's how they normally behave, and this situation is just making it more obvious.
Time will tell, no doubt.

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Titsywoo · 17/03/2020 00:11

The thing about the spirit of the blitz is it’s only one side of the story. Crime went up in London in the darkness of the blackouts and the chaos of the raids, but it wasn’t reported because the government were afraid of people losing moral. Arseholes are arseholes, they were in 1942 and they are now

Yep. My grandad lived in central london and his sister was killed when a bomb hit their pub (they lived above it). He never got over the fact that looters stole everything from them that day. People have always been selfish bastards - some more so than others!

Itwasntme1 · 17/03/2020 00:41

People will surely have to stop panic buying at some point? They will run out of storage? And we are being told there is no problem on the supply side - just a huge spike in demand.

I am down to my last loo roll. Went to a few places today’s and the shelves are picked clean.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:08

Apologies for nil responses, everyone, l didn't get any notifications! Thank you all so much for your comments. l'm going to have a read through them now.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:17

l've also found out that since my original post, one of my colleagues who has worked at the store for over 20 years, and who is always very cheerful and happy, was in tears in the staff room the other day.
Everyone's just so stressed and tired, and it's just the beginning. l only work three days, Fridays and weekends, and we've been asked to say what extra hours, if any, we can work in the forthcoming weeks.
l've been flexible with the hours l can cover, ie, 10am to 10pm, but l'm only allowed to work 7 hour shifts. l have arthritis and hypermobility and l'm currently being investigated for a blood disorder. l've found out today that l shouldn't take ibuprofen as that can possibly exacerbate the effects of the virus, similarly with my blood pressure meds. l've stopped taking ibuprofen and l'm relying on Cocodamol (prescribed) to get me through my shifts.
People are buying such huge amounts of non restricted items just now and we get no let up. l don't think l had less than two queueing at my till at any time over the weekend, and it was usually four or more. lt's bloody hard work when you're heaving multipacks of beer about.

l'm a bit shocked at how much booze people have been buying, too. l asked a couple of customers if they were "stocking up" - one woman looked surprised and said "No, this is what l always buy!" She had about 12 bottles of wine, three or four of spirits and three lots of beer.
l cannot imagine how people are going to react if we start running low on alcohol.

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Verily1 · 17/03/2020 21:19

It is eat or be eaten, full Darwinian survival of the fittest attitude out there - shocking

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:22

MrsKingfisher So far as l know (haven't been at work since Sunday afternoon) my store hasn't had any notices up about behaviour towards staff, but someone on twitter did say their local one had.
We've got notices on the shelves informing customers how many of each restricted item they can buy, but they're still denying all knowledge when they get to the tills.
On my lunch break on Sunday l went to get some shopping. l only got four tins of soup and a loaf, and it took me 20 minutes, the store was so packed. Also, it isn't helping when people are wandering round glued to their phones, not looking where they're going or what they're doing, and acting like they're in a zombie apocalypse. lt was ridiculous. l couldn't wait to pay for my shopping and get back to get my lunch. ln the 10 minutes of my lunch break l had left.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:24

KatherineJaneway Our store doesn't have security staff.
l've only been there since summer last year, apparently we used to have security guards, but they got rid of them.
Our young team leader was told to "Fuck off" on Sunday by a customer.
l imagine if it kicked off it'd be up to anyone who was available and who felt able to deal with the situation to wade in and help. lt's worrying.

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LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 17/03/2020 21:27

It's so awful. People show their true colours at times like this. It's like The Walking Dead.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:28

InFiveMins You're absolutely right, and normally if someone wanted to buy that amount of pasta, it wouldn't be a problem. We get people in our store who do it and then put it straight in the trolley for the food bank.
But when there are notices up saying that items are restricted, then people take it out on the poor sod sitting on the checkout, they really need to take a look at themselves.
l'm ex police. l can stick up for myself verbally, but l'm getting on now and it worries me.

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Mysocalledlifexx · 17/03/2020 21:33

Shop workers are doing a great job in this madness, without them we would have no food such a shame that customers are so rude.
I think people are worried they wont get food etc,have to say with how bare the shops are i am too but its 2020 im sure more stock is coming.
we all need to take what we need but leave for others.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:39

My friend from work has texted me tonight, she was working last night and she says that customers were generally "better behaved" (her words!) then but it was still crazily busy.
l went to our local Lidl yesterday morning (l don't live where l work), mainly just for greens and fresh stuff for my rabbits, which l do twice a week. l got my usual shop, plus a couple of packs of hot cross buns and a carton of UHT milk.
The difference was at the checkouts, though. Usually l'm in and out in about 10 minutes when there's one or two tills open. Yesterday they had three tills open and there were about five or six customers queueing at each till. l think l was waiting for about 20 minutes. When l did get to the till l made sure l had a chat with the girl on the till, said l empathised and understood what it was like, and that l hoped she was ok. To be honest while l was there everyone seemed patient and polite. l hope it stays like that.

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Femail · 17/03/2020 21:41

I've lost respect for customers now as I work in retail. I've been shouted at and threatened in two days straight. There are the lovely ones tho who are friendly and understand.

If I get a rude cuntomer now I'll answer back with sarcasm and a smile and walk away.

eyestightshut · 17/03/2020 21:41

Honestly, I work in the NHS and people have been going on about how brave I am - but I think what you guys in retail have to put up with is just horrendous (my DH is ex retail so I know what you endure at the best of times). Seeing you slogging your guts out to try and get shelves stacked, maintain good your cool with panicking members of the public, and then sitting on the checkout politely making conversation and managing to police the idiots panic buying, and enduring the public coming in coughing and spluttering all over you and still keeping your cool I have the utmost respect for you. Big hugs to you x

Igotthemheavyboobs · 17/03/2020 21:41

I saw this cunt bloke in The Range have a go at the cashier about restrictions on hand sanitiser. Just so superior sounding, like he was so much better than her. When I finally got to the till he had gone but I made sure to tell her i thought she deserved a medal for keeping calm and that he was clearly a selfish dick head. Gave her a giggle of nothing else.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:45

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 That's pretty much how l described it on Sunday when l tried to get some shopping in my lunch break.
l actually said to my colleagues that it was like the Thriller video without the music.

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BabloHoney · 17/03/2020 21:49

I saw a woman putting loads of baby formula in her trolley at our local supermarket. I asked her if she really needed so much.. of all the things for people to run completely out of, baby milk must be one of the most frightening. She told me to “f*ck right off” 😢

I can’t imagine the abuse retail staff are facing at the moment.. thanks to you all for the work you’re doing!

JudyCoolibar · 17/03/2020 21:50

All these people who need more than five tins of vegetables a week - have you ever thought of using fresh veg?

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 21:56

Igotthemheavyboobs On behalf of that checkout operator, thank you. Thank you so much. lt's people like you who are pleasant and have a chat and make us laugh that help us keep going.

l've just remembered another one. Not necessarily to do with the lack of stock, but our store's deli sells hot cooked chickens. Our store policy is that even though they're in a sealed ziplock top bag, we put them in a flimsy 'meat bag' as well just in case they leak. l tend to leave them til last, then l can get them scanned and bagged up while the customer finishes packing their shopping or pays. This man the other day had one, and l was opening the flimsy bag while he finished his packing. As l was about to put the chicken into it, he shouted at me, quite aggressively, "I DON'T WANT ONE!"
l started to explain that it's our store policy, but he interrupted me and shouted "I SAID I DON'T WANT ONE! LEAVE IT!"
This man was about my age, early 60s. Old enough to know better.

l was soooo tempted to channel Alan Bennet on The Lady in the Van and say "Oh, please your fucking self!" but you can't, can you....

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:01

JudyCoolibar What amazed me was that the ones who kicked off the most about the restrictions on tinned veg had, without exception, an absolute ton of fresh and frozen veg.
l know that a lot of older people tend to buy tinned veg. My mam used to. Because she had a (comparatively) small fridge freezer, and if she bought fresh, she'd end up throwing some of it out. Also, a lot of tinned veg is bought by people who are donating it to the foodbanks.

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Theukisgreatt · 17/03/2020 22:02

I tried to buy four tins of beans today (the limit said 5) and a lady actually swiped one out of my basket and told me off like a child (apparently it's now 3). I don't have a freezer, I followed the basic advice and have not stock piled, now I'm running low on essentials because no shops are stocking the basics. I work in a larger town so I'm going to look there tomorrow.

KatherineJaneway · 17/03/2020 22:03

l imagine if it kicked off it'd be up to anyone who was available and who felt able to deal with the situation to wade in and help. lt's worrying

It is. Trouble is if any retail worker argues back, they can lose their job.

I have worked on and off in retail for years. Few years ago I helped out in one of our stores near Christmas. One woman had a go at me for charging her for a plastic bag, I politely reminded her it was not a store decision but the law, but she was all cat bum face at me. Someone else got upset as their son couldn't buy crackers. No he can't, they are classed as fireworks and the till refuses to let me continue the sale until I have verified he is of age to buy them. Same as your non alcoholic beer. Some brands actually have minute traces in it so the till forces me to check your age.

katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:05

BabloHoney The store l work in is restricting the sales of baby food, nappies, baby wipes, etc. lt must be horrendous to have to worry about running out of baby food and to be fair, the only people l've seen buying it have had young children or babies with them.

One young woman said she hadn't many nappies left, and she hadn't been able to get any at all, "never mind the right size."

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:09

KatherineJaneway l've had people complain that they're asked for ID when buying non-alcoholic drinks. Even the Baileys pouring cream at Christmas needed ID.
l can see their point, but if l don't check (and we have cctv which they will check randomly) l could be sacked. lf the panel comes up on the screen, we have to actually qualify that we've checked.
l had three young (late teens early 20s) people at my till the other day buying 2 bottles of spirits. The rule is that if they're in a group, they all have to provide ID. One of them didn't have his so l had to refuse them. They were not happy. Just about threw the bottles back at me.

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katseyes7 · 17/03/2020 22:12

Theukisgreatt She shouldn't have talked to you like that. l try to be pleasant and l put all their tins of veg on top of the till drawer, explain the restriction, and suggest that they choose which ones they want to take. Some are happy, some aren't. But nobody should be talking to you like a child.

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itispersonal · 17/03/2020 22:17

You have my full sympathy op and alongside with the Nhs need a big pat on the back at the minute. A good majority of people are looking after selves rather than working as a community
My friend who works in retail is exhausted, anxious at the moment and they've only been in 1 day this week.

The shops are full of people but no stock.
They don't know when people will stop panic buying, and the shops having nothing on the shelves is causing the panic buying to continue.

Shop have got to be stricter, 3 item restrictions. They happily do this when stuff is on offer to restrict buyers so why aren't they doing this now. Another shop worker friend told me one man bought 49 bottle of pasta sauce and the shop has no restrictions on items, it's ludicrous, selfish.

I fear for low income people, people who were already using food banks.

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