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The 'Positive Mental Health' Corona virus thread

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RapidRainbow · 13/02/2020 10:42

There are a lot of posts of people worrying. I thought it could be helpful to share positive and assuring information in one thread.

For me, the most reassuring thing so far is the fact that of approx. 1500 people in the UK suspected to have and tested for CV have come back as negative.

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Msmcc1212 · 19/02/2020 06:56

There is an article in New Scientist today talking about how the spread is slowing and reasons why it might just fizzle out. Smile

madeyemoodysmum · 19/02/2020 07:18

Can you elaborate or link Mcm? Smile

RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 11:49

I can't source it now as I was reading around but to summarise what I read, one of the reasons CV has been so contagious is because it has a low mortality rate . The SARS virus fizzled out so easily because people were infected and died so didn't have time to pass it on.

That kind of makes sense as to why it may have passed SARS levels but doenst necessarily make it worse.

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RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 11:50

Can anyone quote the article? We need a subscription to read the full thing.

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RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 12:01

I appreciate that this doesn't reassure everyone but if you're nuggets fear is for your kids and yourself (presuming a lot of Mums are under 39 but yes I know older women can have kids too!!!)

"There were no deaths among children aged up to 9, despite at least two cases of newborn babies infected through their mothers.
Up to age 39, the death rate remains low at 0.2 percent."
The fatality rate increases gradually with age. For people in their 40s it is 0.4 percent, in their 50s it is 1.3 percent, in their 60s it is 3.6 percent and their 70s it is 8.0 percent.

www.sciencealert.com/large-chinese-study-finds-most-coronavirus-infections-are-mild

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madeyemoodysmum · 19/02/2020 16:37

Ahhh annoying the new scientist storey you have to subscribe.

ScarlettDarling · 19/02/2020 17:54

Got to say, I love a thread where people are being nice and trying to reassure each other. It's so nice to see a bit of kindness.

HairyFloppins · 19/02/2020 18:00

Any more positivity to add on here?

Scared shitless after reading the preppars thread.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 19/02/2020 18:58

I think the preppers thread is just a bit alarmist....

namechangerblob · 19/02/2020 19:16

The preppers thread is making me feel physically and mentally ill yet I can't stop checking in on it. Something in my brain wants me to be fully aware of the worst case scenario in case I've just got my head in the sand. It must be realistic for that many to be in support of it?

SirVixofVixHall · 19/02/2020 19:24

I am 56 but I have two children under 16, my youngest is only 12. My big fear is this killing me and therefore leaving my children motherless, so having a thread that doesn’t sent me into a complete spiral of panic is a good thing. Thank you OP.

How long do vaccines take to develop, does anyone know ?

SirVixofVixHall · 19/02/2020 19:25

Preppers thread literally stopped me sleeping and gave me palpitations !

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 19/02/2020 19:38

How many people are there on the preppers thread, though? Not that many out of a population of getting on for seventy million, when you think of it. Probably fewer out of that number than believe the moon-landings were faked, or than believed CJD would Get Us All.

namechangerblob · 19/02/2020 19:54

I see that but I am spooked that there is so little in the mainstream media - as if they've been gagged to prevent mass panic etc. Sorry, I know that isn't in the nature of this thread.

RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 20:06

I just think the media go with whatever is the biggest news for them right now. They really hammered the CV headlines but there's not a lot left for them to say.

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RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 20:19

I've popped this collage together with figures provided by @twiglet1234 up thread on 13th February and todays stats. I had to cut some countries off so I cut off the obvious growth countries. Outside of these areas, there are few new cases since the first cases as far back for some as 4 weeks ago.

The 'Positive Mental Health' Corona virus thread
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RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 20:24

@namechangerblob I understand you feeling anxious but please don't add new theories like this on this thread, you could trigger someone else who hadn't thought this initially.

I think the preppers boards is not the place for anyone who is anxious, prepping for any disaster would be unsettling and reading about people who like to do so is just going to fuel feelings that convince you that it may be necessary! I don't know what to suggest if you can't stay away, try hiding the threads so you cut off your supply!?!

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RapidRainbow · 19/02/2020 20:26

As of 19 February, a total of 5,216 people have been tested, of which 5,207 were confirmed negative and 9 positive.

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KoalasandRabbit · 19/02/2020 20:27

This is a good source of stats and has them on a map - it can take 24 hours to update new figures so sometimes a day lag.

gisanddata.maps.arcgis.com/apps/opsdashboard/index.html#/bda7594740fd40299423467b48e9ecf6

KoalasandRabbit · 19/02/2020 20:31

Namechanger I find CNN a good source of news, don't think it's being gagged here but numbers are so small it's not front page news. A few countries I don't trust the figures on but even in ones I'm sure are reporting like Singapore its tiny outside China and the one cruise ship.

ChipotleBlessing · 19/02/2020 21:38

There are gagging orders which can be applied in this country, but there’s absolutely no evidence that that has happened here. Try briefly glancing at the alarmist stories in the Express - no way would that be happening if any gagging orders were in place. There are also plenty of countries where such regulations don’t even exist and many people in the UK consume news from those countries too - everyone is saying the same things.

eeeyoresmiles · 19/02/2020 22:38

When you're anxious, it's really tempting to scour the web for news stories and to keep checking for updates, hoping for reassurance or just more information.

I think it can be helpful to try to accept that we can't find out what happens in the Coronavirus box set by binge watching. We have to wait and see what happens in each new episode as and when it comes out, and yes it is a bit scary not knowing and fearing that it might be awful, but we can't get reassurance any quicker by losing hours of our lives to reading about it every day. We need to try to park it, as something we're following in the background, not the main focus of our daily lives.

I agree with whoever said check the news every so often, not all the time. Meditation can also be really good for slowing down racing anxious thoughts, as is distracting yourself with lighthearted tv and podcasts. It's important to stick to normal routines and not let everything drop in favour of reading the news or planning for possible illness - lots of time away from the web, relaxing tv to wind down, plenty of sleep.

There are some good chrome extensions and apps for phones that will let you limit how much the you can spend reading the news or browsing (to a certain amount per hour or per day). HeadSpace and Calm are good for meditation, too.

Our anxious brains want resolution right now, not uncertainty, but we're going to be stuck with uncertainty for a while. We will cope though - as a society and as individuals we have so many strengths that put us in a really good position to deal with whatever happens.

KaptenKrusty · 19/02/2020 23:20

That other thread was getting crazy - I swear some people on there were actually disappointed that it all slowed down and there were no new cases in the uk..it was not nice reading! This is much better! I’m off to Japan in a few weeks and I can’t bloody wait they cancelled the Tokyo marathon today though due to the corona virus - am hoping things will be ok and they dont start cancelling flights as I really want to go :(

KaptenKrusty · 19/02/2020 23:22

Sorry that actually sounded like I was being a bit negative haha - I’m confident that it’s all fine and have no worries about travelling there!! Hahah (don’t want to make my tone come across sounding like a prepper) 😂🤭