Hamas though, apart from on the day of Oct 7 which should normally have been stopped, can’t give a gun to each of its people and send them, together with further armed state militia, into Israeli territory to kill, harass and imprison the people and build settlements there. It is not like for like in terms of power. As for the bombing of Gaza, that is enabled by the greatest power in the world.
As it is, the settlers are the ones effectively actually doing to Palestinians what they, the settlers, say the Palestinians want to do to them.
There do seem to be Palestinians who don’t want Hamas tactics judging by their recent protests including by many young men who many would presume to be terrorists.. And as you say, there are Israelis who want peace and integration, or a two state solution - such as those Israelis we saw bravely helping the Palestinians in the Louis Theroux programme. (I saw a criticism of the programme saying it would have been good to have shown a bit more about them and I agree. ) We also saw Israelis from similar groups in Gaza trying to stop extremists from blocking aid trucks.
These voices on either side need help.