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Conflict in the Middle East

Can someone explain Islamophobia to me?

729 replies

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 19:33

I don't think I have an irrational fear of Muslims, but I think I have a reasonable concern about radical Islam, does that make me Islamophobic?

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PTSDBarbiegirl · 22/02/2025 22:46

Yes, anyone expressing rational fear and concern about beliefs and behaviours of Muslim people should now be labelled as ‘Islamophobic’. This may be confusing to some as Muslim people often describe Islam as being a very tolerant religion and should pose no fear to women who don’t wish to cover their frightening, dangerous faces and bodies, gay people or anyone who questions Islam.

WhoevenamIinlife · 22/02/2025 22:49

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 21:03

I'm not sure how you got there from here?

I'm curious because I've been called Islamophobic for, for example, objecting to full body coverings on women in London and I don't think it is Islamophobic to be concerned both for the autonomy of the covered woman and the potential security risks of not being able to identify the covered person.

What is the issue with women covering themselves in public? Unless they are indeed oppressed and forced (that would make it an abusive relationship which a lot of women unfortunately are in) but then how can you differentiate that a woman is forced into covering? I guess much like you can't differentiate which women expose themselves because they are forced to believe they are not attractive enough unless they have skin on display?

peanutbuttertoasty · 22/02/2025 22:49

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:44

You know that in both the before and after photos that the women were all Muslims? It’s extremism in 2 of many countries that are majority Muslim that you have highlighted here, not an issue with the religion itself.

Sorry, did you want more examples? This won’t take long… I was simply being brief

Gringee · 22/02/2025 22:49

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:33

So objecting to niqab and burka is not Islamophobia then.

Yes it is islamaphobic to object to only these face coverings on the basis of public safety and emancipation of women because only Muslims wear them but not all wear them and the vast majority do choose to wear them. In addition, there is no threat to public safety unless you think that Muslims are inherently a threat.

The OP is concerned about covering women’s faces, not Islam.
No she’s not. Her entire thread is I’m not Islamaphobic but…. lists concerns about Islam…

I’m perfectly happy for women who have free choice, to choose Islam and to dress modestly. I will object to regimes that force women to stay indoors, prevent them Speaking or being seen outdoors, prevent than speaking outside the family. That I object to massively.

Your views expressed here are not islamaphobic. Hopefully you can see the difference between yours and the OPs.

I don’t think it’s Islamophobic. If you saw an increase in people going around your area wearing masks or balaclavas, you might be concerned. If you learned they were members of a specific political group (eg antifa), you might start saying that you think antifa members going around in balaclavas was a bad thing and that it should be discouraged. You might not mention other people who sometimes cover their faces (bikers or Muslim women) because these other groups are not around to a significant degree in your area. The issue is the antifa guys. This doesn’t mean you are prejudiced against antifa, it just means they are the group who are mostly causing the issue at the moment.

The question is are people really objecting to the face coverings per se or is it a cover for the fact that they don’t like Islam? I think it’s fine to dislike Islam or any other religion so to me that’s a moot point.

InterestQ · 22/02/2025 22:49

I agree with a pp here - I don’t believe the OP to be posting in good faith. Muslims in this country don’t deserve this sort of faux confusion designed to bring down lava on their heads. Extremists in all religions are a serious problem. The average Muslim on the street, the men and women you work with (or maybe the OP doesn’t know any…) or that are wedding guests at the weddings of your friends, are no worse or better than the other wedding guests, your other colleagues - they just have a different perspective.

This thread is horrible. I would hate my friends to read it.

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:50

Pissoffyouall · 22/02/2025 22:44

Summer Fever, it's not our aim to be a North African country - as you put it - or to copy any countries at all? This small island is one of the most successful thriving countries in the world where all humans are valued and equal and women enjoy some of the highest in the world equality with men?

It's not a great goal becomign a corrupt third world country where every tribe is out for themselves that only values money and power, treats women as inferior?

You are welcome to leave and see for yourself what freedom you can enjoy in the countries that practice the religion you are so supportive of - unless you are an 80 year old widow , probably none.

People in the Uk, like in other civilised countries are allowed their culture and not accepting certain oppressive things which is why close to a million a year try to make it a home?

Not all humans. And women can enjoy equality no matter how we dress, why would you want to control how women dress? It literally is oppression of women and counter to equality.

”third world country” is an outdated and derogatory term.

As for corruption, the U.K. is already corrupt, we have had thousands of years of the upper class out for itself.

I am not supportive of any particular religion, I am supportive of true freedom of religion and equality and you can’t have that by persecuting Muslim women for how they choose to dress.

SallyWD · 22/02/2025 22:50

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 21:00

Does that ever happen? I didn't see anyone asking Muslims in general to 'condemn' the attacks on October 7th.

How about you ask a Muslim this? It might enlighten you.

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 22:51

InterestQ · 22/02/2025 22:49

I agree with a pp here - I don’t believe the OP to be posting in good faith. Muslims in this country don’t deserve this sort of faux confusion designed to bring down lava on their heads. Extremists in all religions are a serious problem. The average Muslim on the street, the men and women you work with (or maybe the OP doesn’t know any…) or that are wedding guests at the weddings of your friends, are no worse or better than the other wedding guests, your other colleagues - they just have a different perspective.

This thread is horrible. I would hate my friends to read it.

So, we can't discuss the issue. Even discussing it is Islamophobic?

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Pissoffyouall · 22/02/2025 22:51

Vivi0 · 22/02/2025 22:42

What on earth is traditional Christian clothing?

Not trying to derail - but raised as Catholic, lived in a Christian country my entire life. Never heard of traditional Christian clothing.

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Unless she means what the Pope wears during the ceremony 😂 There is no such thing for people who aren't a Pope???

smooththecat · 22/02/2025 22:54

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 22:51

So, we can't discuss the issue. Even discussing it is Islamophobic?

Go ahead and discuss, but accept that disagreement, including questioning your position, is part of discussion. It’s debating 101.

WhoevenamIinlife · 22/02/2025 22:54

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 22:51

So, we can't discuss the issue. Even discussing it is Islamophobic?

I think this is an attention seeking thread but as a Muslim happy to take your questions about my oppression and any other views you have of me as a Muslim female living in the UK.

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:55

peanutbuttertoasty · 22/02/2025 22:49

Sorry, did you want more examples? This won’t take long… I was simply being brief

I can similarly post photos of countries with half naked women that are horribly oppressed too. The point is there is no correlation between what women wear or don’t wear and level of oppression of women. The only correlation between higher oppression of women and clothes is when a regime dictates to women what they can or cannot wear.

Even regimes that dictated unisex clothing tended to be more oppressive of women..

peanutbuttertoasty · 22/02/2025 22:57

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:55

I can similarly post photos of countries with half naked women that are horribly oppressed too. The point is there is no correlation between what women wear or don’t wear and level of oppression of women. The only correlation between higher oppression of women and clothes is when a regime dictates to women what they can or cannot wear.

Even regimes that dictated unisex clothing tended to be more oppressive of women..

I’m sorry I’ve read your post 4 times and still don’t understand it.

Fifiworks · 22/02/2025 22:58

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 21:51

Hair covering is a common theme in a lot of religious groups, Christian, Jewish, and Muslim. As far as I'm aware it's only certain Islamic groups that demand women be fully covered, and is some countries, also silent.

I'm not aware of any other religious groups who make such demands on women currently.

The number of Muslim women who dress in the burqa in Europe is tiny. I’m sure we are all against extremist governments like the Taliban.

I’m pro women being able to choose what they wear. If you are concerned about the human rights of women being forced to wear the burka by family members here in the UK, I think there are better ways to tackle it than being against the item of clothing itself.

So yes your concern seems to come from Islamophobia rather than from a concern for women’s rights.

Pissoffyouall · 22/02/2025 22:58

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:50

Not all humans. And women can enjoy equality no matter how we dress, why would you want to control how women dress? It literally is oppression of women and counter to equality.

”third world country” is an outdated and derogatory term.

As for corruption, the U.K. is already corrupt, we have had thousands of years of the upper class out for itself.

I am not supportive of any particular religion, I am supportive of true freedom of religion and equality and you can’t have that by persecuting Muslim women for how they choose to dress.

Of course uk has some corruption, but it's one of the least corrupt countries in the world. Don't compare it to most of the world where you have to bribe your way through the day - from traffic police to exam results to buying and selling votes or elections. It's like saying living in Woolwich is just the same as living in Richmond - both have crime. Thick person's argument.

Dinnerplease · 22/02/2025 23:00

Given that the majority of people killed by radical Islamists are Muslims, most Muslims have a pretty significant concern about radical islam/jihadism as well.

SallyWD · 22/02/2025 23:01

InterestQ · 22/02/2025 22:49

I agree with a pp here - I don’t believe the OP to be posting in good faith. Muslims in this country don’t deserve this sort of faux confusion designed to bring down lava on their heads. Extremists in all religions are a serious problem. The average Muslim on the street, the men and women you work with (or maybe the OP doesn’t know any…) or that are wedding guests at the weddings of your friends, are no worse or better than the other wedding guests, your other colleagues - they just have a different perspective.

This thread is horrible. I would hate my friends to read it.

Indeed

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 23:01

This thread is horrible. I would hate my friends to read it.

Same. Friends and work mates.

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 23:02

Dinnerplease · 22/02/2025 23:00

Given that the majority of people killed by radical Islamists are Muslims, most Muslims have a pretty significant concern about radical islam/jihadism as well.

Good point!

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inamarina · 22/02/2025 23:03

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 21:47

Yes, you can apply that mysterious logic to all our western clothing too then.
What is not feminist is applauding old men controlling what women can or cannot wear.

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What mysterious logic? Do you think women choose to cover their faces simply because they find it comfortable, or flattering, or whatever? Nothing to do with religious beliefs and modesty standards that result from these beliefs?

BaMamma · 22/02/2025 23:04

Fifiworks · 22/02/2025 22:58

The number of Muslim women who dress in the burqa in Europe is tiny. I’m sure we are all against extremist governments like the Taliban.

I’m pro women being able to choose what they wear. If you are concerned about the human rights of women being forced to wear the burka by family members here in the UK, I think there are better ways to tackle it than being against the item of clothing itself.

So yes your concern seems to come from Islamophobia rather than from a concern for women’s rights.

The burka is a symbol of oppression.

Are we all against extremist governments like the Taliban? Are you against the Islamic regime in Iran?

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InWalksBarberalla · 22/02/2025 23:04

Why do so many Muslims move from majority Muslim countries to non majority Muslim countries?

SallyWD · 22/02/2025 23:05

WhoevenamIinlife · 22/02/2025 22:54

I think this is an attention seeking thread but as a Muslim happy to take your questions about my oppression and any other views you have of me as a Muslim female living in the UK.

Yep, I wish all these women who are so concerned about Muslim women, actually listened to them for once. But no, it's not going to happen. They'd rather talk about you or at you, and tell you how awful your life is- because clearly they know more about the lives of Muslim women than you do.

peanutbuttertoasty · 22/02/2025 23:05

Dinnerplease · 22/02/2025 23:00

Given that the majority of people killed by radical Islamists are Muslims, most Muslims have a pretty significant concern about radical islam/jihadism as well.

Do you have evidence for that? I’d be curious to see official statistics.

but yes you are right. There are numerous warnings to the west from Islamic figures about the dangers of Islam. And presumably a good reason why no Islamic countries will take refugees from Palestine

Ddakji · 22/02/2025 23:06

SummerFeverVenice · 22/02/2025 22:26

The point is that women freely choose to wear items that even actively damage them and as baffling as that might be to you because you are from a different culture, it doesn’t mean all women that wear certain items are being forced to wear them.

London isn’t the centre of the world. Go to N Africa and you will see Muslim sects where the tradition is for men to veil and not the women.

You still haven’t answers how niqab and burka “fail” on the equality score. What’s your measure?

That men do the same. And no, sects in North Africa are not the point when discussing Islamophobia in the UK. Do try to keep relevant.

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