You might want a tally count kept, but that isn't how it works under IHL in real life conflicts.
These threads usually end up showing a clear disconnect between what a civilian thinks and what military regulated IHL states.
Families of military personnel understand the risks that comes with the job. I know that very well which I usually don't elaborate on.
Costs are always high in war which is why its always best NOT to start them, so everyone can slow clap Hamas for that on 7th October 2023.
There won't be any peace for anyone in the Middle East until/unless hostile States such as Iran and their terrorist proxies Hamas, Hezbollah and the Houthis are comprehensively dealt with.
While that's still a threat, there won't be peace. Indeed, Hamas admitted they did what they did on 7th October 2023 in order to destroy Israeli peace efforts with Arab States. Saudi was the most recent normalisation of relations with.