What do you mean, I refuse to care about them? Where did I say that?
I'm only stating the obvious, which is that Hamas are master manipulators. Their whole modus operandi is to ensure maximum civilian deaths. Then photojournalists, like the Al-Jazeera guy who was allegedly holding Noa captive, ensure that social media is flooded with incredibly distressing images of dead and dying children. It's a very effective way of horrifying us into pleading for a ceasefire, perhaps especially effective on a forum like MN, for obvious reasons.
Then you get people sincerely declaring things like "I want a ceasefire so that people in Palestine and Israel can live in peace and safety" - bless. If only that would be the outcome. No one really seems to give a toss what the consequences would be for Israel.