@Xenia maybe give people a little time to process things and work out what they want to do before rushing to push people back to an unstable country devastated by war.
Refugees didn't go abroad for a holiday and just think "oh, it's really nice here, I think I'll stay". Many people who have refugee status have experienced traumatic bereavement, torture, starvation, sexual assault, physical violence, and a very real chance that they would be murdered if they didn't run for their lives. It can take years to start feeling safe again, if that is even possible for some people, and the idea of going back to the place where those things happened, even when that place is also somewhere that is still 'home', can take time to work through.
Additionally, you're asking people to close up businesses, leave careers, relocate entire families, to take their loved ones into a very uncertain situation. Would you move your child to Syria at the moment? Probably not. You might be even less likely to move them if you had first-hand experience of what some of the forces still at play are capable of doing.