TTC after a Miscarriage - Keep Trying!!!!

[Diddle]

Well ladies, its about time we had a new thread, the old one is getting very long. Plus I think we need another fresh start, with lots of positive babydust:

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Get a big handful girls, i think we all need it.
I was trying to think of something great and positive to put, but this TTC lark is getting us all down, i'm fed up of trying, but we will all succeed eventually, our times will come.

It will be much better for our little ones to have a good start when our bodies are truly ready to carry them.

BFP's ?

Just checked the acronym list & couldn't see it

Thank you didle and strike1. {{{hugs back}}}

Today has gone fine. I had my scan this morning and everyhting is good - lining nice and thin and no retained products. So everyhting is nice and healthy there . And had my blood taken this afternoon and the results will be waiting for me when I get back from my holiday.

I can't wait to get AF so I can get down to business. Feeling much more positive today after good scan results. At least I know my uterus is back to normal and ready to take another egg

Mojomummy, BFP = Big Fat Postive
BFN = big fat negative

Just a quickie (will be having lots of them soon I hope!!) to let you know that I'm off on my hols early tomorrow. I've got loads to do today so will say cheerio now. I'm back next Saturday and will log on then to see how you are all doing.

I hope to come back and find some positive news. Good luck everyone. Take care of yourselves. Lots of {{{HUGS}}} and loads of baby dust ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

lottie - you still there?????

baggybear - glad to hear today wasn;t too bad for you, have a great weekend.

Lottielou - very glad you're back, everything is fine here, we're still trying. fingers crossed for this month again. But to be honest won't be too gutted if i'm not, as we are going to Disneyland Paris in a few weeks for our wedding anniversary and I really want to go on the rides.

Hope everyone else is ok.

Mojomummy - hows your day been and how are you feeling?

Hi Diddle, yeah ok. Spirits are up - thinking lucky what I have etc. Also glad I spoke to the miscarriage association.

Had my mum up for a couple of days as DH has been away. She was supposed to look after DD today, but went off in a huff. She hasn't been AT ALL supportive...never mind...I'll know not to bother with her again.

Just trying to get to grips with who's who on here, quite complicated following it all !

Sorry to see we have new ladies joining us xxxxx
Lets hope this lucky thread brings you as much comfort as its brought me (and hopefully a little luck too)

Feeling off colour.DD and nieces have all had colds and now I have it.Dh gave up beer all week and wonders why theres no action but feel rotten (and getting no results on dreaded ov kits which I swore I would not use)

Got to go as dd is sat on knee pouring her milk onto keyboard........(shes USUALLY in bed by 7...)

Morning all.
Mojo- welcome! Glad you found us. How are you feeling? I felt alot more relieved after mine, think of it as a fresh start. You can look to the future as well as remembering your little one. We're lucky in the fact we mananged to get a pic of the 7 wk scan (can't see much but our little beanie boo is there). Has pride of place in ds2's piccy album.
Baggy- welcome to you too. Rh neg mum here aswell. I read alot of info on the web about mc's with us. They had all the info about anti-bodies etc. Have you got kiddies already? My ds1 is AB positive, had no probs, had 3 mc's, ds2 is RH neg too, then mc in April. So who knows. My personal belief is that the body rejects serious abnormality hence mc's. Have a great holiday!
Petunia- congrats!!!!!!!
Peepee- Great to see hun!!!! Congrats to you too! How are you?
Humphreys- Glad dh is ok! Bet your nerves were shot to pieces!
Hiya everyone else. Lurking here. Have'nt had any info to report apart from af is back! Had glorious 17 days without her. In emmense pain, endo is killing, so now torn. Thinking if it's got worse, it'll be virtually impossible to conceive. So toying with the going to the dr, getting it lazored off but that means waiting for a year to ttc. So caught between a rock and a hard place atm.
Love to all xxxx

Excuse me Hellkat am i going mad. ARE YOU PG? How on earth did i miss that. Just confirm so i dont hand out the congrats premeturley(sp). !!!!

No hun, far from it. Af is back after only 17 days away. Don't think I even ov either
I think you got confused with me talking about scan piccys lol. I meant I was lucky to have got a pic of my little one before I mc.

hi
Well its countdown to test date. I am due next Thursday, I have some early tests so might give it a go on Monday.
I feel reasonably positive this month, which makes a change. I also have been feeling quite tired and have tender breasts. So who knows.
I am not stressing about it.
WHo else is testing this week?

Sorry Hellkat, i did musunderstand. Thought i wouldnt have missed that important piece of news.

You are having a nightmare with your af's. Are you going to use ov sticks at all. May be worth a try.

Cori all sounds posotive to me. Good Luck with testing. XXXXXX

Nope Maddy. Can't be bothered to. My body's always been really good letting me know when I do so going au natural. Yep af's being a royal pain in the ass!

Hellkat - good to hear from you, hope your family are all ok and doing well. sorry about your AF, shes a pain isn't she!!!

Mojomummy - glad you're in a positive mood. does some good to try and stay that way, but don't be surprised when another bad day comes, you've been through a lot.

Maddyd - How you doing today hunny??

Cori - I'm testing next week, due Friday, trying to wait until then, not feeling very positive, so not going to waste any tests by starting early. might not need to tests at all if AF shows up. Good luck to you though, and let us know what happens Monday.

Diddle-All good here ta! How's you and dh? Ds1 is away for 2 weeks with his dad to Devon so very quiet here. Making sure I'm playing lots of peek-a-boo with ds2 (ds1 and him played it all the time together) so he doesn't miss him too much. Yep af's driving me crazy. painkillers are'nt even getting near the pain so planning on a soak tonight. Bang goes lots of bd while ds1 is away hey?

Hellkat - All fine here, DH is good, working hard as always, DIY today, putting a new floor down in the utility room, as I STILL have no washing machine plumbed in. i'm sure it has been about 4 months now.
I'm very proud of myself this month, by now I would have been through a few tests and wasted loads of money, but i honestly haven;t done one yet. well done me.

Madddyd - how about you, have you managed to stay away from testing?? no porkies please, tell the truth

Well done!!! Can't test here. Ran out and decided not to bother buying anymore, especially whilst af is being so horrid. Thinking about going to the dr tomorrow if it does'nt ease up. TMI coming up, going through super+ pax and nightime pad every hour and a half! Also losing (apart from loads of blood) what looks like tissue. I'm presuming this is yet more stuff left behind from the last d&c. Definitely looks like I'll be asking for the laser surgery sooner rather than later. Feeling really woozy. So hot bath planned plus a night curled up with a blankie watching Sky!

Hi all, hope everyone is relaxing and enjoying the weekend.
Diddle well done for not testing, I am due same day as you I think (friday), so I'm counting down the days too. I can't decide how I feel this month symptoms wise. I am 9dpo, so pleased not to have seen any bleeding yet after last month, but I keep rushing to the loo thinking AF has arrived, as I keep getting really bad period pain, and just that moist feeling down below like she has arrived (sorry tmi ), but so far nothing, much to my relief. I'm also feeling really tired, and have very sore boobs. I'm kind of swinging one way one minute that these must be pg symptoms, and then the next that they are def signs of AFs imminent arrival. Only time will tell I know. Either way, unless AF arrives tonight, I am pleased to have had a longer cycle this month as I feel like if there was a little bean it would have had a chance to implant (if that makes sense??).

Hellkat your periods sound like a nightmare. No wonder you are feeling woozy loosing that much that quickly. ((((hugs)))) hope you can get to the doctor and he can do something for you really quickly.

nic- thanks hun! fingers crossed for testing!
ds2 is chucking a huge paddy! Think he'll be in bed soon!

Good luck to all the testers! Off on hols tomorrow til 1 Sept. May not get online during that time so fingers crossed for you all.
My AF due the day before I get back so my next post will be about whether of not a BFP has been achieved....
Good luck and have a nice few days (if at all posible!)

Evening ladies-phew, bought a new computer tower and DH has finally got it working (but bits have blown on it but at least it's not stopping me talking to you all)-felt like I had lost my right arm not being able to get on mumsnet.

Well-still waiting for AF-was due Thursday so did another test today and nope-not a thing. I am fed up now as just want to get on with it for next month. HellKat-are you being greedy again and borrowing my AF? Hope you manage to get rid of yours soon ((xx))

spub-have a lurvely holiday and let's hope you bring good news back with you ((xx))

Diddle, nicmum2boys, cori and maddyd-good luck with testing and anyone else that might be soon((xx))

CHOCOLATEPEANUT-hope you feel much brighter soon ((xx))

Hello to Mojomummy, baggybear (on hols), LunarSea, strike1, wishingchair, shelly24, petunia, peepee and welcome back Lottielou. Also hello to anyone else out there.

Right, must catch up with E-Bay and order some more sticks. Bought two tests £1 each from Tickertboo today-negative of course. I keep thinking I have duff tests but we all know that they must be right.

Anyway, byee for now and will speak tomorrow.

XXXXX

Hellkat - sounds like you're having a really rough time, i don't know how you keep going after losing all that blood, hope its easing off today, definitly get it lasered, you don't need all this hassle.

Baggybear - Hope you had a good weekend away, and are feeling a little more refreshed.

Humprheys - i wonder where AF is, have you had any symptoms??

Nicmum2boys - I'm trying to ignore any symptoms, i always read too much into them, and since the m/c's I seem to be having my pg symptoms when AF comes. Its so annoying. Yes i'm due Friday too, fingers crossed for us, although i'm really not holding out much hope, and this time i;m not kidding myself. I really don't expect anything.

lottielou are you with us today???? sorry i missed you on Friday, hope you're ok.

Spub - have a good holiday, enjoy the break and come back with some good news.

Maddyd, Cori - have you tested yet??? hope you're both OK.

Morning to anyone else i've missed.

Morning Everyone. Hope you are well. How you doing Hellkat? Diddle no point me testing as no bd action in my house last month due to me being poorly. Temp dropped today so af should be here in a few days,thankfully, its been the longest month ever. How about you? I know your af is due but any chance you could be pg?

There's always a chance maddyd but the there has every other month, and nothing happened, so we'll have to wait and see.