TTC after a Miscarriage - Keep Trying!!!!

[Diddle]

Well ladies, its about time we had a new thread, the old one is getting very long. Plus I think we need another fresh start, with lots of positive babydust:

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Get a big handful girls, i think we all need it.
I was trying to think of something great and positive to put, but this TTC lark is getting us all down, i'm fed up of trying, but we will all succeed eventually, our times will come.

It will be much better for our little ones to have a good start when our bodies are truly ready to carry them.

phew, you know when you just feel like all the energy has been drained from you, well i feel like that today. Ths kids have been great and i find that when i've got more fo them they need me less, but i'm exhausted just the same.
Having a massage in an hour, can't wait, need relaxing.
hope you're all ok

yes slight exaggeration but thats what I meant.

Just got back from activity afternoon at library.Great fun for kids and us!! Bloke that run it looked like the bloke from Play School!Come back with loads paintings and kids knackered!

My calender is marked up from this months marathon bd sesh.DH told NO BOOZE the whole time (about 10 days)so hopefully have a better chance.

Going away in Oct and was holding on to buy hol clothes in case pg but now know that even if I get pg before then I will fit in normal clothes now.Bummer.

sounds like you've had a very day CP, bummer about no new clothes, I keep looking at the maternity clothes in the sales, feeling very temped to stock up just in case, but then i don't want to tempt fate. its a toughy.

not sure what a very day is, think i mean busy oops

Diddle you sound like my mum, bless

I know what you mean about avoiding ov time, i prob been doing it wrong times anyway. Pain been a bit better today thankfully as it is very tiresome.

Im not buying any new clothes incase i need maternity clothes, at this rate ill look like a right old tramp if i keep waiting

Shelly any more news for us yet, im getting butterflies for you.

Chocop i got you and Shelly mixed up the other day talking about work and sickness. i work from home so pretty flexible when i do it. Its why im on the comp so much, im meant to be data inputting but the lure of mn is too great.

Hey girls
I've just written a bloody essay on the aprilbabyshowers.com thread,giving all the latest.
I'm really soz,would write it on this page but am just off out till about 7,and am in a real rush!!
Hope everyones ok....if you read my message please don't think i'm mad!!,just want to be def....(sorry!!)will be back later.x.x.

Shelly i will copy and paste it on here for you

here is Shelly's essay, and it is a essay too

Hry girlsHope your all doing ok today.x
As for me,well i don't know how i feel really,have got butterflies and feel abit sick,but thats cos of everything thats happening right now,did another test today(yeah,i know,am seriously wasting money,and should just wait abit!)It was a thicker line than yesterday,and slightly darker too,i think i am but that its just really early still.Please don't think i'm crazy,but i'm really scared and keep thinking 'i'll wait another day',and sure enough the test gets darker each time.
I don't want to go to the doctors yet because i want to wait until i'm def that my period would have been and gone,and i want a really strong result,instead of the ones i've got.
I didn't help matters really this morning when i was on a site where loads have people had written that they had loads of positives then went to doc,did a blood test and it was neg!?there was loads of women all saying similar things,and it done my head in!and made me give in and do another bloody test!!!
I'm so scared to even get my hopes up even alittle bit!!!what if its all for nothing?,i couldn't handle getting all excited and then finding out i'm not!
I've already done my DH's head in and hes gone down the pub,cos i keep asking him questions and repeating myself!! Hes 98% sure that i am,but like me doesn't want to get our hopes up just yet.
I must sound really annoying,and i'm sorry,and your prob all shouting at me'GET A BLOODY DIGITAL TEST!!',but i'm too scared to do that just yet,i just wanted to let you all know whats going on,as its really important for me to write on mn,and let all my(mixed)emotions out,...sorry.x.x.
I've just been through so much lately that i won't let myself even get alittle bit excited,i've been too used to disappointment already this year.

Ahh Shelly i do understand really. im infamous for bloody false posotives. But do me a favour will you DO A BLODDY DIGITAL TEST, WILL YOU

Here, here !

Anyone around!?

Hiya all!
Have'nt been around as much because trying, hard as it is, not to obsess as much with this ttc lark. Sad as I am, been testing on/off every other day for a week lol.
How's everyone??
Welcome Aunty!
Off to watch BB live. Take care girls xxxxxxxxxxxx

ok,well talk to you all soon.x

Hi Shelly any more of your pink lines???

Baby girl I am here.How many positives is that then?! You ARE pregnant.

I know how you must feel.Dont forget we have had very similar experiences. You do kind of become very protective of yourself and I can understand not wanting to get too excited as the disappointment of whats happened previously is overwhelming.But postive means positive.You are young and healthy and there is no reason that this time things will not go your way.

Do the digi test.If I am right your period is due tomorrow? Get one (now if you can,get to the supermarket) do it and see that you are IN WRITING and then go to bed tonight having peaceful dreams.Tomorrow you can ring GP and get them to arrange an early scan. They will watch you v closley this time and you will be ok.I am so sure about that

Are you still there c.p?.x

I'm here shelly how are you doing? Have you done another test or are you to scared to admit it might be true? (I know you'll be happy but scared to i mean)

Please be there,i must have really screwed up the AF predicting then,if you've worked it out to be tomorrow?how did you come up with that?.x
Everything is very surreal right now,your the only one i know who really knows what i've been through,and the only one who can imagine how scared i am right now!
I'm afraid of the dissapointment if i'm not,and also afraid if its good news,because it almost feels too good to be true!

Hi xena
Yeah i am really scared of the result confirming that i am actually preg!
I've been through the worst time of my life already this year when my little boy was stillborn,i don't know how strong i am either way!

Thing is they have been very faint lines,and only today has it looked slightly stronger and can up quicker than the others.
Thats 4 tests with a mark now(crazy isn't it,i really have lost the bloody plot!!)

Do know, I just typed you a really long message but it didn't soudn right. I'm really wishing this is it for you shelly and that everything works out, as you really deserve it after what you have been through.xx

sorry that should have said 'do you know'

Your pregnant my love, go to the chemist and buy a CB digi test and your see it written 'PREGNANT'

never used a digi test before, are they really that much better?

Diddle, me and dh have a bathroom showroom. Bathrooms are the new kitchens!! Thank the lord for all the TV make over madness. If you need to know about whirlpools or bogs I'm your woman.

Feeling sorry for myself, had m/c on sunday, had 3 days off and had to go to work today. Really didn't want to but had to. If I had a normal job I would have taken a couple of weeks. Still keep crying.

congrats shelly, fingers crossed for you